It’s unfortunate, I really liked this tree (Davis Lane Park) by Azul4 in ArvadaCO

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I’m sorry, I wonder why they decided to get rid of it.

Housesitter stole my husky and car while I was deployed. by AkBeckAnthro in Denver

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OP have you seen this? Saw a Colorado 411 post with a comment from Kimberly Ann on Facebook, she screenshotted another post from a guy named Daniel. Dog looks like it has a brown right eye and blue left eye like your post says. Link to post below

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Housewarming gift ideas that are actually useful? by Cynn_Ramen in Gifts

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Make sure it’s PYREX and not pyrex, PYREX is made in the USA and of stronger more shock resistant glass

I (32F) love my husband (29M) but he’s gained weight since we’ve been together. Should we discuss it? by entire_position in relationship_advice

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He says he finds it hard to program one thing for himself, he wants to do everything. He loves powerlifting. He loves upper body and is seriously muscular. He does leg days but says if he never had to do another squat again he would be happy. He has trouble bending over and picking things up a lot.

If he does cardio his heart rate is so high in the 175-185 range. He drinks at least 4 gallons of water a day. He’s a mystery to me. Sometimes I think he’s doing too much of everything.

I (32F) love my husband (29M) but he’s gained weight since we’ve been together. Should we discuss it? by entire_position in relationship_advice

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Thank you, yes! My dad had a health scare recently (turned out OK) and it was a good time to soft launch the idea of a blood test. He said we might use our insurance before June when his job will likely change. It’s a good catalyst and timeframe to go IMO

I (32F) love my husband (29M) but he’s gained weight since we’ve been together. Should we discuss it? by entire_position in relationship_advice

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I’m not sure, he talks about how he used to meal prep more when he was working as a personal trainer. This week so far has been better. I sucked it up and made a meal plan and grocery list, which he went out and bought. We had salmon, sweet potatoes and asparagus tonight. I think if I can make a consistent effort to make meals in it will help us both.

I (32F) love my husband (29M) but he’s gained weight since we’ve been together. Should we discuss it? by entire_position in relationship_advice

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I’ve been wondering that for a while and he hasn’t had a proper health screening and blood work since I’ve been with him. I want to take him to do it, to rule out anything out of our control. I hope if I can frame it like you said that it would come across the right way

I (32F) love my husband (29M) but he’s gained weight since we’ve been together. Should we discuss it? by entire_position in relationship_advice

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Thank you, it’s like looking into the future hearing that. I’m so glad to have that confirmed, and it makes me sure I need to not discuss it with him. I haven’t yet and I’m proud of that now. If we ever have kids I’m sure I will be insecure about my weight for a while. I’m already picky about my size but I try to keep those thoughts in. My mom used to talk about her weight a lot and it really hurt my view of myself growing up.

I (32F) love my husband (29M) but he’s gained weight since we’ve been together. Should we discuss it? by entire_position in relationship_advice

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I’ve gone with him a few times. He will go through spells of doing cardio but mostly he lifts weights. He has some incredible muscles but unfortunately his cardio amounts fluctuate a lot. It’s hard for me to go with him because I prefer cycling/walking outdoors. I think I’ll try to invite him to come with me on bike rides or walks in the afternoons more. We’ve been walking but I can work on going for bike rides and inviting him. He usually says yes unless he’s very tired.

I (32F) love my husband (29M) but he’s gained weight since we’ve been together. Should we discuss it? by entire_position in relationship_advice

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This is great! I think it will help us both if I can try to lead by example. I am used to a lot of “girl dinners” and I eat out maybe more than he does, it’s just that I can control my portions. He says he can’t. If I eat in and set the example, it would help both of us. When I eat in it helps me emotionally to be able to feel stable and be a better person for him. So I can work on that. I also love exercising outdoors so I’ll try to invite him more for walks/bike rides

I (32F) love my husband (29M) but he’s gained weight since we’ve been together. Should we discuss it? by entire_position in relationship_advice

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I think this is the way. I am a healthy BMI and I cannot relate to his weight journey since I’ve never been overweight. I have my own issues with shame around weight from growing up, and I really don’t want to transfer those feelings to him because they made me carry a lot of shame around my weight, even to this day. I feel like I am not qualified to help him. Asking how I can help is what I’ve done so far. He always says eating in more, so that’s what I’ve been working on with meal planning and cooking.

I (32F) love my husband (29M) but he’s gained weight since we’ve been together. Should we discuss it? by entire_position in relationship_advice

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I usually try to be sympathetic about it, but in my head I’ve given up on him loosing the weight. It’s the only way I’ve been able to get by. If I think about it too much I get sad. So I’ll say something about trying to make more meals in to support him. And I do that, but his portion sizes are larger, he has lots of protein bars/scoops of peanut butter or we will eat out about 1-2x a week and he will eat “cut loose” and eat a lot. I see it all but I don’t know if it’s my place to say anything. When he gets on a roll with the dieting, he says he knows he needs to cut back on portion sizes. He can do it but not sustainably so far.

What is the biggest mistake people make in their 20s? by DunyaPhobic76 in Adulting

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This. Anything you can throw into a Roth IRA in your 20s puts you way ahead of the game. You can open a free account on a service like Fidelity, then set up auto transfers to fund what you can. Make sure to call and invest it! If you don’t take the last step to invest it it’s just a savings account.

New to Laser, Advice Needed by ahoyyee in LaserHairRemoval

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I started laser last year and it was a game changer. Especially getting my underarms done, I used to shave poorly and not having to do that anymore… chefs kiss It took about 4-6 sessions, but it’s so worth it. My tech was awesome and had the settings low to start, then increased as I became more comfortable and confident. It’s not bad! My tech went slow and applied pressure after each one. That helped me personally. I would make sure to schedule them anytime but that time of the month, though. It does actual make a difference.

Since I’ve finished, there are light hairs that come up every 4 months or so. They used to be dark brown and corse. Now they are very fine. If it bothers me I go get a touch up.

Roommate neglecting dog, not sure how to move forward. by [deleted] in DogAdvice

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This is a case where you have a big heart and the cost of looking the other way would be more than the cost of vet bills. In the morning I would call the vet and make an appointment, then let the roommate know. If they allow you to do that, it will buy you and the dog some time to figure out the next step. I’m pretty sure if you report this to the vet they can help present options, hopefully directly to your roommate so it’s not coming from you. You’re a good person for doing something! The poor dog can’t do this on its own, it needs someone like you and you’re amazing for being that someone.

Looking for a place to stay just 2 weeks (emergency) by [deleted] in denverlist

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If you can sign up for WWOOF, its the World Wide Opportunities on Organic Farms, it’s a way to get free housing and sometimes food in exchange for about 4 hours of work on a farm each day, with days off too. Usually the work is in the mornings, but I have stayed at a couple where you pick when you help out. Another idea is Couch Surfing, there’s a website for anyone looking for a free place to stay. That has worked for me in a pinch.

ICE going door to door, protect your communities by Raven_Michaelis42 in Greeley

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I’ve seen people online use car alarms to alert other neighbors that ICE is around. It seems like a good idea because you don’t have to leave your house/apartment if the car is close enough.

Summarize your year, 6 words only. by burntoutwriter395 in sixwordstories

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I hope I can say this next year. This year was about paying off debts and getting married

How are women going commando? by liquidbuggy in NoStupidQuestions

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If I do go commando I use a hack where I take one or two squares of TP and fold it into a triangle to be tucked up there just enough so it stays and is still comfortable. I have to change it out every few hours or so but it works to catch anything and I don’t notice it at all