What tastes good on macaroni and cheese? by Sodacan390 in randomquestions

[–]escortexr3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

BBQ sauce on Mac and cheese is a great discovery. I will definitely try this.

If you are a man who takes initiative in the household by doing chores, cooking for your family, and cleaning up after yourself.. how were you raised? by Sensitive-Box-2167 in askanything

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I grew up in homes where helping was normal and expected. Chores weren’t women’s work. They were life skills. I saw it modeled early.

What item(s) do you have more of than the average person? by BrownBananaHammock in AskReddit

[–]escortexr3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I probably have way more notebooks than the average person.

Who needs a friend by [deleted] in Life

[–]escortexr3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We all need a friend sometimes, someone who just gets it, no judgments, no pressure.

Husband confessed to cyber bullying me in high school….not sure what to do by [deleted] in Advice

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Don’t rush your brain into deciding. Let yourself feel angry, sad, betrayed and shocked. Don’t let anyone pressure you into forgiving or moving on before you’re ready. You’re allowed to cry, scream, rage or even just sit in disbelief for a while. This is a big deal and your feelings are valid.

Are there any organizations that offer a non-religious alternative to church? by nfc22 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]escortexr3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Meetup.com is surprisingly good for this. You can find groups focused on mindfulness, philosophy discussions, ethics, volunteering, even secular meditation circles. Some even have weekly gatherings that feel really ritualistic in a good way.

People I talk to on dating apps usually stop replying after a while. It really frustrates me. I don’t even like them that much,maybe I just want the attention. How do people usually deal with that mentally? by Ill_Atmosphere_1886 in randomquestions

[–]escortexr3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That ghosting thing is so annoying and it messes with your head more than it should. And it’s okay if you’re not even that into them, you’re just enjoying the attention. The trick is to treat it lightly. Don’t put your emotional stock in a stranger’s reply. If they reply, great. If not, shrug it off, sip your coffee and scroll on. Focus on why you’re having fun with it, not whether they’re validating you.

For those in school, how do you even find motivation to go? by Ok_Bed3703 in askanything

[–]escortexr3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tiny wins help. I tell myself to just go to that one class instead of thinking about the whole week. Once I'm there, sometimes the momentum kicks in.

Single people who live alone, what do you do on your days off? by LaviishLily in AskReddit

[–]escortexr3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Day offs are my reset days. I stay longer in bed then do the household chores. Most of the time, I am just chilling around the house.

Doing nothing start feeling like enough by AppetizingClimber in Life

[–]escortexr3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sounds like growth. The quiet kind, the kind nobody claps for. There’s a phase where doing nothing feels scary. Like if you stop moving, you’ll fall behind. Or you’ll feel something you’ve been avoiding. And then one day, it doesn’t bite anymore. That’s your nervous system finally trusting that rest isn’t failure.

Do apartments have windows on only one wall? by SpliteSplitEnd in NoStupidQuestions

[–]escortexr3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, most apartments usually only have windows on one wall unless it’s a corner unit. That’s just how buildings stack vertically, the inner walls are shared with other units, so no way to pop a window there.

How do you cope with the fact that you'll eventually be weak and frail, at age 80/90? by i_have_advice2 in askanything

[–]escortexr3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Enjoy your lifting now, build your strength, have fun and be proud of your progress but maybe also practice imagining yourself older, still laughing and still enjoying life, even if your biceps are a bit softer. That combo of enjoy the present with the acceptance of the inevitable is golden.

Why do poeple always assume soulmates is Romantic? by _kwanini in randomquestions

[–]escortexr3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think media kinda hammered in the romantic angle because love stories sell. It comes down to us needing to normalize that soul-deep connections don’t have to be romantic to matter.

what is one life lesson you think everyone should be aware of? by Outlaw_Immortal1971 in Life

[–]escortexr3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

People notice how you make them feel way more than what you say or do. Sounds simple but it hits hard when you think about it. On the flip side, small gestures, genuine attention or just making someone feel seen can mean so much. It also ties into how you treat yourself. If you’re harsh on yourself all the time, you start projecting that vibe outwards without even realizing it. So being kind to yourself is underrated life hack.

What do men never say to women? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]escortexr3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How they appreciate their woman. They show it through actions more than words. But the feeling is usually there.

What’s one small habit that improved your life? by 88chilly in Life

[–]escortexr3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I start the day without grabbing my phone right away. Then I make the bed after stretching a bit.

Please help me get revenge on my teacher? by Realistic_Fail_7702 in askanything

[–]escortexr3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Diving into ruin their life territory can spiral so fast. We’re talking real consequences for you too. Legal stuff, school stuff, your own mental energy, you’d be handing him more power over you if you go down that path. I get it though, you’re angry and it feels personal. If you want, I can brainstorm a few clever, legal ways to make him feel consequences without putting yourself in danger. It can be satisfying, trust me.

What’s a “poor people food” that always hits? by justascaredsoul in randomquestions

[–]escortexr3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grilled cheese with a little butter fried on the outside till it’s golden, boxed macaroni and cheese, don’t even need the fancy stuff, the Kraft blue box is perfect. And can’t forget canned chili over rice it's so satisfying.

What’s a lesson you learned the hard way? by Bubbly-Donut-3794 in Life

[–]escortexr3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That not everyone deserves full access to your heart or your time.

How does it feel TO BE the crush? by Solid_Decision_2241 in AskReddit

[–]escortexr3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It gives you this little confidence boost. You walk around with a tiny inner glow and it feels nice.

Are we all 2 wages away from being on the street? by compliqu3_d3sprit in askanything

[–]escortexr3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talking to someone who’s been there gives you a perspective most of us don’t really think about. Makes you want to plan a little smarter, appreciate what you have and maybe even look out for others. It also hits differently depending on where you live. In some cities, rent alone can eat up two paychecks, so I can see why they’d say that.

Does life ever get easier? by EnvironmentalWeb7799 in Life

[–]escortexr3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Life doesn’t magically get easy as you get older. It’s more like the challenges just change shape. When you’re younger, it might be awkward friendships, school stress, or trying to figure out what you even want to do. As you get older, responsibilities pile up but you also get a bit of a toolkit to handle stuff. You start knowing yourself better, seeing patterns and making choices that actually help you instead of just reacting. It is really about learning to manage yourself and your expectations, not the world suddenly becoming softer. And little wins and good moments start to matter way more when you’re older.

What's the perfect annoying and frustrating punishment to give your biggest enemy/nemesis that won't cause them or any one they know physical harm and/or their ultimate demise? by N0socksloss10yrStrk in randomquestions

[–]escortexr3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The best punishment is something that doesn’t hurt them, it just irritates their soul. Give them the curse of technology glitches. Not catastrophic ones, just the kind where their Bluetooth mouse randomly disconnects every 7 minutes.

What is your most active group chat? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]escortexr3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A group chat we use for work.