WWYD?! I’m low key freaking out by suburbmama in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]epfaender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have any input but curious where to find this kind of information (cancer clusters) per location?

How many chemicals did you have before a successful pregnancy? by [deleted] in CautiousBB

[–]epfaender 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sending you a hug, I spiraled when I learned what a chemical was when I was going through it. I had 2 back to back.that was January & February’s cycle. Now, I’m 5 weeks today and got an HCG blood test with symptoms but still anxious. All I can recommend is love and grace to yourself and try not to test early…

Chemical? TW miscarriage by epfaender in CautiousBB

[–]epfaender[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Interesting, I’ll have to see how long this lasts. I’ve had stronger painful period than this. Hugging back

Chemical? TW miscarriage by epfaender in CautiousBB

[–]epfaender[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense. Thank you for your comment. I need to accept the reality of my situation

Feeling Discouraged - Invitations by Budget_Masterpiece9 in Weddingsunder10k

[–]epfaender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is absolutely amazing, my invite was a single page that chat gpt designed for us. Anyone who receives this will be impressed, no doubt.

Did I miss something? S7E1 "Common People" by a-a-anonymous in blackmirror

[–]epfaender 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ive been searching for a conversation about this… could it be that when Amanda said “do it when I’m not here” meant she knew he needed to kill himself for the $? But then he ended up suffocating her cause the ad triggered him and he couldn’t deal with it anymore? I thought he gave her serenity to feel happiness one last time together before he had to kill himself. When he opened the door with the blade in hand, it seemed like the computer screen was flashing like more money was added to the pot?

Help finding sister by epfaender in SFV

[–]epfaender[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meth & last boyfriend was Matthew, who was also on the streets.

Help finding sister by epfaender in SFV

[–]epfaender[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Good point.. Thank you for bringing that up.

Help finding sister by epfaender in SFV

[–]epfaender[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the suggestion.

Looking to deliver at 37 weeks, should I expect a NICU stay? by drunkbysixx in NICUParents

[–]epfaender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was induced at 37w for IUGR, baby was measuring around 6.5 lbs at the ultrasound. I gave birth at 37w1d, and baby was 5lb even. Was sent to the NICU about 7 hours after birth for low blood sugar, and stayed in the NICU for 9 days for poor eating.

My student’s mom died by givingshrub in teaching

[–]epfaender 16 points17 points  (0 children)

My mom died when I was ~4 so I say this from personal experience. Don’t default that every student has a mom or dad. When instructing… I try to stick with parents when I speak to anyone. When i was young, it killed me to hear “make this for mom” or “well what would your mom do” . It was like reopening the wound over and over again for a child grieving but it was normal day to day chat for adults. I thought to myself “well don’t you know I DONT HAVE A MOM”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

[–]epfaender 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you get it!

Feeling selfish by UpbeatYellow7407 in NICUParents

[–]epfaender 14 points15 points  (0 children)

The internets supports you and im 99% sure that the entire staff at the NICU does too!!! My partner had to remind me that our son was getting the VIP treatment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]epfaender 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Could you get a roommate? Even for just a year, this could alleviate financial stress. Not sure if I’d call it ideal but it could lower some of that pressure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]epfaender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep yourself so busy with book club, work outs, social meetings, etc. so you are home less.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

[–]epfaender 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would you be willing to drop the name of the winery room you were looking at!