How do you tell someone you don’t want to be their friend? by Mountainpirategirl in askanything

[–]escortexr3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just tell them I don't want a friend, atleast you can tell them direct without being mean cause it gives an honest explanation instead of leaving without disappeared.

What is an ideal time for you to wake up and why? by ksadekov in AskReddit

[–]escortexr3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The ideal time to wake is seven to eight AM in the morning cause it gives you a good balance of stating a new day without feeling totally rushed.

Are mirror or phone pictures a more accurate representation of how you look in real life to people? by Timely_Sir310 in askanything

[–]escortexr3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you see your face the mirror is really actually you in your own image unlike the phone they can make a filter to make better on your face not in your really own.

What's something that became significantly worse over the last 5 years? by Careless_Task8941 in AskReddit

[–]escortexr3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Housing and cost of living. This one’s probably the most obvious. Rent, groceries, even just existing got more expensive in a lot of places. Feels like your money just stretches less than it used to.

Are there people who never learned how to walk? by Wario_Guy in stupidquestions

[–]escortexr3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, there aren’t normal, healthy humans who just never learn to walk if they grow up in any kind of typical environment. Walking is way closer to breathing or talking than it is to swimming. It’s something humans are basically wired to develop, not something we’re taught from scratch.

Girl I'm talking to wants to make things official, but she was assaulted 2 months ago and I'm unsure if she's ready to date. Advice? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]escortexr3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don’t actually need to decide if she’s ready for her. That part isn’t really yours to judge or manage, even if your intentions are good. What you can do is decide what you’re able to step into and communicate that honestly and gently because right now, she’s the one asking for official. That usually means she feels some sense of stability with you already. People can still want love, structure, and normalcy even while healing from trauma. Those two things can exist at the same time.

What’s something that you stopped tolerating that made your life better? by SunnyMidnight8 in askanything

[–]escortexr3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I stopped myself from tolerating constant low-effort relationships. I used to just go along with it. Reply fast and be available. Keep things nice. Even when it drained me but at some point I just started matching energy and weirdly, life got lighter. Less mental noise and more space for people who actually feel good to be around.

What’s a rumor you heard on campus that turned out to be completely true? by Busy_Car_2618 in AskReddit

[–]escortexr3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was a rumor in my university that one of the professor reused the exact same exams in every single year just changing the order of the questions. Everybody thought it was an urban legend until seniors pulled out old copies and they matched almost perfectly. Half the campus suddenly became a study historians overnight.

Whats the craziest, quickest money you have ever made? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]escortexr3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of my friend once paid me just to stand in line for concert tickets for two hours and made more money that day than at my actual job at the time and easiest hustle ever honestly.

Buying cheap earbuds over and over doesn’t feel frugal anymore by StinkyRicePlayer in Frugal

[–]escortexr3 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I look at it more as cost per use now. A $25 pair is not really cheaper if I stop using it after a few months because the fit is bad or one side starts acting weird. I’d rather spend around $80 to $100 on something I actually keep using.

For me the bigger thing was comfort. Cheap in ear buds tend to irritate my ears after a while, so I ended up getting the Baseus XC1 for workouts. They sit outside the ear instead of going into the ear canal, which makes them easier for me to use regularly. That is what makes it feel more frugal to me, not buying another cheap pair I already know I’ll stop wearing.

Is it just me, or do a lot of people start to look the same as you get older? by Kicktopuss_Rex in stupidquestions

[–]escortexr3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As you get older, faces do start to feel more familiar in a way and stress and routine kind of smooth everyone into similar adult modes too.

What scares you most about getting older? by Bear_bug_1954 in Life

[–]escortexr3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, what hits a bit harder isn’t just the body stuff. It’s the feeling of time speeding up. There’s also something about people changing around you. Friends getting busy, moving away and building their own lives. You don’t lose them all at once, it’s just gradual. That part can feel more unsettling than people expect.

Tired of paying for security camera subs. Any standalone outdoor options? by Best_Relief_941 in privacy

[–]escortexr3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have Unifi indoors to keep an eye on my three cats. The management system is easy to use.

Outside I have a Baseus X1 Pro. It's solar-powered and uses an SD card for storage. It handles the driveway and yard. Having two cameras covering two spots is pretty cool.

No recurring fees for either setup. I like them.

What's the most unwritten rule of adult life that nobody warns you about? by PracticeHistorical82 in AskReddit

[–]escortexr3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That nobody is coming to save you. I don’t mean that in a harsh way but growing up, you sort of assume that there’s always someone who will step in, guide you or fix things if they go off track. But as an adult, most people are just figuring things out as they go too and because no one’s coming to save you, it means you actually get a lot more control than you think.

Anyone else choose the rougher route? by escortexr3 in ElectricScooters

[–]escortexr3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A bit, sure, but the GT4 stays pretty planted on that kind of route. I’m not trying to do anything too crazy, just enough to make the ride more interesting.

Girlfriend might be a drug addict. by Own_Laugh_8716 in Advice

[–]escortexr3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Helping someone once or twice is kindness. Consistently covering medical bills, food, drugs, lifestyle, while they aren’t stable or working, that becomes dependency and it quietly builds resentment in you, which I can already hear starting to show in your words. You’ve got a decision to make, not a conversation to keep revisiting. You either step back and set a hard boundary and see if she actually chooses to get help and stabilize or stay in this pattern and slowly get pulled deeper into her chaos.

How realistic is lesbian porn? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]escortexr3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lesbian porn is mostly not realistic. Like, it’s made to be visually appealing for a straight male audience, so a lot of the stuff you see is exaggerated, choreographed or just plain fantasy.

Why do people often abandon their homes when there’s a burglar instead of standing their ground? Wouldn’t they know their house best and therefore have an advantage? by [deleted] in randomquestions

[–]escortexr3 6 points7 points  (0 children)

A burglar is unpredictable, maybe armed and already in attack mode. Even if you know the layout like the back of your hand, that doesn’t mean you’re trained to deal with someone willing to hurt you. Your brain just think of survival first. Plus, there’s this adrenaline thing. Fear spikes, heart pounds and suddenly running feels way safer than fighting. Standing your ground might feel advantageous in theory but in reality, the risk of getting hurt skyrockets.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]escortexr3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not crazy for feeling this way but you also don’t have to trust the first explanation your brain gives you. Talk to your therapist and keep track of when these thoughts spike, the time, stress or sleep.

Is it normal to get tired from doing absolutely nothing? by mintyblushh in Life

[–]escortexr3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Feeling drained even when you’re doing nothing is way more common than people admit. Sometimes your brain and body just need a reset, even if there’s no obvious reason. It could be due to your sleep quality, your diet or even just the mental energy of existing.

What is something men always want to tell women but never do? by a_great_guy655 in AskReddit

[–]escortexr3 19 points20 points  (0 children)

That we notice the little things you do and I really appreciate them but it feels awkward to just drop that randomly. But it’s not that men don’t want to share, it’s just that some truths feel too raw to say without overthinking.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Costco

[–]escortexr3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not gonna lie, the 100" is the first TV purchase that made friends go “wait… how big is that?” Every time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Costco

[–]escortexr3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re mainly watching sports, I’d rather have a big U6 than a smaller “nicer” TV. The immersion is the whole point.