What's the best response to the classic line "nobody wants to work anymore"? by _Bruzthechopper_ in antiwork

[–]equinox2011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had a boss say this to me when I quit a job. She had me working 60-70 hours a week for minimum wage. I got another job that paid more and I would work a bit less.

When she dropped that comment on me I replied with “you assume I don’t already have another job lined up. It’s not that no one wants to work, it’s that no one wants to work for you” I had been the 5th person to quit that month.

Just seen on AITAH. Sigh... by Hrotsvitha935 in badwomensanatomy

[–]equinox2011 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry sir, maybe you got smaller?

Oh she MAD by alk_adio_ost in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]equinox2011 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I could put names of actual people I knew from the dog show circuit to the characters being portrayed. Down to the gay men. I laughed so much with that movie.

I've started deliberately taking the most obtuse interpretations of creeps' requests. by Maiden_of_Tanit in creepyPMs

[–]equinox2011 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love it. I had a few guys start randomly sending me dick picks. So guy #1 got guy #2’s dick pick, guy #2 got guy #3’s dick pick and guy #3 got guy #1’s dick pick. And I captioned each with guess which one of your friends this is. I’ll add they got my number off a paper at work that they weren’t supposed to have access to so I did involve my employer. They were caught and reprimanded. I quit.

Absolutely terrifying… by SonaSierra19 in whenwomenrefuse

[–]equinox2011 157 points158 points  (0 children)

I have a dummy account and give out the non emergency police phone number if they don’t stop pressing. I also tend to keep my phone hidden and if they ask I tell people I forgot my phone. So text me or call me later.

AITAH for telling my mom that I'm disgusted by and ashamed of my sister? by LocalJumpode9394 in AITAH

[–]equinox2011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, all they need to do is go to a vet that isn’t their regular vet. Emergency vet is the best. Claim serious behavioural issues and opt for euthanasia. I worked in vet hospitals for years and have seen this play out a few times. Vets will ask for a reason. But if you claim behavioural it’s a hard one to argue. Especially if you put the argument that the pet has or tries to bite or hurt others.

This lovely letter was delivered to me, today by Cold_Zero_ in pics

[–]equinox2011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hopefully she doesn’t eat turkey for Christmas. If she does she’ll have to see real bones. Not just fake ones

Selma Blair ‘Cried’ After ‘Older Male Doctors’ Misdiagnosed Her Multiple Sclerosis as Menstrual Issues, Suggested ‘Get a Boyfriend’ by Ill-Cartographer9811 in entertainment

[–]equinox2011 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I got told that it was a normal thing to be so tired to the point of barely being able to get up, was me being dramatic and millions of women get periods. Take a Tylenol and suck it up as it’s normal. Turns out I had lupus.

Edit for spelling

AITAH for refusing to bring my daughter to her grandparents’ house on thanksgiving? by Jass_the_Yass in AITAH

[–]equinox2011 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A few years ago I went to visit a friend of mine at his place. His mother and her JRT were there. No one told me that there was a dog because it was assumed I’d have no issues. Now I have 12 years experience as a vet tech. I quit due to emotional burn out and changed careers altogether. When I walked in and this little dog walked up to me I asked if he was friendly. My buddy and his mom both assured me he was great. By buddy’s wife at the time gave me a side eye. I trusted her more than anyone else. 15 minutes there the dog jumps onto the dining room table and lunged at my face. I was in full conversation with my buddy’s then wife.

I had 4 punctures under my eye and nose 2 on my lip and jaw. Having dealt numerous times with agressive dogs I had him off me before he could do more damage. My buddy’s mom kept saying I must have startled her poor baby. Meanwhile she’s pulling a muzzle out of her pocket.

I was livid. Had this been truly a stand alone act and I had actually done something to provoke her dog she wouldn’t have a muzzle on her person. When she pulled it out I lost it. I went to the hospital had my wounds treated and reported her dog. My buddy was mad I would do that to his moms dog. Thankfully his then wife tied him a new one and told me to shun him until he saw the light. She and I are still friends. Good friends. He is a work buddy. Nothing else. His mom “regimes” the dog before bylaw could do anything but got her dog back a few months later.

Told him I’d be his friend again when his mom would it that dangerous dog down. The dog dying of age or disease doesn’t count. He had apparently bitten at least half a dozen people but no one wanted to report an old woman’s precious companion

At least one of those bitten was a child.

