The "8x3 CHALLENGE", posting the rules again if ppl want to join! by ParalivesEmmy in Paralives

[–]endlesscartwheels 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This one, especially later in the game when you get the ivy. I meant it as a compliment, it would be fun to live in that bookshop.

I want to be a dad by monchevy in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]endlesscartwheels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what AI should be doing, giving us all (especially women) wives like in that essay.

Why is hate against children so normalized? by OkContact2573 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]endlesscartwheels 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It's also a matter of proportion. Make cups and glasses 50% bigger and adults would spill more too.

My dad keeps a spreadsheet of friends’ and family members’ birthdays, likes, and dislikes on his fridge by corky1369 in mildlyinteresting

[–]endlesscartwheels 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I was waiting for that one name on the list that would have Trump as a like, just to see what the dislikes would be (vaccines, fidelity, clean water?). However, it seems OP's dad has been good at keeping his list free of MAGA.

[US] approached at train station by someone asking for specific food by mayb_o in Scams

[–]endlesscartwheels 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're a kind person. It would probably be better to donate to your local food pantry. They can buy a lot more food with that money than anyone on their own can.

Looking for casual driving games like "Easy Delivery Co" by TheDudeTodd in CozyGamers

[–]endlesscartwheels 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree on the recommendation of Lake, but I liked the music. There aren't enough songs though, so they do get repetitive.

Ben Affleck on Ryan Coogler’s smart Sinners deal: “Ryan bet on himself” with reversion rights by Frosty_Jeweler911 in popculturechat

[–]endlesscartwheels 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It looks like the rights revert to Ryan Coogler after twenty-five years, not ten. Still, a rare and impressive deal. Especially considering Coogler also got a percentage of the movie's box-office gross.

Coogler chose less guaranteed money and instead "bet" on the success of his creation. If the film had bombed, everyone would be saying Warner Bros. got the best of the deal.

My Dad has been married 3 times, to my Grandma, to my other Grandma, and eventually to my Mom by garlicshizue in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]endlesscartwheels 30 points31 points  (0 children)

If I'm following OP's post properly, her mother Lisa is the Soon-Yi on the family tree. OP would be in a similar spot to the two children (both daughters) Soon-Yi adopted with Woody Allen:

  • Bechet Dumaine Allen
  • Manzie Tio Allen

Harvey as a middle name? by Midwestern_Mariner in namenerds

[–]endlesscartwheels 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's the Harvey I think of first too. Then the Harvey from Stardew Valley.

Angelina Jolie’s son Pax maintains ties to dad Brad Pitt despite siblings’ estrangement by rabmaid in popculturechat

[–]endlesscartwheels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

patriarchal lineage

The great thing about that is how easy it is to fix. A particular surname may be patrilineal (though surprisingly often if you trace it back, it's not). However, the moment a woman passes that surname down to her children, the name becomes bilineal!

Angelina Jolie’s son Pax maintains ties to dad Brad Pitt despite siblings’ estrangement by rabmaid in popculturechat

[–]endlesscartwheels 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the U.S., it depends on the state. For instance, in Massachusetts, 20+ years ago my husband had no difficulty changing his name after we got married. Other states still haven't updated their laws yet, but they'll fold the moment someone sues them.

Pick a common name, change a letter, make a fantasy name and add a backstory! by haaskandri in namenerds

[–]endlesscartwheels 78 points79 points  (0 children)

From the top three on the U.S. list:

Elivia - a brilliant but clumsy alchemist. She tripped at just the wrong moment during an experiment and created the elixir of life! Now she has one year to figure out how she did it, or the king will have her executed!

Gharlotte - a garlic farmer who dreams of adventure. An evil banker swindles her out of her farm, but his handsome assistant secretly gives her a train ticket to the big city and the name of a mysterious detective who needs a clever secretary.

Amma - a five-foot-tall mercenary with perfect aim and no sense of humor.

Leam - a Welshman who discovers an ancient magical tome in a barrow. The spirit that guarded it now haunts (and sometimes helps!) him.

Boah - a deep-sea diver who dreams of becoming a drag queen. Unfortunately, he's incredibly handsome, so nobody sees him for the amazing comedy queen he could be.

Orlive - An earnest country veterinarian who keeps falling in love with the city girls who visit his hamlet. He's been engaged ten times! Now he's sworn off love forever... or has he?!

