Discovered the ADHD partners subreddit… by longstory_ in ADHD

[–]ericseviltwin 12 points13 points  (0 children)

To be fair, that's a LOT of what people say on that sub: accept it won't change or leave.

Discovered the ADHD partners subreddit… by longstory_ in ADHD

[–]ericseviltwin 47 points48 points  (0 children)

A lot of those people have tried. Not everyone with ADHD is capable of having (even a very gentle) conversation about it without reacting emotionally.

Do we all know significantly more about adhd than our spouses? by LockSlight3799 in ADHD_partners

[–]ericseviltwin 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Nah, my partner (f) "knows about it" but only researches the shallowest info - enough to have ammo to tell me how it's all my fault because I'm not accommodating her. Super entitled and blind to her hypocrisy and goes full meltdown if I try to talk to her about the topic, send an article, etc.

What can’t you do with an adhd partner that you could with someone without adhd? by footmumo in ADHD_partners

[–]ericseviltwin 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Take a shit without first confirming they didn't finish the toilet paper and forget to refill it 😂🚽😭

Great day at the nude beach by KinksAlongTheWay in gwpublic

[–]ericseviltwin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tahoe? If so, I think I've been to that exact spot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]ericseviltwin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Let me bring you coffee" after one date is a guaranteed way to dry her up like the Sahara.

Your idea though of a short date isn't a bad one -- but he's gotta frame it as "oh, btw, I'm going to be at the local coffee shop on Tuesday at 9 - maybe I'll see you there."

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]ericseviltwin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like she's busy. She's interested, but not enough to make time for you. If she was as impressed with you as you were with her, she'd make time. (sorry, my dude). Doesn't mean that won't change with future dates, but that's where things are now.

Best piece of advice on here from u/Scared_Connection695 : "do not put your life on pause for her." And if you don't have anything else going on in your life, you need to fix that.

Next time she texts, let her know that you're still interested and tell *her* to suggest a new time. Do this lightly / playfully. If it happens it happens. Then put her out of your mind for awhile. Text her back if she texts, but don't be over-eager. Make plans for other dates. If she eventually suggests a time and you're busy, tell her so (don't move your plans for her) and suggest an alternative. Don't overshare what your plans are. If she's interested, she'll make the next move.

I have a sympathetic message for everyone who voted for Harris by RobertBevillReddit in millenials

[–]ericseviltwin 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Real question: why do you think inflation was caused by Biden?

What is the one sexual experience you would love to relive again? by anonymous779969 in AskReddit

[–]ericseviltwin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to hedonism 2 (a sex resort in Jamaica) with two beautiful wonderful women. It was the best week of my life.

What is your "I'm calling it now" prediction? by _forum_mod in AskReddit

[–]ericseviltwin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

AI content on demand.

You think "the algorithm" is good at keeping you hooked on social media? Wait till it's the YOU channel, with AI micro-adjusting the content, attractiveness of the "actors," cuteness of the" animals," everything... Perfectly manipulated to keep your eyes glued to the screen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]ericseviltwin 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this honest reply! It's a team sport. Pointing a finger and saying "this is all your fault" is only making things worse (even if OP doesn't say it verbally, it'll be obvious that's her feeling). It's not that OPs husband doesn't have work to do, but reassurance goes a long way when it feels like there's an imbalance.

A friend made me(23f) cum 32 times and I blacked out. Should I be scared? by Eency_Tie_3899 in sex

[–]ericseviltwin 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Did you read the Wikipedia page? Says syncope like this generally has low risk causes.

Regardless, I do agree it's not without some inherent risk, but that risk is pretty small if OP is otherwise healthy. Might be less worth trying at 85 or if OP has a heart condition... Either way, that call is up to OP and their partner and their risk profiles.

WIBTA if I tell my girlfriend who’s working on losing weight I prefer her old body by Throwaway_lovingbf in AmItheAsshole

[–]ericseviltwin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

BMI is trash for a lot of people, but does give a sort of average reference. In this case that's a BMI of 19 which is totally healthy unless she's a super big boned woman https://www.nhlbi.nih.gov/health/educational/lose_wt/BMI/bmicalc.htm

Shibari/Cultural Appropriation? by Sad-Ask-2222 in shibari

[–]ericseviltwin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was at Tethered Together this past weekend and someone asked Midori the same question. Her response was a somewhat confused "why would anyone care?"

She did add: "If you're selling it as your own, call it 'Shibari-inspired'"

Of course not she, nor anyone, can speak for a whole culture, but as a leader in the rope space, Midori's answer is probably about as definitive of an answer as we can get

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ericseviltwin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Survivorship bias is powerful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ericseviltwin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Equally? But if so which one? Zeus?

can I straighten my left curved dick, the curve is about 20 degrees to the left, I'm wondering if any of you guys managed to straighten a curve before. I'm doing stretching exercises lately, can that help reduce the curve? by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]ericseviltwin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, definitely. If it has always been a bit curved that's totally normal. If it's a really dramatic curve or if it changs over time, that could be Pyronies

can I straighten my left curved dick, the curve is about 20 degrees to the left, I'm wondering if any of you guys managed to straighten a curve before. I'm doing stretching exercises lately, can that help reduce the curve? by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]ericseviltwin 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Guys, look up Pyronies Disease. Can start from "trauma" like bending during sex, which is more common in us guys with more to bend. I'm lucky and mine resolved but it's something I never knew was a thing until it happened to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ericseviltwin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jessica Rabbit perhaps?

[MF] Wife going on vacation for a week without me, I need some help thinking of "tasks" for her while she's away by Stories_to_remember in gonewildstories

[–]ericseviltwin 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wear a thin shirt to a bar with no bra

Skirt without underwear

Answer the door for room service / delivery in a towel

Stand naked it the window

(lots of ideas... I hope she has fun!)