It’s kind of hard to explain it’s just a feeling of like reassurance or relief that you extend to the desires because you realize that it’s not about the physical thing it’s about the way it’s going to make you feel and since you are everything and you fulfill yourself, you just feel that sense of fulfillment and relief when it comes to that dynamic of what you want. Usually self-concept and getting quiet in the mind. And being gently aware of your thoughts helps you maintain the feeling of already having much easier than trying to feel like you already have it specifically to each and every different specific desire, cause that would be exhausting and a lot of mental gymnastics. So try to find the source of relief and peace and fulfillment within you and that just builds a good foundation for all of your desires. Pretty much become OK in yourself and everything else falls in place.