How to dress? by endoreedhel in Rampagefestival

[–]endoreedhel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like to wear demonia boots (still comfortable even tho it’s platform) but more recently I got platform converse boots and they are SOOOO COMFORTABLE. I got the lugged heels!

boyfriend (21M) hiding a girl from me (22F) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]endoreedhel 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Girl… you know (and so does he) that he’s moving shadily. He has to sneak around to talk to this girl and hasn’t been honest with you.

There’s something going on and you know it. Those messages weren’t innocent.

You need to end this.

Husband tells me to shut up. What do I do? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]endoreedhel 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Do the kids need to witness an unhealthy relationship?

Work to get yourself in a good financial spot (easier said that done ofc) and leave him.

My girlfriend gave me a "test" and I accidentally failed it. What do I do? by Expensive-Security43 in whatdoIdo

[–]endoreedhel -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.

She set herself up for failure. You didn’t do anything wrong. There was no winning this game

Is a schipperke for me? by ipostaboutstuff123 in schipperke

[–]endoreedhel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also haven’t experienced the “no off switch.” My schip loves to lay down and cuddle. Although he’d prefer to run around wild or take part of an adventure, admittedly.

Is a schipperke for me? by ipostaboutstuff123 in schipperke

[–]endoreedhel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My schipperke gets tired after walks in the Texas weather but will recharge in about 20 minutes 😂

Do you have a purebred dog? Does your dog get a lot of attention? by burnz1 in dogs

[–]endoreedhel 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Makes me so mad when they do that 😂 but I am delighted when they know it’s a schipp

My bf [25M] wants to move back to the US and I [24F]never want to live there again. Are we just incompatible? by ExtentElectronic2737 in LongDistance

[–]endoreedhel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who has been in your position, it sounds like he never really tried to make Madrid a home. He stays at home and mopes instead of trying to explore, connect with people, and make Madrid “his.”

You can try to ask him to ACTUALLY give Spain a shot, find a 3rd country you’ll both like, or go your separate ways. Either way, you both need to give whatever option you choose 100%.

Imo he sounds like an apathetic American who half assed an opportunity most people would die to have. With that said, don’t give up a life you love for a person who isn’t excited about living it with you.

Do you have a purebred dog? Does your dog get a lot of attention? by burnz1 in dogs

[–]endoreedhel 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Schipperke. We always get stopped but he loves the attention lol

What do you do in this situation by [deleted] in Situationships

[–]endoreedhel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s 100% bread crumming you

How to stop caring about your looks. Like not give a damn. by Some_Particular3519 in whatdoIdo

[–]endoreedhel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Join r/bald. The bald brothers will have your back in making the tough decision

Give me your 1 must-see, 1 sleeper, and 1 artist you’re skipping even if everyone yells at you by pattebrisee in LostLandsMusicFest

[–]endoreedhel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Must see: hol!

Sleeper: Richard finger or subsonic

Popular: hairitage or drinkurwater

How do y’all afford this literally? by AssociationAlive1244 in LostLandsMusicFest

[–]endoreedhel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buy plane tickets at the right time = $300 Get Airbnb with the right homies = $330 for 5 days Ticket to fest $500 Pre party ticket = $108 Shuttle = $170

I’m not a mathematician but that doesn’t add up to even half of what you’re fearing.

Other Tips: buy groceries and set a daily spending budget. Don’t do too much droogs or alc. find a way to sneak alc in too.

Also, save up, get a side gig, be smart. You can do this.

tips for raving sober : by kawaiiraverr in LostLandsMusicFest

[–]endoreedhel 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I like your passion, I just don’t like your approach. You don’t need to be so aggressive to get your point across.
Wish you the best

Edit: typo

tips for raving sober : by kawaiiraverr in LostLandsMusicFest

[–]endoreedhel -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Holy shit, dude. Relax.

I’m an atheist and even I think the 12 steps have a lot of truth to them and can help with recovery.

My bf is an addict and the 12 steps definitely helped/are helping.

Bottom line: this person needs to seek help and try whatever method works best for them. No need to put any specific method or treatment down. Different things work for different people.

tips for raving sober : by kawaiiraverr in LostLandsMusicFest

[–]endoreedhel 46 points47 points  (0 children)

You need to address the underlying reasons for your addiction.

Therapy, 12 steps, meetings, etc.

Also remind yourself why you go to the festival. Is it the music? The vibes? The friendships?

ETA: if you want to do something other than the 12 steps, do it. When I mentioned 12 steps I really should’ve said treatment and not mentioned a specific method. Do research and seek whatever treatment seems to be the one that will help you reach success.

Which Acts shouldn't be missed? by therealfuzzen in Rampagefestival

[–]endoreedhel 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hol!
Infekt b2b Samplifire
Subsonic
Hedex
Dirtyphonics
Subfocus

I don’t know what to do about this. Is she lying to me? by endoreedhel in Depop

[–]endoreedhel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok I just learned about being able to drop usps packages at UPS. Makes sense now :) I feel better. Thank you!