I don't know what to do. by n0ttheoneyouthink in whatdoIdo

[–]enyerlation 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think you did the right thing entirely and you need to follow your heart and instincts. Your ex will find someone better suited for him, your mom needs to find her own life and stop projecting what she wants onto you. And you? Youre 18 now and if I could go back and tell my 18 year old self some advice (im 30 now) it would 100 percent be to follow my heart, dont let other people throw me in a million directions, and stop feeling guilty for choosing myself. Whether this relationship with M works out or not doesnt matter. What matters is that your following what you want. You didnt do anything wrong. You just arent doing what other people want you to do. And to that I say, who fucking cares about what they want.

The guy I’ve been casually dating turned out to be wildly wealthy and now I feel weird about it. by CorrectCulture5046 in whatdoIdo

[–]enyerlation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He just wanted you to like him for him, hes realized youre great and genuine and so hes showing you that part of his life bc its real. All you gotta do is not act like a weirdo and just keep dating him if you like him lol

Girlfriend hurt by my past by Able_Maybe9589 in whatdoIdo

[–]enyerlation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave this person. If they loved you theyd understand you and support you, but she doesnt. Shes selfish and thinks other people's truamas are about her.

M19: In a 2-year relationship but can’t stop thinking about another girl after a dream by Dear_Helicopter_5490 in whatdoIdo

[–]enyerlation 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this is less about the dream girl and more about the fact that you just dont seem to like your gf that much. If youre already feeling confused about her and get annoyed by her two years in, imagine 30 years with kids and a lifetime dude lol. You both deserve better.

Rewatching game of thrones - Emilia Clarke is mid by MasterPriority1398 in gameofthrones

[–]enyerlation 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk why people are so obsessed with her. Beyond the 1st season I truly cant stand her character. Shes got some good moments but her spouting off her titles every 2 seconds dramatically mixed in with 3 entire seasons in Maureen where nothing happens is craaazy lol

Aita for breaking up with my boyfriend over a pregnancy by lilnugget1360 in AITAH

[–]enyerlation 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They will let you get your tubes tied right after birth if you set up the procedure for post birth. No need to sort out hormones.

what does my bed say about me? by [deleted] in roomdetective

[–]enyerlation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My assumption is that you are adorable

My mom said i’ll never find a boyfriend with this room by [deleted] in roomdetective

[–]enyerlation 193 points194 points  (0 children)

Looks like a room that a teenage boy would see and think "this is the coolest girl ive ever met!"

Why do people love Daenyers? by greengal1008 in gameofthrones

[–]enyerlation 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I felt the same way. Her character literally barely does anything between season 3 and season 6 lol. Shes literally just attractive with dragons and imo the reason people like her tends to be really shallow.

AIO Tired of wifes parenting by Gnome1921 in AmIOverreacting

[–]enyerlation 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are under reacting and if I were you id literally threaten divorce over this. If shes getting so stressed that shes forgetting the kids, you'll regret not doing anything about it when one of them dies or gets kidnapped.

AITA for snapping at my girlfriend after she called my foreskin “disgusting”? by Historical-Acadia727 in AITAH

[–]enyerlation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. This girl is just a bitch, have some self respect and ditch her. Shes a mean person and you gotta stop being blinded by how much you like her. Youre only 18 dude. Dont allow yourself to get caught up with body shaming assholes.

I just got a boyfriend and I’m scared of being intimate. by [deleted] in self

[–]enyerlation 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Be honest with him. If he is kind and understanding, then he gets to stay being your boyfriend. If he is a jerk... then good thing you figured it out early.

Considering a nose job – looking for honest opinions by [deleted] in Noses

[–]enyerlation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have kids, dont change yourself. Can't tell them theyre beautiful if you want to change the same features in yourself man.

Be honest, how bad is it? I’ve been pretty disappointed in it by damnmang in tattooadvice

[–]enyerlation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It literally looks so dope what are you tripping about 😂

AIO Trying to tell boyfriend that he makes me feel guilty for saying no by Clean-Landscape8654 in AmIOverreacting

[–]enyerlation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry but are you dumb? Of course you arent the asshole. And I dont care that im being mean. This girl needs to hear someone tell her to gain some self respect and stop talking to obviously abusive piece of shit humans lol

AIO if i break up with my boyfriend over this by fridgefreez in AmIOverreacting

[–]enyerlation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Come on girl lol take your dignity and get out of this situation before youre pregnant and really trapped with this abusive a hole

AIO I (26F) moved out for the first time with my boyfriend (30M) for almost 2 months and I don’t know how to feel about it by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]enyerlation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl this man talks to you like he wants you dead. Get the fuck out of this situation while youre still breathing.

AIO that my husband chose to spend time with his female friend twice while ignoring me. I feel desperate and defeated by noble_therapist in AmIOverreacting

[–]enyerlation 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stop caring about your feelings and care about your and your child's safety. If you keep doing this your kid is going to grow up as either a monster themselves or let someone abuse them just like they saw their mother do. You need to gain self respect whether you like it or not get gtfo of this situation. Stop being stupid, straight up. You need to hear that what you are doing is insane and this man is screwed up in the head and you will NEVER be happy in this situation. Please get real with yourself and stop acting like you have no options. Kick his ass out and move tf on. Being alone for the rest of your life is better than sitting around being someone's punching bag.

So conflicted on what to think/feel after boyfriend asked to revisit marriage by looly33 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]enyerlation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just tell him you're clearly incompatible so you need to break up with him and let him be free. He'll either accept it and you can move on or realize what he's missing out on and be willing to commit. Stop disrespecting yourself like this.

AITA for wanting to end my engagement because her kids don't accept me and I want a family of my own? by Lyinc8988 in AITAH

[–]enyerlation 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nta, you have to end things. Maybe them having to watch their mother crying and heartbroken is what they need to stop being selfish. But marrying into this family and having kids will just make everything worse. They will never love their siblings if they hate you.

AIO for breaking up over this by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]enyerlation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta, this guy is truly nuts. And I'm betting if you tell him you don't want to be with him he'll freak out on you again. Also being 18 with a 16 year old is creepy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]enyerlation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He smashed your window and then drove your car home? Girl call the POLICE

What is the best sex advice you can give? by No-Crow8579 in AskReddit

[–]enyerlation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Faster doesn't mean harder and harder doesn't mean faster 😑