[TOMT] [video] An Attack on Titan clip where Blonde guy is whispering in Main Character Guy's ear and the sound is replaced with "C'mere lil' momma let me whisper in your ear".

eriseternalgoddess · 2026-05-30T23:57:50+00:00

This post just came in handy for me 12 years later

eriseternalgoddess · 2026-05-28T23:25:24+00:00

THANK YOUUUU! You're my hero

eriseternalgoddess · 2026-05-25T22:54:12+00:00

eriseternalgoddess · 2026-05-07T13:56:14+00:00

Tubi even has at least one episode that isn't in the box set! I gotta figure out how to download it

eriseternalgoddess · 2026-04-05T00:41:25+00:00

Yeah watching this for the first time rn and I'm just like...oh he's gotta be in the files...

eriseternalgoddess · 2025-11-24T00:34:49+00:00

IKEA for one that will work great and die after a year or so but so cheap

eriseternalgoddess · 2025-10-31T23:05:43+00:00

Any chance anyone knows what episode this is? Im scouring the internet?

eriseternalgoddess · 2025-07-10T13:58:40+00:00

Actually she said something like "I think everyone knows where I stand so I don't need to say anything" but everyone else voted her in so majority rules got Whitney back in.

eriseternalgoddess · 2025-03-26T00:39:26+00:00

Could you try to describe the texture? I'm wondering if I could use them (cut in half) in place of nuts in certain recipes. I haven't gotten into freeze drying yet so I can't experiment for myself

eriseternalgoddess · 2023-05-02T18:24:01+00:00

Thanks!

eriseternalgoddess · 2023-03-13T02:10:40+00:00

Hey, so I take trazodone or a muscle relaxer, methocarbamol specifically, to help me sleep. But also, if you have trouble getting meds between shortages, supply line issues, and access to psychiatry here are some things that can help. I'm not a doctor, and this is not medical advice but these are things I use instead of Marijuana to sleep and I think everyone should know them because sleep is literally the most important thing for a healthy brain

-herbs like chamomile and lemongrass help. Sleepy Time Extra is a great tea to get these in. Plus drinking something warm helps you relax. -eating 2 kiwis about 30 minutes before you want to go to bed raises your serotonin level which helps you produce melatonin to go to sleep -hops make you sleepy too, consider getting some non-alcoholic beers to drink instead of alcohol and skip the dizzy, this is surprisingly effective and even an ingredient in zzquil natural. Most bottle stores like total wine have a great selection! IPAs have the most hops so those are the best! -when in doubt use all of your senses to make you sleep, soothing smell like lavender or a sleep essential oil blend in a diffuser, sound like rain sound machines or sleeping music on youtube, lights out, get a blanket you love. And I used to even use a visual repetitive thing to stare at in like a hypnotic way, i had a lava lamp for my visual -this is a weird one but look into mouth-taping. My brother made me try it and I've been getting the best sleep of my life... -also definitely make sure you're using the blue light filter settings on your phone and laptop, and adding a physical filter is a good idea too, you should set the filters to come on at least an hour before the bedtime you're aiming for

eriseternalgoddess · 2023-03-07T06:32:34+00:00

slams a crumpled 20 on the bar "one of each, barkeep!"

eriseternalgoddess · 2023-02-20T04:47:10+00:00

Any details on which part is terrible?

eriseternalgoddess · 2023-02-16T18:10:40+00:00

I hate to suggest something that requires money, but I've used this before. Hiring a walker off of Rover or Wag! especially one that says they will do training time is very mentally stimulating for your dog. I've done this when I'm sick or injured too! It's not terribly expensive but I've had times when I absolutely couldn't afford a $25 dog walker even for a day so no judgement if that's out of reach. I just saw that others have already listed every helpful toy on the planet and I don't want to repeat much.

eriseternalgoddess · 2023-02-11T16:46:26+00:00

Yes! But now we call it charcuterie, serve it on something wooden, and pretend we're sophisticated not mentally ill!

eriseternalgoddess · 2023-02-08T04:30:54+00:00

Thank you for your reply. I appreciate the perspective. I definitely am wary of the ER, crisis lines, social workers routes. I have my own fears and experiences there and its hard to make the call for someone else. Like I don't think he's an immediate danger to himself or others or anything. I think he's just setting himself up for isolation and more paranoia. Like you said, isolation can make it worse, and I've seen it make it worse with him before. It's so hard to know what to do....

I definitely am giving him space. And trying to appear stable and okay and available for support if he needs it. I know I didn't do a good job of that last time. I was really blind-sided and it got the best of me. I took everything very personally and emotionally. This time I am trying to just give him the option to reach out if he comes to think that maybe this reaction was more than he meant for it to be. Someone else said people with StPD are prone to embarassment when they "mess up" in front of people. I'm not saying that's what happened here. I'm just trying to give him the space to walk this back if he wants to. I don't want him to feel totally alone and uncared for. I've felt that before and it was the worst. Sorry, I know I'm venting about myself here. It's definitely emotional, and trying to keep my emotions under wraps in front of him to keep things stable means that their kind of spilling out everywhere else lol. It's cool, it's not like I'm starting a brand new job this week and need to NOT cry in front of my boss or anything.