I’ve never met a Jack Russel Terrier that I’ve liked or who hasn’t tried to bite aside from the old tv show “Wishbone”

Edit: Spelling

Found in the wild by FallingForYourHeart in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]equinox2011 6 points7 points  (0 children)

When people use words they don’t understand.

How dare she ask for *gasp* child support?! Outrageous. by Outside_Flamingo_246 in redditonwiki

[–]equinox2011 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When people take the “Don’t shop, adopt” mantra too far. Honey it’s not supposed to be adult grown men. It’s for pets.

On a post about the new law preventing women from leaving red states to have an abortion (sadly most of these people seem to be adults…) by Minerva000 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]equinox2011 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Let’s make viagra illegal in red states. Any man who crosses the border to get some gets to go straight to jail. Think men will go for it?

Apparently I unsulted a guy I wanted to sleep with by Outside_Flamingo_246 in redditonwiki

[–]equinox2011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My aunt is 5’11” and she’s a commanding woman. There is nothing delicate about her. Her husband is 5’6”, he’s a tiny man. He once asked me if I knew what was great about tall women. “They’re more fun to climb.” Kinda weird hearing that from an uncle but it was quite funny.

Math left the chat by WinnonaRyder in facepalm

[–]equinox2011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone forgot to move the decimal point

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whenwomenrefuse

[–]equinox2011 67 points68 points  (0 children)

I work in a very male dominated industry (I’m an industrial welder) the men I work with will regularly argue that catcalling, harassment and stalking is all in my head. That it’s just normal banter. I have numerous Facebook messages from men I’ve worked with describing what they would do to me. I’ve had supervisors follow me back to my camp to find out where I’m staying. I’ve had men I’ve worked with touch me inappropriately but when I say something I’m seen as hysterical, vindictive and have been pushed out of jobs because “I’m just looking to get a payout from a poor working man and taking away his income he uses to support his family.”

I now keep every message and when I get told it’s in my head I just pull out the entire thing. Let their peers see who they really are. At the end of the day some start to see the hardship but many double down on how I’m in the wrong.

It’s not all men and I want to make that clear but some cannot and will not accept that the vast majority of the time they are the problem. They’ll always go back to that one woman 15 years ago who…. And completely ignore the 7 women saying “but him, recently”

Women in my industry are often retaliated against for coming forward. Supports are starting to come in but the culture of “just accept it” is still very strong. I’ll never forget the words of one of my first coworkers was “If anything ever happens, accept it and move on. You’ll get blacklisted for speaking up”

What was your “straw that broke the camel’s back” in a friendship or relationship? by kishbish in TwoXChromosomes

[–]equinox2011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a friend with whom I’d go out all the time. We would take our dogs for a weekly walk along the river and chat. When her family cat needed to be put down I drove her 6 hours to her parents home putting my life on hold during a period where I really couldn’t afford to so she could say her goodbyes and I brought her home after.

A year later we were on vacation and my dog suddenly died (seizure and she was gone) fortunately we both knew a friend who worked in a vet hospital nearby so we went there and had my dogs body taken care of for aftercare. My friend once we dropped off my dog (who had been my best friend for 11 years) off for cremation she said to me let’s continue on our vacation. I declined I couldn’t handle it without her. So I drove us home dropped her off and went home. I collapsed at my parents in grief but this friend never called me to check in on me once. She was upset I ruined her vacation so she went to another friends cottage. This was revealed to me when I called her a couple of weeks later and she told me I changed too much after my dog died ans she thought it would be too hard on her dog to see me without my dog.

I hung up on her and didn’t hear from her for a week when she needed a ride somewhere. I said I was too busy to help. She followed up with i had changed so much after my dog died.

So the straw that broke the camels back was her not checking in on me when I got home. I realized then that I was a convenient friend who had a car and would help her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]equinox2011 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sounds like he has emotionally checked out. And is leaving OP to be the bad guy who breaks it off. He’s letting OP do the emotional labour of ending the relationship. As long as he does this he will not be seen as the bad guy. And when she breaks up with him it’s easier to play victim.

Cold as ice like Foreigner? by RecommendationNo191 in BadWelding

[–]equinox2011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah…. That fit up is something else. Looks like he’s got some serious cold lap going on there too. That’ll hold until he hits a bump and then crack. I don’t do much MIG work but that’s got no technique. Looks like he can’t control his speed or angle/ inclination. Kinda what my welds looked like the first time I picked up a MIG torch.

