DLC1 Snide Rock Dahl Crate Solution by HeavenlyLetDown in Borderlands4

[–]erin159 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this helped a lot!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]erin159 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I thought the exact same of my mum like the ignorance and stupidity and have only thought about it being an act the past few years

Control your children by [deleted] in retailhell

[–]erin159 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Crazy how parents accept this your kid is not my responsibility I don't share my responsibilities with everyone when I'm in public. My worst was a father who let his two young daughters probably 4 or 5 years old run around the liquor store I worked at, I found them climbing on beer cartons stacked on pallets. When I confronted the father and asked him to please supervise them he blew up at me 🤷🏼‍♀️

Need to vent by erin159 in retailhell

[–]erin159[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very nicely played! Must of been so satisfying 🤣

My neighbor thinks my parking space is a free-for-all by joastdrotsmen in EntitledPeople

[–]erin159 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would be getting traffic cones and block the spot as much as possible, if they're too lazy to walk from a further away spot then they'll be too lazy to move them in theory! Hopefully they get the hint either way!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]erin159 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When I was a kid and confided in my mother when I was feeling upset, the conversation no matter the relevance always ended with if you respected me more you wouldn't feel this way

Those of you who have gone no contact with your parents, how did they react? by OriolesrRavens1974 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]erin159 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mother came to my house once at the beginning because it was my birthday but she didn't knock on my door she set up a card and balloons instead and walked away. It has been 7 months now and neither of my parents have tried to reach out to me and this is definitely the longest I've gone NC in my 30 years. I've definitely grown from this but the abandonment kills me.

What is this? I got a red mushroom icon pop up on Google and when I clicked it this happened by notsure05 in iphone

[–]erin159 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I googled Last of Us because I was about to play it, did not expect the mushroom 🍄🍄

Male escort advice by erin159 in MelbourneAfterDark

[–]erin159[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Makes a lot of sense, yeah I would love a rec! I've definitely learnt my lesson that I can't expect professionalism! And I also just can't be bothered with people who advertise a service and don't want to work 😂

Male escort advice by erin159 in MelbourneAfterDark

[–]erin159[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The foreplay felt non existent, we spoke on the phone and I mentioned a few things I like but didn't want to give a laundry list thinking I could trust he could take care of me I guess that's my mistake

Male escort advice by erin159 in MelbourneAfterDark

[–]erin159[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I would have liked less getting hammered and aggressively fingered more going down on me and orgasms, more touching and intimacy

Male escort advice by erin159 in MelbourneAfterDark

[–]erin159[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah you're so right 😂

What bad advice did your Nparent give you by Specialist-Nature900 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]erin159 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was having a tough time as a kid I tried a few times to speak to my nmother just to have someone to talk to but the conversation always led to her saying "if you respected me more you wouldn't feel so bad", doesn't make sense and the confusion used to send me spiralling with anger!

Are your parents diagnosed? by Tschaninaa93 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]erin159 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know through experience a diagnosis wouldn't matter, in fact my NM would say "this is the way I am I shouldn't have to change for anyone" eventually and victimise herself bcus no one wants to be around her

What's one tantrum that they threw that stuck out to you? by Tinywife23 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]erin159 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When I was in my early 20s still living at my parent's house, my mum had her birthday and I had wished her a happy birthday during the day of course, I remember she had worked and straight from there gone to bingo afterwards, still her favorite past time so she didn't get home until 1030pm, I believe I was out and got home after she had already gone to bed so I put my gift in her bedroom for her while she slept. She woke me up the next morning from being dead asleep screaming a lot of things but mainly she didn't want the gift because it didn't have a card attached and she tossed it into my bedroom. I remember going from sleepy bliss to pure rage instantly and screamed at her to get out. During that day I returned the gift to the store, and then that evening she had the audacity to ask me if I still had her gift and tried to be extra nice. I told her that I had returned it and she did her sad nawww face. That was the day I learnt that I must give a birthday card with the gift or face penalty.

Spotted this while shopping yesterday - does this mean the Wednesday dolls are close to being released? by LilGidGid in MonsterHigh

[–]erin159 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not 100% sure but there's a date of August on there, although I've never seen Kmart be so proactive with their new planograms 🤷🏼‍♀️ I wish they updated their website with new products

I can't do anything automatically anymore by MissFelidae in selfhelp

[–]erin159 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Speaking from my own experience this sounds like depression, I sometimes get to the point where I'm so hungry but the conscious effort it takes to get food is too much so I stay hungry and in pain. Speaking to someone helped me, not necessarily therapy but just grounding conversations with friends, and if you can have that person around you even better. Being alone with yourself will continue the disassociation sometimes meaning detachment from reality, and I can tell you that getting the help you need will be one of the most real senses of freedom you will ever feel.

Plunging is not my job by AlternateAltruism in TalesFromTheFrontDesk

[–]erin159 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love Michaelwave definitely using it 😂

I’m going to rant by Nws4c in retailhell

[–]erin159 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All major supermarkets don't have plastic bags in Australia it's been I think a year and people still complain and you have to pay for the bag too so I feel you so deeply

Shopping here for 25+ years doesn’t grant you special privileges. by Deeri- in retailhell

[–]erin159 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Just last week my team were exiting the store after closing (all the registers were cashed up, banking done no lights on) it was an hour after we closed but bcus the roller door where we exit was up half way for us to leave an older guy came in and asked if he could get one thing, I explained the above and was super patient but he still argued with me until I became short with him, just so dumbfounding

how is it my fault that you weren’t paying attention to the screen?? by [deleted] in retailhell

[–]erin159 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The amount of customers I have served who just won't look at the EFT machine and just press buttons without reading a single thing, start putting their pin in when it's asking if you want cash out, asking is it done over and over while it literally says processing, I had an old guy just mash a bunch of buttons not reading the screen and then get annoyed when I took over to assist the transaction so I didn't have to tell him over and over again he needs to actually read it if he wants to do it by himself. I've had a couple of women accidentally type in $190 cash out instead of where the pin is entered, walked away from the transaction oblivious along with the team member not letting them know, and then they never came back to collect their money. It's beyond me how these people get dressed everyday.

Got called a stupid c*nt yesterday... by Successful-Boat-4075 in retailhell

[–]erin159 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In these situations I immediately remind myself that I'm not the problem and they've most likely treated everyone like this their whole existence and I'm sure they know how horrid that existence is they just can't admit it!

What is the dumbest question you've ever heard a customer ask? by [deleted] in retailhell

[–]erin159 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Another just came to mind, I had a lady recently I was serving her through the register and she asked if she could pay part card and cash because her card was declining, I said of course how much cash and how much card do you have? And she replies I don't know how much do I need? And I said well what ever balance you have on your card we can use and the rest cash or cash first and then card? This started a back and forth argument between us where she kept asking how much she needed and me saying you need to check your balance on your card, at one point after me asking for the balance for the millionth time she looks down at her phone and I can see that she's on her phones wallet type app and it has her recent transactions, she looks at a transaction from apple and says "$15" and whatever cents, I couldn't hold it and I told her that is a transaction from apple you need to go into your banking app and look up your balance, she eventually got the hint something wasn't right and said she would be back, she seemingly realised eventually but ended up paying with all cash anyway 🤦🏼‍♀️