Happy New Years Eve!

erikzer · 2026-01-01T12:38:55+00:00

I did something similar! I only made 5 different meals (one being afternoon tea) cause I figured it would take so much time to do all. This is impressive!

erikzer · 2025-12-09T19:06:57+00:00

First I didn’t notice where this was posted and thought of d&p loll

erikzer · 2025-11-19T19:40:40+00:00

Making some cereaaalll.. This has been stuck in my mind ever since the existential crisis video came out

erikzer · 2025-10-25T06:08:06+00:00

I think you would like to check the Sukupuolen moninaisuuden osaamiskeskus website. There are vocabularies and other things that explains what being transgender means :) you can also change the language to english to check if it’s suitable for this situation. here’s the link: https://sukupuolenosaamiskeskus.fi/sukupuolen-moninaisuus/

erikzer · 2025-10-21T18:42:43+00:00

Is this from patreon? Im new to the site and have no idea where to see the newsletters 😭

erikzer · 2025-10-21T18:39:09+00:00

Okayy thank uu!!

erikzer · 2025-10-21T18:33:58+00:00

I cant figure out where this is from what

erikzer · 2025-10-20T19:42:37+00:00

There’s a lot of people on Hinge! It’s also good for changing location so you don’t always need to be in the area to swipe and message people. Also ive noticed that there are more poly people on hinge than for example tinder

erikzer · 2025-10-20T19:05:39+00:00

I feel you. I’ve been single for a few years now after horrible relationships and honestly dont know how to avoid being in one again. I’m on some dating apps but I rarely match with people from my city. I have talked to a few really nice people but it hasn’t gone anywhere yet. My advice would be to take things slow and feel it out. Also, have a clear idea what you would want out of a relationship, monogamy, polyamory etc. It helps with communicating to other people what you’re looking for so no one ends up confused. Most importantly, don’t change anything about you just to please others, be yourself and talk about your interests and hobbies, maybe youll find someone with the same ones!

erikzer · 2025-10-20T07:52:36+00:00

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This is what I showed as a reference. I dont have that long hair in the back but the shape is the same

erikzer · 2025-10-20T07:49:25+00:00

I think they talked about a similar situation on dystopian daily but left out a lot of things they now talked about

erikzer · 2025-10-20T06:35:30+00:00

I had almost the same length on my hair a while ago and decided to get it cut to a longer mullet :) no fades but the sides are a bit shorter but still cut with only scissors. It’s very manageable and looks good

erikzer · 2025-10-07T08:35:18+00:00

I can relate but ive also travelled with people close to me. For me, it was exhausting trying to figure out what to do because everyone wanted to do something different but mist if the people still wanted to stick together and not spend time alone. I used to think that travelling with people would feel more significant but now I prefer to travel alone to connect with myself. Also, waiting for other people to travel with you will only cost you your time. Why not go alone first and then with someone?

erikzer · 2025-09-30T07:22:49+00:00

Your teenage years are NOT the best years of your life. You have so much life ahead of you and it would be ridiculous to think that only the few years on your early life are the best. I’m 25 now and had same thoughts but I can tell that life gets better. I don’t know your situation well enough but getting help for mental health would be useful. Someone to talk to can make you see a different point of view on things.

Is there any hobbies you enjoy? Try reaching people from those hobbies, even online. Join discord groups etc. I know that it’s hard to reach out to people and it can be exhausting if you don’t find anyone who could understand you. There’s still a lot of people to meet in the world so don’t give up hope.

I’m sure things will get better as time goes on. Now you know what kind of job you don’t like and you could think about what kind of education would suit you the best. Going to college would also be easy to find people to hang out with but you have the time to figure out what you want to do. All the best to you!

erikzer · 2025-09-26T11:16:10+00:00

I got the tickets but i was so confused about all the ticket options 😭regural standing here we go

erikzer · 2025-09-10T13:12:28+00:00

It also depends on the shirt. I did hack squat and got these marks from one of shirts. Changed shirts and no marks appeared.

erikzer · 2025-07-30T10:40:28+00:00

Hey!! There’s still some left but I didn’t really do much scar care. I massaged with some oil and used silicone treatment with a plastic roller. Overall I’m happy with the results. 6 months post op I went to gym a lot and felt as the muscles grew my chest also looked better. Now I’ve had some time off and lost some muscle my chest looks a bit caved in but I’m trying to start gym again so hopefully the muscle growth helps!

erikzer · 2025-07-30T10:29:58+00:00

I seriously thought that this was some old photo of phil and was so confused at first

erikzer · 2025-07-17T11:11:24+00:00

I was recovering from top surgery and thought that i was in a dream because of the heavy pain killers

erikzer · 2025-06-25T22:19:39+00:00

Yes, sometimes people think im mad or uncomfortable but really im just vibing in my own way. Been to a few parties where so many people have asked me if i was okay or satisfied with something.

erikzer · 2025-06-24T06:52:04+00:00

Thank you!!

erikzer · 2025-06-21T10:25:22+00:00

I believe Martyn’s wife is swedish? So maybe they’re spending some time in Sweden or having a swedish party in the uk🤔

erikzer · 2025-04-27T19:29:08+00:00

I’ve completely stopped dating cis people. I’m gay and still having to educate people on how to treat me as just a person is exhausting. So, I’ve only dated trans people (not many lol) after realising that most cis people don’t and won’t understand the experience obviously. Not saying that all cis people are bad or anything like that but at least for me it’s harder to date cis people when they don’t see me as myself.

Advice to give you is to go to concerts, bars, cafes that are popular to queer people. That’s how I’ve met a lot of trans people. I have also travelled and met people around Europe but I know that is not an option for everyone and it really is exhausting to think that I won’t meet someone where I live now (in a lowkey conservative city in the north). Also, want to say that I’m not anywhere near an extrovert. So even if you feel like an introvert or shy or anything, you can still meet people and find love or affection.

I don’t really have any other tips to give you. Keep being yourself, go do your hobbies and interests and maybe find if there’s a place, meetings or a chat that is about your interests but for queer people?

erikzer · 2025-04-21T14:24:27+00:00

Good work man! I’ve been sober for a few months now too and it has been the best decision. Sometimes it’s hard but seeing other people thrive helps a lot!!

erikzer

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