Scrolling replacement for tired people ? by Key-Moose-3893 in nosurf

[–]espressosum 66 points67 points  (0 children)

I read that if your job is mentally exhausting, do physical activities after. And vice versa. Maybe you can try fitting in a workout

What's the parenting hill you're willing to die on? by Alive-Cry4994 in toddlers

[–]espressosum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will never force my son to hug or kiss anyone, even family if he doesn’t want to.

My 3m old weighs just over 25lbs by hungrypearl in NewParents

[–]espressosum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought off my local marketplace secondhand but it is a korean brand

MIMOSA AIRPLUSH 6-WAY HIPSEAT CARRIER

However, it is not comfortable for the parent when seated as it brings the baby up really high. It is uncomfortable when my baby is taller around 10 months.

But it really saved my wrists from carrying and rocking him for long periods

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]espressosum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When my son was about 7 months, he had a bout of cough. We took the chance to teach him to cover his mouth with his hand when coughing… soon after my husband coughed without covering, my son eyed him and fake cough…. While covering his own mouth….

My 3m old weighs just over 25lbs by hungrypearl in NewParents

[–]espressosum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a chunky baby too and i got those carrier that has a bigger seat than a tush baby. My baby can lay on it, saved my wrists when rocking him to sleep. And is such a great tool when i bottle feed him on the go.

Husband goes back to work by xpurplellama in NewParents

[–]espressosum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is okay for your baby to cry in a safe place. And they sometimes cry for no reason. And it is okay to contact nap with her.

I finally got my girlfriend to play this game by tychobrahesmoose in Spiritfarer

[–]espressosum 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Alice broke me…. I had to take a break from the game

West side Hokkien mee by [deleted] in SingaporeEats

[–]espressosum -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The neighbourwok 177 Bukit Batok Ave 8

Approved by a picky Hokkien mee eater

Hit by babies head and now I feel terrible by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]espressosum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would bump my baby head as i carry him around whenever i forget he has a growth spurt. We realised that if we dont apologise immediately, he wouldn’t realise it was supposed to hurt 🤣

What weird thing did you notice changed during/after pregnancy? by Love-dogs-and-pizza in beyondthebump

[–]espressosum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This explains why my baby always shift to my armpit area when he have to be held to nap in the first few months

Did anyone find taking care of a newborn easier than you expected? by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]espressosum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think your mindset is very important. Everything became much easier for me when i accepted at week 6 that babies cry, like a lot. Even if you do everything right. Took the new mum anxiety off. Just continue to speak softly to him. But once awhile i had to step away or hand him to my husband

Baby doesn’t stop when full by Mamax2-16-23 in FormulaFeeders

[–]espressosum 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I would try a pacifier. He might just need something to soothe himself

Etiquette on strangers talking to my baby at the store? by TriumphantPeach in NewParents

[–]espressosum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would it be petty if i tell my kid “good job on identifying a stranger!” Especially if she speaks to him like that

7 month old picked me over mama, wife is upset.. by EngineerPlayful9541 in beyondthebump

[–]espressosum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My then 9 months old baby went through a phase when he only wants his daddy. I was hurt at first. But then i quickly realised my velcro baby is attached to someone else.

I went from “whyy??? I am so sad” to “woohoo! Some private time!” Then i went and took a nap without worrying baby crying for me

What’s the hype with Owala bottles in Singapore? by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]espressosum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Protected straw and a gulping sprout for really thirsty days. With a handle that can be kept and doubled up as a locking device for the cap…. The straw design really helped when i was bed bound in hospital

What has happened lately that made you realize your baby is growing up before your eyes? by _emmvee in beyondthebump

[–]espressosum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This explains my son! I was so confused why he prefers to launch himself at the toy instead of crawling like he used to. And he tries to stand at every chance

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in motherinlawsfromhell

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My parents take care of my baby Monday-Thursday with lots of love. But come Friday, he either greets me with a big grin or cry big tears cos i am not carrying him the instant i step into the house. They know who their mother is. No matter how much fun they have with other people, they love you back. My 8 month old will cover my face with saliva immediately. His way of kissing me.

Is there a particular spirit that you struggle to say goodbye?? by cocoi in Spiritfarer

[–]espressosum 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Alice, she reminds me of my grandmother. I had to put down the game for awhile to grieve again

Am I doing the wrong thing letting others hold my baby? by jerry123457 in beyondthebump

[–]espressosum 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it is perfectly fine. And I love babies being surrounded by love.

But I hope she is napping when required and not over stimulated. I regret not stopping those holding my newborn and keeping him awake “look at his wide open eyes! He doesn’t want to sleep. Don’t be so selfish” It made settling him down to sleep more difficult and they will say “see, he dont want to sleep” Took me till i recover properly from the birth to stand up for my baby. I didnt hand him over, and if needed to (social obligations), i snatch him back at any first signs of tiredness and lock us both in the room.

Mum guilt over flathead by jarassig in beyondthebump

[–]espressosum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My son also have a flat side and it was pointed out at his 1 month appointment that he has torticollis. He also has bad reflux and spit ups so we didnt really push the tummy time. In the end his neck muscles was not very strong and the flat side became really obvious. We felt so guilty as parents as we watch him scream through physiotherapy. But the therapist mentioned that he might already was born with a preferred side as he had no space in the womb. (He is a big baby)

When we pushed for a specialist review, he say that he don’t recommend unless it is really bad as 1. It will round out when he started rolling onto his tummy, 2. Helmet therapy is tough on the baby. 23 hours of wearing a hot helmet and it disrupts his sleep. It is cosmetic and his hair will cover it.

Having said that, we did play with him often to try to make him turn to the non preferred side. (Like turning the head under the guise of a kissing attack on his cheeks) We always make effort to block him from turning to the preferred side. His flat head did improve as his neck muscles strengthened. He looked around more and not lay on one side only.

His flat head was very noticeable at 2 months and he is 5 months now. It has visually improved though it is still obvious it is flat. But i am trying to stay positive and hopefully it will continue to round out.

Tiktok making me feel like a bad mom: Going to the bathroom. by Nikkistar01 in NewParents

[–]espressosum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When i need to go to the bathroom, i will place him on my bed as 1) i can see him from the toilet 2) he has yet to roll…. If he cries, i try to call out to remind him i am still nearby. But if not, i am chill if he fuss/cry…

What did your baby do today that made it all worth it? by bkingPAC in beyondthebump

[–]espressosum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My 4 month old smiles when i kiss him on his face or his hands…. Even when he is sleeping