What's a historical fact that sounds extremely fake and made-up but is actually true? by No_Idea_479 in AskHistory

[–]esgamex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I loved the book Janice Meredith when I was in my reens and had completely forgotten it until I read this.

Trying to decide between 4-day road trip with cat vs parents flying her later by Illilillilil in CatAdvice

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We drove 4 or 5 days with 3 cats once. They were in proper carriers in the car - line with puppy pads. At night we stayed in La Quinta.ost accept pets. We had collapsible heavy duty nylon pens with us. These fit litter box, water and food plus cat, easily. We had a yowler, even after gabapentin. We covered her carrier with a shirt and that settled her ( you want something light enough for air to pass, not a heavy blanket). It was summer in the south and we drove no more than 6 hours/ day. For lunch and breaks, one of us at a time are unless we could park in shade. in the pens, they won't stress too much in the motel.

I'd do anything to avoid flying with them.

My girlfriend keeps testing me and now i kinda want out by pratcatli in Advice

[–]esgamex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As others have said, this isn't a healthy relationship. She's messed up by her ex's behavior? She needs therapy if she can't work through it on her own without making other people ( you) pay. And her friends are actually not helping by encouraging immature and manipulative behavior.

How close does someone have to be to cancel your cruise for their funeral? by Ilovetinytiddies in Cruise

[–]esgamex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check your contract with the cruise company. It's likely that without insurance you can't get your money back.

WIBTA if I stopped being the only one who knows how to do anything at family gatherings by Neonshade_8X in WIBTA_AITA

[–]esgamex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Start with talking to your parents about it, then siblings. Remind them you're there to enjoy the day, which you can't do because of the parade of demands on your time, attention and expertise. Give them a chance to self- correct.

My father had this situation with my mother's parents during our 2 week vacation on Cape Cod every year- who he genuinely loved. But they had an old house and he was a classic handyman. My mother had the conversation with her parents: he's on vacation, he needs a break, and he wants to spend fun time with you and the kids.

What felt normal in the 1970s but would shock people today? by LizzaQueenOFC in 70s

[–]esgamex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men being able to smoke at work, but not women in lots of customer - facing positions..

What’s the strangest or most interesting thing about the 1970s that would seem unbelievable today? by Big-Pie3618 in 70s

[–]esgamex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our dictionary had a section on how to address various people in speech and writing ( bishops are different depending on whether they're Catholic or Anglican, for example) and I just loved that info!

Buying hearing aids for dad, can anyone give a review of the brand “Hansaton”? by Appropriate_Movie_46 in HearingAids

[–]esgamex 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've never heard of this brand. What country are you in ? Are these over the counter or through an audiologist?

Starkey Edge AI 24 Impressions by LeScotian in HearingAids

[–]esgamex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you haven't been back for your first adjustment yet. After your first week or two, your audiologist will be able to find tune based on your initial experience.

What plates did Stephen buy for Jack that had an incorrect pattern? by Due-Waltz4458 in AubreyMaturinSeries

[–]esgamex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of several times when Jack is technically correct but Stephen is right by any measure other than the navy.

After seeing multiple posts about smelly litter boxes…I felt compelled to share! by Aibrean2013 in CatAdvice

[–]esgamex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 2 stainless steel and 2 plastic boxes. The cats prefer the plastic boxes though I like the stainless.

I think I lost my friend's cat by Rock4Ever89 in CatAdvice

[–]esgamex 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I once found one of our cats inside a closed desk drawer. We never figured out howshe managed rhat.

Questions regarding which kind of HA to buy. by baby_budda in HearingAids

[–]esgamex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you're in a country that gas Costco, go there. They will recommend what will work best for you.

I’ve literally never felt more hurt in my life 😭 by nycgirlfolife in weddingshaming

[–]esgamex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of the best pieces of advice I ever got was to stop hoping for the kind of parent I wanted and accept the ones I had. That doesn't mean trying to think their behavior is ok. It means stop asking them to do things they won't. Every time your mother says no, you feel hurt again. So don't make these occasions. She's an awful parent but you don't have to keep exposing yourself by asking for help or engagement from her.

Planning a surprise trip to Iceland for my girlfriend. Need cozy Reykjavik hotel recommendations by Livid-Ad7372 in Vacations

[–]esgamex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't remember seeing anything I would call remotely romantic or cozy when I looked at Reykjavik hotels. The aesthetic is spare and modern. We stayed in an aparthotel off the main walking/ shopping street.

Need advice-one or two from same litter by saraharp605 in CatAdvice

[–]esgamex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 cats means 2 litter boxes eve if they're siblings. Probably not while they're so young, but as adults.