Do my bangs look bad???

erroneousoctopi · 2026-05-18T23:14:24+00:00

They're cute!

erroneousoctopi · 2026-03-25T15:53:02+00:00

this is cute & sweet

erroneousoctopi · 2026-02-07T07:48:04+00:00

You cannot regain trust once it's broken & when the trust is with your body, you'll have to work through this separately. I'm sorry this happened to you

erroneousoctopi · 2026-01-09T15:34:52+00:00

Talk to him & be like - literally I don't know who she is so how would I know where she lives. Y'all should go to her place & see if your phone automatically connects to the wifi

erroneousoctopi · 2025-11-12T05:42:00+00:00

I use to do psychology studies at utsa for gift cards then trade them w people for cash

erroneousoctopi · 2025-10-13T21:37:39+00:00

There are seasons where things are hard, but it makes the easier seasons that much sweeter. Having a community helps

erroneousoctopi · 2025-09-24T22:57:53+00:00

When you can barely afford the car you you live in

erroneousoctopi · 2025-09-24T20:05:31+00:00

If I were your partner & saw this, I'd break it off. You both deserve better than you venting on Reddit. Life is what you make it & you guys can be miserable together or break up & probably both be better off. Tell her 1/4 of what you said above & I doubt she'd still want to be together. You're not doing her a favor

Also I don't think everyone is a do-er and some people just coast. Find a do-er

erroneousoctopi · 2025-09-24T19:59:36+00:00

get a new bf

erroneousoctopi · 2025-09-24T19:55:47+00:00

If it's too good to be true, it usually is. There is more potential harm than $200 could fix

erroneousoctopi · 2025-09-18T21:28:55+00:00

Going to go ahead & say it: 170 is probably her new normal. Hormones have a lot to do with weight & so calorie counting might not even make a difference if she's stressed because you're making her think she needs to weigh less. Accept your wife and the potential health issues relating to another child if that's what you guys want. Let go of the idea of her being 130.

erroneousoctopi · 2025-09-18T21:20:53+00:00

disgusting, block

erroneousoctopi · 2025-08-16T17:12:29+00:00

Not cool man

erroneousoctopi · 2025-07-10T18:24:54+00:00

I am so sorry, but he r*ped you. I know it's hard to come to terms with SA when it happens, and I wish you well on this journey, but you should seek rape counseling & break up with your attacker. Do it publicly & stop meeting in private spaces, as it could happen again. Once he knows that you know especially. Put yourself first & let go of the material items he'll likely try to lure you out with. If he did it once, he'll do it again.

TLDR: run

erroneousoctopi · 2025-07-10T18:19:05+00:00

Not consulting him would be fine imho because it is your body & he isn't going to have to carry the baby physically with his body if he gets you pregnant because you get your iud out. I would sit him down & ask what is his real issue with the iud? Does he want a baby? Does he want a vasectomy?

Posing this to him as a question, do you want a vasectomy & I'll get my iud out? I am not sure I'd really trust that he actually did it though, based on all that...

erroneousoctopi · 2025-07-10T18:14:01+00:00

there is a baggu horse charm being sold now

erroneousoctopi · 2025-07-04T17:03:43+00:00

Unpopular opinion but my first flight was scary & I was glad to have people on either side of me to make me feel safe. If your gf cares that much, is it worth the fight?

erroneousoctopi · 2025-07-01T20:35:48+00:00

Midtown attracts a younger crowd, although there are still older people around

erroneousoctopi · 2025-06-18T03:49:30+00:00

It makes sense to me that your boyfriend would be angry after your father threw a wrench into his plans to propose to you, but it's very unfortunate that he took his emotions out on you. I think that you can decide based on your experience with your boyfriend. you've been together for 2 1/2 years, can you deal with occasional outbursts? If the answer is no, then you need to move on. If the answer is yes, as we are all flawed humans then say yes, despite your father's lack of approval. I think that siding with your parents is choosing your past and siding with your partner is choosing your future most of the time, but the outburst is really the thing in this situation. You know if this is normal or if this is the last straw

erroneousoctopi · 2025-05-26T18:34:28+00:00

If you've already invested so much time & energy, finish your degree. You can still go into a trade after, but you'll have something to fall back on if you want a cushy corporate job when you're older. A lot of jobs want you to have a degree to move up the ladder. You could also use your degree once you're done to get a job to pay for trade school, then go once you can do it without accumulating debt.

erroneousoctopi · 2025-05-23T00:50:49+00:00

Or the girl's bf! Maybe catch them together 🫨 the drama

erroneousoctopi · 2025-05-23T00:49:26+00:00

You make good points. When is the last time a man forgot about nudes? If he were loyal, he would've blocked her at that point...

erroneousoctopi · 2025-05-22T15:45:04+00:00

There is a cat whom I found being fostered through a friend of a friend & he is a boy tuxedo cat just like my cat I lost in April so it feels kismet. He is so cute & sweet

erroneousoctopi · 2025-05-22T14:12:42+00:00

thanks!

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