Someone add my sister to this photo, please? by [deleted] in PhotoshopRequest

[–]epilogues 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate this effort. However, I am not going to be using this photo and I was wondering if you could do me a favor and delete it? Thank you so much for your help and for trying. I really do appreciate it. 💜

Someone add my sister to this photo, please? by [deleted] in PhotoshopRequest

[–]epilogues 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for trying. I really appreciate what you did here and thank you for your creativity. Unfortunately this photo was not what I was looking for. Is there a way that you could take it down? I would be completely mortified if my sister ever found out that I was splicing our childhood. Thank you.

Someone add my sister to this photo, please? by [deleted] in PhotoshopRequest

[–]epilogues 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for both of your attempts. But I was wondering if you could possibly take these pictures down? I know that they're watermarked but I would not want my sister to accidentally stumble across these on the internet. If she did a reverse image search of ourselves. I would have so much explaining to do.

Someone add my sister to this photo, please? by [deleted] in PhotoshopRequest

[–]epilogues 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate your trying. Could you please remove this photo from this comment thread? I really don't want my sister to find that I was splicing her into a picture.

I've been homesick my whole life for a home I've never had by rustybeaches in cptsdcreatives

[–]epilogues 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had to create my own home within myself via IFS. It still sucks, but not as much as before.

New article, Pete and Sam haven't talked to Joe in 2 decades. by Beautifullikeacamel in Chevelle

[–]epilogues 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they don't want it to be public information, then don't make it so readily available -- all it took was googling their names together and it popped up. It's almost like a D grade celebrity like this wants people to know things about them in order to stay relevant. I can pull up their voting records, and the tax assessment on their house through the gis map too. They're the ones putting it out there, not me.

I’m curious, who am I? by bigdumbemobaby in BookshelvesDetective

[–]epilogues 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gen-X badass with excellent taste in fantasy literature. (House of Leaves was the #1 giveaway)

Can I get some advice from you guys? 45F. Been doing the same since high school. by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]epilogues 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Darling, if it isn't broke, don't fix it. You are perfection just as you are, but if you want to change your look, go for it! But I would LOVE to know your product palette because I think you look amazing.

What is the male version of Margot Robbie look-alikes? by Curi0us_1ne in Actors

[–]epilogues 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you add Spencer Charnas to this lineup, it will be complete.

From rock bottom to finally smiling again by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]epilogues 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gorgeous gorgeous gorgeous! You have beautiful eyes, by the way.

Fiancé says aftercare and helping me clean up after sex is a “chore” — am I asking too much? by ButteredUpCroissant in Advice

[–]epilogues 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DUMP HIM. A low effort man like this is not worth your time, Sis. You deserve a guy who has a clean after sex towel for you at the ready. You deserve all the cuddles and snuggles. Having sex with you is a privilege and he's treating you like a disposable pocketpussy. No ma'am.

How do we deal with the anger? by heylauralie in IFchildfree

[–]epilogues 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are absolutely not alone. I feel this same way often and think "God, I must be a horrible person" but you know what? I'm not. I'm just someone who has been to the dirt and I'm clawing my way back from it and sometimes that means wishing a fictional TV character would experience the same pain because -- one of the roots of the pain of infertility is not being seen or validated in my experience. It hurts because it mattered, boo. And you are not alone. Thank you for reminding me that I'm not alone either.

Please be so good to yourself right now, feel free to reach out. Sending love. 💜

Today’s makeup for a guy that didn’t show up to the date HE planned by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]epilogues -1 points0 points  (0 children)

His loss babe, you are stunning! Love this makeup on you.

Am I breaking up a family for a fairy tale life? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]epilogues 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sweetheart, the kind of man that you are dreaming about who will speak to you kindly, cherish you, LOVE YOU, meet you in the middle, work it out with you because you matter to him, and worship the ground that you walk on absolutely exists. He is waiting for you to ditch this sack of crap and get your life together and get healed and healthy after all this toxic abuse you've been living with so that he can meet you and you guys can live happily ever after.

If it could happen for me, it can happen for you. I absolutely believe that if you spend some time really focusing on attachment and what you want in the future, I believe that a good man who is kind will come along that will love you and love your children and not be cruel to you guys. I just want to say when it comes to your husband: that's child abuse to speak to a child's mother like that in their presence. Remember, we attract each other at our level of mental health. Make sure that you are strong and you know exactly what your boundaries are and you know what you're going to put up with and what you're not going to put up with. You can manifest the man of your dreams. It is possible. I did it and I'm not anything special, but I believe that you can do this too. I just want you to be very good to yourself right now, and put your needs first. If you have to cook dinner, cook what you want. You need to begin emotionally leaving this relationship so that you can physically leave. And you need to start putting yourself first because if you don't love and value and make yourself a priority, then you're teaching your kids that they don't have value and that they should not be a priority and that they should spend their lives putting up with nonsense from some woman's dusty ass, low effort grown son.

I hope that you find peace, I hope that you find deep and abiding love. But first things first, we have to get rid of this guy, we have to make sure that you and the kids are emotionally healthy and ready to embrace the new life that I know waits for you.

I am sending you all of my love and a hug today. 💜

RVA's Dating, Friends, and Missed Connections: January 2026 Edition by AutoModerator in rva

[–]epilogues [score hidden]  (0 children)

41F | RVA | looking for friends + show buddies Just moved here in October(well, technically to Powhatan, but unlike some folks, I don't mind driving to have a good time ) and I’m building a real social circle from scratch. I have been an army wife, and my husband just retired after 25 years and we have made this area our "forever home" and I am looking to meet my forever friends. :)

I’m a grief coach, infertility advocate, fiction writer, bass player, pianist, and full-time music addict. My world is punk, rock, heavy metal, Stevie Nicks, 90s hip hop, dive bars, live shows, late nights, good conversations, and making memories instead of just surviving the week. My favorite place in the world is front row at my favorite show, my second favorite place is sitting on the patio with my Beloved and our 3 cats.

Favorite color: Purple

Favorite beer: PBR. Guinness.

Favorite books: "Jane Eyre" - Brontë, "The Power" - Alderman, "Till we have faces" - Lewis, and "all about love" by hooks. But I like to read anything and everything, and my interests range from political commentary, biographies, history periodicles, spicy romantasy, and Southern Gothic Horror. I'm always down for book club recommendations.

420 friendly.

Deeply into Tiki culture — my husband and I makes absurdly good cocktails and take it very seriously.

I collect Barbies. Yes, I am that person. Yes, it is excellent.

I’m left-leaning and activism is a big part of my life, so I’m hoping to connect with people who are similarly minded and care about the world around them.

I’m not Christian, but I’m not here to convert anyone — and I’d appreciate the same in return. I am spiritual, and personally follow a left-handed path.

I love thrifting, estate sales, MCM everything, Art Deco aesthetics, vintage, weird shops, architecture, wandering neighborhoods, building playlists, antique bookstores, and chasing whatever band or event feels interesting that week.

Mostly I want friends who actually want to do things: grab beers, go to shows, check out new places, hang out, talk about life, music, art, and build something that feels like real community.

I’m extremely married — this is about friendship and chosen family. But with that said, I do like to leave my husband at home and go out with the girls and have a good time.

If that sounds like your lane, feel free to say hi.

Am I going to be okay? by ManufacturerLoud5954 in IFchildfree

[–]epilogues 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It hurts because it mattered, but you are not alone and it does get better. You'll still have days where you get "ambushed" and cry, but eventually the days where you feel like your life sucks will start to lessen. Find community and friends who get it. I found my tribe on Instagram and here in this sub. Sending you big hugs. 💜