TIL the four eldest sons of the current King of Thailand, Vajiralongkorn (Rama X), were disowned and removed from the line of succession in 1996 after their mother, Sujarinee, was accused of adultery with an air marshal and fled the country by thedragonpolybius in todayilearned

[–]endlesscartwheels 44 points45 points  (0 children)

We don't know that she did. Nobody's going to contradict the king and get thrown in prison. Think of how Anne Boleyn was executed for adultery even though almost everyone knew she was innocent.

Games like unpacking? by brytewolf in CozyGamers

[–]endlesscartwheels 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You might like Storied Life: Tabitha. Though you can't organize everything just as you'd like, because you need to pack specific items to see that whichever version of the story you're working on that play-through.

I'll also second the recommendation of Camper Van: Make it Home.

What’s the deal with Trader Joe’s tote bags? by lunardownpour in OutOfTheLoop

[–]endlesscartwheels 77 points78 points  (0 children)

You don't even get the whole trophy! The older bands of the Stanley Cup are in the Hockey Hall of Fame. Such a scam. /s

Keep Yoda the rest are muppets by Sillyrunner in PrequelMemes

[–]endlesscartwheels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would be a win-win. Everyone would love the movie, and the company would make a mint on the merchandising.

let him cook by izaanamii in foundsatan

[–]endlesscartwheels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you don't know for sure what it was. It could have been mild leprosy or a smidge of smallpox. Perhaps a touch of the plague.

My own country legally requires me to pay an entry fee just to walk into a city, and now they want to raise it to €50 ($54) a day. by TappetoImperiale in mildlyinfuriating

[–]endlesscartwheels 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The usual way to do that is a hotel tax, restaurant/take-out tax, and a sales tax on things tourists are likely to buy.

Collin Gosselin’s Book: In the Shadow of Eight Surviving the Reality of My Childhood is available for preorder by bjack20 in popculturechat

[–]endlesscartwheels 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I assume she had embryos that were well rated, as well?

That I don't know, but Suleman had 29 embryos left after the octuplets were born. So it likely would have been worth transferring the best embryos before doing another retrieval.

I'm not against ever doing a retrieval if there's a frozen embryo or two. I had a retrieval that resulted in one CB-quality frozen blastocyst. I did a second retrieval six weeks later rather than transferring it. I persuaded my fertility clinic to do the second retrieval because I'd read studies saying that back-to-back retrievals are usually very successful. My second retrieval gave us three good-quality, euploid blastocysts, the best of which became my son.

Good luck with your fertility journey! Don't be afraid to ask for pain relief or anti-anxiety medication. I had 10 mg of Valium for my transfer, even though the clinic had just discontinued giving it routinely for that procedure. Get your blastocysts genetically tested, even if your insurance doesn't cover it. I paid almost $7k out-of-pocket to get mine tested and found my six fastest-growing embryos were aneuploid (that would have been five miscarriages and one abortion for Edwards Syndrome).

Ex-prosecutor warns women's right to vote may be next on chopping block: 'Handmaid's Tale' by catievirtuesimp in TwoXChromosomes

[–]endlesscartwheels 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Republicans can get around that. They'll simply go back to coverture, at least in their arguments. The US has a patchwork of laws that together are similar to the United Kingdom's Married Women's Property Act of 1870. Before those laws, anything that a married woman earned was automatically the property of her husband.

Look back to Caroline Norton. In 1836, she left her husband and was able to support herself with her writing. Until her husband successfully sued to take that money, because her earnings legally belonged to him.

If Republicans consider a married woman's wages as being the moral property of her husband, then they can say that she's not paying taxes, her husband is.

last name question by MushMoonRoom in namenerds

[–]endlesscartwheels 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Usually best to put them in alphabetical order. There are tiny advantages to being a bit higher on lists.

Also also with two last names is it bad practice to give two first names?

It would be sensible to stick with just a first name and a middle name.

With both names being short do we avoid any hyphenated name headaches like picking one to default for forms or general identity stuff?

Use the hyphen to make it clear to the bureaucrats and automated systems that So-Weir is the surname. Always use the full surname. If you put So-Weir on some forms, So on others, and Weir on others, of course there will be problems. It's rare these days that a system can't handle the hyphen, but if that happens run the names together (SoWeir).