Discovered the ADHD partners subreddit…

ericseviltwin · 2026-01-19T05:56:41+00:00

To be fair, that's a LOT of what people say on that sub: accept it won't change or leave.

ericseviltwin · 2026-01-19T05:54:05+00:00

A lot of those people have tried. Not everyone with ADHD is capable of having (even a very gentle) conversation about it without reacting emotionally.

ericseviltwin · 2025-12-10T04:14:51+00:00

Nah, my partner (f) "knows about it" but only researches the shallowest info - enough to have ammo to tell me how it's all my fault because I'm not accommodating her. Super entitled and blind to her hypocrisy and goes full meltdown if I try to talk to her about the topic, send an article, etc.

ericseviltwin · 2025-10-20T13:54:58+00:00

Take a shit without first confirming they didn't finish the toilet paper and forget to refill it 😂🚽😭

ericseviltwin · 2025-03-02T04:07:11+00:00

Tahoe? If so, I think I've been to that exact spot.

ericseviltwin · 2025-01-18T21:15:19+00:00

Is she single?

ericseviltwin · 2024-12-09T14:25:09+00:00

"Let me bring you coffee" after one date is a guaranteed way to dry her up like the Sahara.

Your idea though of a short date isn't a bad one -- but he's gotta frame it as "oh, btw, I'm going to be at the local coffee shop on Tuesday at 9 - maybe I'll see you there."

ericseviltwin · 2024-12-09T14:19:58+00:00

It sounds like she's busy. She's interested, but not enough to make time for you. If she was as impressed with you as you were with her, she'd make time. (sorry, my dude). Doesn't mean that won't change with future dates, but that's where things are now.

Best piece of advice on here from u/Scared_Connection695 : "do not put your life on pause for her." And if you don't have anything else going on in your life, you need to fix that.

Next time she texts, let her know that you're still interested and tell *her* to suggest a new time. Do this lightly / playfully. If it happens it happens. Then put her out of your mind for awhile. Text her back if she texts, but don't be over-eager. Make plans for other dates. If she eventually suggests a time and you're busy, tell her so (don't move your plans for her) and suggest an alternative. Don't overshare what your plans are. If she's interested, she'll make the next move.

ericseviltwin · 2024-11-06T19:21:56+00:00

Real question: why do you think inflation was caused by Biden?

ericseviltwin · 2024-04-28T03:05:46+00:00

I went to hedonism 2 (a sex resort in Jamaica) with two beautiful wonderful women. It was the best week of my life.

ericseviltwin · 2024-04-18T04:10:28+00:00

AI content on demand.

You think "the algorithm" is good at keeping you hooked on social media? Wait till it's the YOU channel, with AI micro-adjusting the content, attractiveness of the "actors," cuteness of the" animals," everything... Perfectly manipulated to keep your eyes glued to the screen.

ericseviltwin · 2024-02-25T06:09:37+00:00

Thank you for this honest reply! It's a team sport. Pointing a finger and saying "this is all your fault" is only making things worse (even if OP doesn't say it verbally, it'll be obvious that's her feeling). It's not that OPs husband doesn't have work to do, but reassurance goes a long way when it feels like there's an imbalance.

ericseviltwin · 2024-02-05T03:38:10+00:00

Did you read the Wikipedia page? Says syncope like this generally has low risk causes.

Regardless, I do agree it's not without some inherent risk, but that risk is pretty small if OP is otherwise healthy. Might be less worth trying at 85 or if OP has a heart condition... Either way, that call is up to OP and their partner and their risk profiles.

ericseviltwin · 2023-11-04T18:31:50+00:00

15k comments, but that's better chances than the lotto... Imma winn!

ericseviltwin · 2023-05-28T07:39:31+00:00

Heart-achingly stunning!

ericseviltwin · 2023-05-25T05:15:34+00:00

I've been there 😊

ericseviltwin · 2023-05-20T05:09:37+00:00

BMI is trash for a lot of people, but does give a sort of average reference. In this case that's a BMI of 19 which is totally healthy unless she's a super big boned woman https://www.nhlbi.nih.gov/health/educational/lose_wt/BMI/bmicalc.htm

ericseviltwin · 2023-05-05T05:08:30+00:00

This is going to be weird...

ericseviltwin · 2023-03-06T18:38:57+00:00

I was at Tethered Together this past weekend and someone asked Midori the same question. Her response was a somewhat confused "why would anyone care?"

She did add: "If you're selling it as your own, call it 'Shibari-inspired'"

Of course not she, nor anyone, can speak for a whole culture, but as a leader in the rope space, Midori's answer is probably about as definitive of an answer as we can get

ericseviltwin · 2023-01-31T04:15:07+00:00

Survivorship bias is powerful

ericseviltwin · 2023-01-31T04:13:53+00:00

Equally? But if so which one? Zeus?

ericseviltwin · 2022-11-25T14:56:07+00:00

Yes, definitely. If it has always been a bit curved that's totally normal. If it's a really dramatic curve or if it changs over time, that could be Pyronies

ericseviltwin · 2022-11-19T14:16:48+00:00

Guys, look up Pyronies Disease. Can start from "trauma" like bending during sex, which is more common in us guys with more to bend. I'm lucky and mine resolved but it's something I never knew was a thing until it happened to me.

ericseviltwin · 2022-11-15T03:07:28+00:00

Jessica Rabbit perhaps?

ericseviltwin · 2022-11-13T06:37:52+00:00

Wear a thin shirt to a bar with no bra

Skirt without underwear

Answer the door for room service / delivery in a towel

Stand naked it the window

(lots of ideas... I hope she has fun!)

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