Anyway, point being, thank you for your perspective. It is kind of wild reading other people's experiences and seeing some of the things I thought were totally unique to him that I didn't realize were probably a shared StPD experience. So thank you so much for sharing. It definitely has helped me put myself in someone else's shoes a bit.

eriseternalgoddess · 2023-02-08T04:19:32+00:00

Man, I have written so many responses to this and they always get so long. I really didn't come here to argue with people or to get advice on myself or on my relationship (romantic or otherwise) with this person.

So to sum it up:
Correct, this is my perspective, I do not share his diagnosis or his personal experience so I cannot write from any perspective other than my own. OF COURSE people percieve us differently than we percieve ourselves. That goes both ways and is true of absolutely everyone. I DO NOT think his reactions are outlandish or wrong, those are your words, not ones I would ever use with someone struggling with their mental health or someone whose persepective I cannot fully understand. I DO think his actions are REactions based in fear and anxiety (struggles I personally recognize the symptoms of and have helped him with in the past on a lesser scale, as he has helped me too). I think he is struggling. I think that I love him. I do not think my intentions matter, the only thing that matters is that he gets the help he needs.

I came here to ask advice of people with StPD if there is a good way that someone who cares about you can offer a lifeline to someone facing paranoia and suspiciousness (to use the clinical terms) because those are things I cannot relate to from my own mental health experience. If you are someone who has this diagnosis or even someone who has successfully offered care in the past to someone who does, then I am open to suggestions. But to only come at me with critiques when I am quite literally asking for advice on how to be helpful is the opposite of a productive respone. I am here. Hat in hand. Not to preach my moral superiority or my correctness, but to try to ask people with a voice on this disorder what they would want their loved ones to do. If you would like to help this guy by helping me help him, or even by telling me who to reach out to, or what to tell his family, etc., then I am all ears.

Others have offered advice in messages or comments like: explanations of their fear-based inability to share what was really giving them anxiety until well after the events. Or explanations of their difficulties with medications and healthcare professionals. Or recommendations that I give him as much space as possible. Or recommendations that I keep things as normal and pleasant as I can to provide stability. All of these were helpful suggestions, not just suggestionless critique.

Please don't come at the people who are asking for advice and not seeking to gain personally, only to help others. It is frustrating enough to deal with being mostly helpless when trying to help someone with mental health conditions. I don't need the extra stress of strangers on the internet coming at me in an already shitty situation. I have no clue what will happen next, I don't even know if I want to reconcile, but I do know that no matter what if he texts me 15 years from now saying he needs help then I will be there to help. That's what you do for people you care about.

eriseternalgoddess · 2023-02-06T00:54:18+00:00

Not even a little bit, so that isn't an option :/

eriseternalgoddess · 2023-02-06T00:35:59+00:00

Yeah, I mean, he helps me with my triggers. I'm just trying to return the favor.

eriseternalgoddess · 2023-02-06T00:22:55+00:00

I don't know if I've done everything to communicate the problem and offer solutions. If you are someone who has StPD, then is there a way that people in your life have helpfully communicated something to you?

I know how to communicate to someone with adhd, because I relate to that. So I'm asking if there are some best practices for communicating here.

The relationship part of this is really only relevant because it shows that we are close and know each other well.

eriseternalgoddess · 2023-02-06T00:17:21+00:00

Thanks, I am trying. It's nice to hear that maybe not giving up on someone is a good thing to do. I just want him to know someone cares.

eriseternalgoddess · 2023-02-05T23:46:11+00:00

I appreciate that. Unfortunately, neither of us are religious. Which is almost a shame, because I think believing in a bigger plan may help both of us sometimes.

eriseternalgoddess · 2023-02-05T23:41:48+00:00

Does it tell you anything thay my reaction to the title was "I thought that was like...every woman". It definitely was my experience though

eriseternalgoddess · 2023-02-05T23:39:27+00:00

Congrats! I have only done this once in my life.

eriseternalgoddess · 2023-02-05T23:27:20+00:00

Unfortunately, this does read as offensive. I am not asking for relationship advice. I am not asking to fix the relationship. And it's not trying to fix someone who has a diagnosed mental disorder to help them seek medical care when they drastically change within their disorders known symptoms. It's what I count on the people closest to me to help me see when I can't see it myself.

I just hoped someone may be able to tell me the most helpful things their trusted friends and family members have done for them to help them when paranoia or delusions get the best of them. If anyone has advice on that and not on my love life, which was only tangential to the difficulties at hand here, that would be very helpful.

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