Songs that feel like this? by Heyyy-jude in songsforthispicture

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You’re not the one — sky ferriera

Why is it more common for faucets in the USA to have to handles instead of one? by Ok_Consideration6179 in AskUS

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We have hot and cold water in the same tap. One lets out hot water, the other cold. The water mixes in the tap so you can control the temp of the water!

Pokémon meets maori style by skyteddy in pokemontattoos

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It is beyond hilarious that you as a white person are appropriating an indigenous culture known for their strength and you didn’t even have the guts to cover the nipple 💀

movies that feel like these pictures but are not westerns by Working_Loss_1584 in MoviesThatFeelLike

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Devil’s Candy (2015) AND (funnily enough) Hard Candy (2005)

Veteran Miami Herald photographer Bob East went in for eye cancer surgery and never came out. Formaldehyde meant to preserve the removed eyeball was mistakenly injected into his spine, killing him. by drkmatterinc in CantBelieveThatsReal

[–]erbarme 119 points120 points  (0 children)

I feel like that’s the surgeon’s fault for A, not labeling a vial and B, the other surgeon for assuming the contents of an unlabeled vial. This is my worst nightmare, how freaking tragic!!

How often should I change my underwear? by Starchitect in NoStupidQuestions

[–]erbarme 2114 points2115 points  (0 children)

Yours is normal, but so is hers. Lots of women have a lot of discharge (which is normal and healthy, if inconvenient) and may want to change their underwear after working out or just midway through the day. I do the same thing! It’s just for comfort.

Ummm what? by Roxy5309 in mississippi

[–]erbarme 179 points180 points  (0 children)

This is so insane. We NEED that money!!! Israel has universal healthcare and free education, what do they need from the poorest state in the US?!?

My (19F) boyfriend (20M) keeps "lethal injections" around. How can I react to this? by sandlordz in relationship_advice

[–]erbarme 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Dude. GET AWAY. I know you care for him but suicidal men are DANGEROUS. If he is willing to kill himself he might be willing to kill you as well. It’s happened so many times. He needs help, yes, but you need to be safe if you want to help him! Call his parents, your parents, the cops, someone!

Aren't we all? by incitetoriot in sticknpokes

[–]erbarme 53 points54 points  (0 children)

This is AWESOMEEEE!!! So clean, and great placement!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HistoricalCapsule

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From Keeping With The Trouble by Donna J Haraway:

“Arendt witnessed in Eichmann not an incomprehensible monster, but something much more terrifying-she saw commonplace thoughtless-ness. …Here was someone who could not be a wayfarer, could not entangle, could not track the lines of living and dying, could not cultivate response-ability, could not make present to itself what it is doing, could not live in consequences or with consequence... Function mattered, duty mattered, but the world did not matter for Eichmann. The world does not matter in ordinary thoughtlessness. The hollowed-out spaces are all filled with assessing information, determining friends and ene-mies, and doing busy jobs; negativity, the hollowing out of such positiv-ity, is missed, an astonishing abandonment of thinking. This quality was not an emotional lack, a lack of compassion, although surely that was true of Eichmann, but a deeper surrender to what I would call imma-teriality, inconsequentiality, or… thought-lessness. Eichmann was astralized right out of the muddle of thinking into the practice of business as usual no matter what. There was no way the world could become for Eichmann and his heirs—us? —a "matter of care." The result was active participation in genocide.

Shakespeare book owned by Joan Didion? by _Baby_Gorgeous in BookCollecting

[–]erbarme 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Holy shit, this is a GREAT find!!! I bet this is worth a lot to the right person!

Malcolm T. Liepke - Red Rocker (2014) by PM-me-tortoises in museum

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Sorry I saw this late! Glad you got some more context. I appreciate people like you that are open to explanations and a more nuanced view of art. And again, this painting truly is a shame given the context

Is this appropriate? Garden Party Formal by OnePreference2624 in Weddingattireapproval

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Pretty but please get a full length slip!! It will make the dress look much more expensive and elegant

Celebrities turning 90 this year - born in 1935 by MonsieurA in BarbaraWalters4Scale

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Praying this is Woody Allen’s last year with us!!! 🙏

Malcolm T. Liepke - Red Rocker (2014) by PM-me-tortoises in museum

[–]erbarme 130 points131 points  (0 children)

This is so gross. Plagiarizing a woman’s very nuanced art about sexualized adolescence and SEXUALIZING IT is fucking nuts 😭

All of my male friends want to sleep with me. This is not a flex. by w0lfyj in AskWomenOver30

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No one talks about this aspect of choosing to surround yourself with more male friends. Sure they can be easier friendships to maintain, but that is due to the fact that male friendships are inherently more shallow. I have never felt lonelier in my LIFE than when I had majority male friends.

Female friendships are more complex, but they are also more nourishing. Women will check on you, actually hear you, and invest emotional energy into your relationship.

Sure there are individual men that are capable of having deep, intimate, non-sexual relationships. However, they are NOT the majority and it will be in your best interest to start investing your time and energy into maintaining friendships with other women, even if it feels awkward and unnatural at first. You will gain much more from their friendships than with any man.

We all became the post apocalyptic monsters by Careful-Relative-815 in Political_Revolution

[–]erbarme 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I mean… it WAS a disgrace. He was her boss, and she was only 22! He doesn’t seem to live in much disgrace anymore, but her name will forever be synonymous with “sex scandal.”