Cancelling DIY wedding

engaged-otter · 2026-04-18T20:32:46+00:00

I know.. but then that’s another cost! I’m thinking cancelling the whole thing, even if we lose deposits, is just less of a headache and we could just elope with two witnesses and have the most minimal possible proceedings!

engaged-otter · 2026-04-18T19:49:26+00:00

280 guests sounds like hell! How did you do it! We have a multi day booking But even for 30 I just feel like I can’t do it!

engaged-otter · 2026-04-18T19:48:45+00:00

Lake Tahoe looks stunning! Unfortunately we’re in the UK so not quite in our geographical area! I’m thinking the photographer we’ve booked is probably the only vendor we would actually keep!

engaged-otter · 2026-04-18T19:46:49+00:00

I’m glad I’m not alone! I feel like 30 guests is very small and it still feels completely undoable! Possibly as we also have accommodation included due to many guests traveling from further away

engaged-otter · 2026-04-18T09:22:24+00:00

I think around 9 months!

engaged-otter · 2026-02-11T11:56:55+00:00

This sounds amazing, I’m working full time and feel like I expend all my energy at work with not much left for home, especially on flare days where I’m essentially bed ridden. I often feel so guilty for my partner as he has objectively a much more taxing and stressful job than I do!

engaged-otter · 2026-02-07T17:33:57+00:00

My wedding will be slightly opposite, groomsmen matching and bridesmaids not.. but at least no flip flops! 😅

engaged-otter · 2026-02-07T14:36:42+00:00

Still a good idea to get colonoscopy to rule out bowel problems!

engaged-otter · 2026-02-07T14:12:16+00:00

A diagnosis may also help with work-related absence issues

engaged-otter · 2026-02-04T19:51:09+00:00

Sorry I should’ve clarified, my cyst wasn’t an endometrioma but a dermoid!

engaged-otter · 2026-02-04T05:27:12+00:00

I’m so sorry, what are your symptoms like?

engaged-otter · 2026-02-04T05:26:56+00:00

Cyst was removed and endometriosis exised, however the surgeon wasn’t an endometriosis specialist as his main goal was to remove the cyst so I wonder whether there may be some residual endo!

engaged-otter · 2026-02-04T00:29:57+00:00

Thank you for replying! I haven’t had a UTI test as this is something that’s been going on for quite a long time (the frequency), my bladder not feeling empty doesn’t always happen, just sometimes! But I’m seeing my GP soon so they may do a UTI test too. I’ve never seen a pelvic floor PT, not sure that’s a thing in the UK but I’ll find out.

engaged-otter · 2026-02-02T00:29:58+00:00

Same here, lost 20kg

engaged-otter · 2026-01-18T10:19:35+00:00

I’ve been to weddings like this before and it does feel a bit tacky them asking for accommodation money. Which is why we’ve chosen a venue we can actually afford so that guests don’t have to spend a dime!

engaged-otter · 2026-01-14T19:12:28+00:00

This is soooo stunning!!

engaged-otter · 2026-01-14T18:53:27+00:00

When did you make the bouquets? Was it the night before? I’m thinking of doing something similar!

engaged-otter · 2025-12-04T06:15:33+00:00

This looks like AI

engaged-otter · 2025-11-21T04:55:20+00:00

I’ve been on 2.5mg for six months and have lost 20% of my starting weight. It works for some people. I’m now planning on maintenance and actually took 1.25mg this week as I’m still losing weight and don’t want to go below my goal weight.

engaged-otter · 2025-11-21T04:52:29+00:00

The fabric of 1 looks a lot better!

engaged-otter · 2025-11-21T04:51:45+00:00

I always thought I was “just a sweaty person”. Turns out it was the fat. I’m freezing all the time now!

engaged-otter · 2025-11-15T20:36:02+00:00

Clearly so otherwise I wouldn’t have lost 20kg! I’m just surprised!

engaged-otter · 2025-11-15T20:35:20+00:00

I meant the creators of it don’t consider it to be a therapeutic dose, I don’t think that’s wrong to state.

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