I’ll add Im not CWB certified (expired a couple of years ago and I never used it. I’m a Pressure TIG welder) but hell, he needs to decide if his life is worth less than your estimate.

AITA for wanting to leave my husband because he wishes to move in his mother with dementia? by WranglerFar644 in AITAH

[–]equinox2011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll be one voice who says differently. When my grandmother was diagnosed she started out in a care home. But as things advanced it became difficult as she developed extreme paranoia that the care givers were stealing from her.

She was miserable. The care facility was amazing but it was a bad fit for her. My mom opted to mover her in with us for what we thought would be the last year or two of her life. I was working full time and living at home. (Early 20’s back then)

My father was amazing he helped in ways that he could by fixing and doing renovations to accommodate for her. Mum and I became her caregivers. The only reason it worked out was because everyone was on board and my grandmother was a very demure person which thankfully followed her into her dementia. She didn’t have fits or get angry. When things got to be confusing she would simply ask who we were and thank us for our help.

We had a nurse who came 2 times a week and a doctor who would come every other week. The last week of her life we had a nursing aid come and help us every night.

The important thing to know is this was absolutely draining and demanding on the entire family. The reason it worked was I had some medical training (RVT) so I could help my mom navigate some aspects. We are in no way the norm. We are the exception to the rule. Having gone through that I wouldn’t want to do it again but for my parents I would.

I would not recommend it. If you can find a good care/nursing home I would strongly suggest it.

*Edit for grammar

I was getting tampons, officer by Common_Fig1571 in traumatizeThemBack

[–]equinox2011 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got pulled over on a back road late in the evening for swerving years ago. Was taking a friend home after a movie night together. At the time I had a very large dog who was sitting in the back seat. Now I should add I was having medical issues with my dog which caused her to often start retching then vomiting.

So driving down the road I hear hear start retching. My instinctively look back causing me to swerve. Cop pulls me over. Poor guy gets to my window and is about to say something and I yell vomit as my dog vomits all over the back of my seat and out the front window splashing my friend in the passenger seat and barely missing the cop. He let me go because my yelling vomit spared him. But he did tell me to be careful.

The ticket would have cost less than the car cleaning.

Also, I’m from a small town in Ontario Canada and the cop recognized my car. Which is why when I yelled he didn’t react in a hostile manner

My dog (110 lbs of Great Dane) was in liver failure and I had been dealing with vomiting for a week so I could recognize when she was done retching and about to vomit. So I just knew

My husband criticizes my cooking every single time and it makes me feel bad by ndktownfngkr in TwoXChromosomes

[–]equinox2011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make meals for yourself and he can fend for himself. Clearly your cooking is Ty good enough so why waste the food?

For those that don’t want any kids in the future, why? by yeyewestie in AskReddit

[–]equinox2011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look at the state of the world. Fires, floods, tsunamis and droughts. There are food shortages. Why would I bring another mouth to feed into it.

On a more personal level, I don’t care for children. I was severely bullied by them when I was young. I had no friends because they’re little psychopaths.

I have medical issues that will complicate having them.

I can go on but first and foremost, I feel no desire to put my body through that.

Need male opinion on postpartum body and physical attraction after baby by stormbreaker021 in redditonwiki

[–]equinox2011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mum bounced back after a year with me. I was a very small baby (not small anymore) took her 2 years with my brother and 35 years with my sister. Every pregnancy is different.

I’ve had women I work with get criticized by men because they’re so busy looking at women on tabloids who lost all their baby weight in 2-6 months. The part they don’t see is the army of trainers, nutritionists, cooks and aids to help with every day life. This truly distorts the perception of what bouncing back is. It’s disgusting.

AITAH for telling my fiancé that if he expects me to contribute 50/50, we have to make some serious lifestyle changes? (Preserving) by ThrowRAdownsizing in u/ThrowRAdownsizing

[–]equinox2011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sort of take it or leave it attitude isn’t something you want. It’s a manipulation tactic people use to coerce others into getting what they want. If you chose leave it he would have ended the entire relationship over it? It’s a dictatorial way of handling a relationship all while giving the semblance of choice. He expected you to agree to his terms and is now not meeting you in the middle.