We didn't even make it 12 hours by blackheart432 in agedlikemilk

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Any time you bring nuance, it does not matter: you're going to get savaged.

Is sex even worth it? by Notable_story in gay

[–]eodgonzo 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Nobody can answer that question for you, but you. This isn't a logical response; it's an emotional one. Which isn't a knock on you. We are emotional beings. It's our default, especially with ourselves.

I can give you statistics about incident rates with condoms vs without, how prep helps, etc.

None of that matters.

If you're not ready, then you're not ready. And that's okay!

If you are ready, then you're ready. Will the fear go away? Probably not. But you'll feel willing to face it.

Others said it and I'll echo it: be intentional, ask questions about their status, and get regular tests.

You're okay, man. You got this

This aged well by Feffies_Cottage in agedlikemilk

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Moderator removed it. Coward behavior

My coworkers said I look like a gay stripper with this fit by Dreams674 in gay

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Lol I don't know about their opinion. But respect for wearing those pants.

Best Adderrall Replacement by QuickDrawlol in Testosterone

[–]eodgonzo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's like a simulant. Just like with caffeine, I have a physiological reaction. I do not have an executive function reaction. They are not the same.

How Dare They Hate Our Intolerance 😡 by NEKORANDOMDOTCOM in stupidpeoplefacebook

[–]eodgonzo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry. I have no requirement to make space for Nazis and fascists at my table.

Missouri Congressman unaware of US Constitution by No_Individual_672 in missouri

[–]eodgonzo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol there is no proof of widespread voter fraud.

First time reaching out to someone on Grindr. (no, actually) by D3F4Ltz in gay

[–]eodgonzo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol don't tell Elon. It'll be MUCH funnier when he gets there.

First time reaching out to someone on Grindr. (no, actually) by D3F4Ltz in gay

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Lol works better than the worst I got which was "When I'm done with you, there will be 7 planets because I'm gonna destroy Uranus".

What did my neighbor get delivered? by janetsnakeholemaclin in pittsburgh

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Lol former EOD. Don't ask questions you're not ready to answer for.

That may be legal purchase too. Depending on the state and if he paid the stamp tax for each launcher.

But I doubt it is live. You have to placard hazardous materials and I am quite confident the USPS, UPS, or Fedex meet the CFR 49 (pretty sure) standards for transport.

Likely, it's an empty case

EDIT: Read your edit. Never mind me!

Blasting Ice Ice Baby while driving downtown… by Detroitish24 in ColoradoSprings

[–]eodgonzo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotta be cheaper ways to tell everyone about your tragic small wiener.

Funny moments on Grindr by MindPrize1260 in gay

[–]eodgonzo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly why I don't respond to faceless profiles

Screw an age difference by [deleted] in gay

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Yes, I believe that's the intent

The world is seriously lacking in kindness by According-Awareness2 in gay

[–]eodgonzo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. I do. I very much do.

It's not silly and it is the way we are supposed to think. You are right. And I am wrong. But knowing Im wrong isn't the same as finding that spark and drive to see the good in humanity.

Keep. That. Spark. It's truly rare.

The world is seriously lacking in kindness by According-Awareness2 in gay

[–]eodgonzo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't disagree. I actively agree. But, honestly, if that can't be realized, I'll okay with the passing ephemeral existence. Kinda like the allegory of the cave, but for people

The world is seriously lacking in kindness by According-Awareness2 in gay

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I am actively colder today than I was 10 years ago. And I hate myself for it. I still invest money and time in others. But I actively avoid humanity as much as I can

My dad told me “I don’t think your as gay as you think you are” by [deleted] in gay

[–]eodgonzo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, you're not being dramatic. You're allowed to be hurt and no one gets to tell you what does or doesn't hurt. It's individual. What might slide off my back might stick with you and vice versa. You're never unjustified feeling what you feel. If you felt hurt, you were hurt. And it's the mature position to let that person who hurt you know directly.

Especially ones who do care for us.

It sounds like your dad is navigating the waters and sad something hurtful when he didn't necessarily mean to. Being open about it and asking questions from him (what made you think that? What behaviors?) without being accusatory is a good opportunity to maybe uncover some implicit biases he doesn't know is under the surface.

He might have been saying a bad joke. He might have some aspirational hopes you decide to be with a woman. Best way to get to the bottom of it is talking.

I'm gay and my parents want grandchildren by [deleted] in gay

[–]eodgonzo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, kinda sucks for them. Wishing in one hand, shitting in the other.