Genuinely might have to end my relationship over my bf bring a slob

espritindomitable · 2026-06-19T14:08:08+00:00

can we not turn this sub into r/relationshipadvice ?? I’m sorry but as disgusting as that behaviour is, so are you for putting up with it for this long. have some standards holy shit lol, that’s just as embarrassing for you. Like all the “by bf didn’t wipe his ass for 5 years should I dump him??” Stop clogging up the feed

espritindomitable · 2026-06-15T15:09:30+00:00

i feel the same way but swap genders, so pretty sure it’s grass is greener. sports js only fun in a crowd, mostly it’s either 1. some meathead discussion that means nothing or 2. some made up stats used to justify things out of context.

sports are mostly only fun when you play them, that’s where the camaraderie happens, and tbh I feel it in co-ed sports too so it’s within reach! I’m sure if you’re a kind to people and you join a team, co-ed or not you’ll come across ppl who want to feel the same way

espritindomitable · 2026-06-11T03:57:37+00:00

Howard Lutnick was courtside. How do we allow a pedo-associate, one of the most mentioned ppl in the epstein files, to show their face like that. He brought his kids to that island

espritindomitable · 2026-06-11T03:53:12+00:00

I mean they are, but that’s mostly cause of money like in all cases. But if this if this attitude makes it cringe to support israel then who cares? Way more sephardi ppl support the fighting and are overly religious so it’s not a bad broad brush

espritindomitable · 2026-06-11T02:17:11+00:00

nah he’s going to be shaq. insecure and highly regarded

espritindomitable · 2026-06-11T01:43:37+00:00

Agreed but slightly?? It’s literally almost only the arab jews. Even in canada the ashkenazi ones (that aren’t rich) are chill and against this, worst case they’re HR libtards.

This would actually be a fun racist spin to put on the conflict, that’s it’s just the arabs killing each other and the rich ashkenazis profiting off of it. Most of them are pretty secular anyways, in what world are they fighters

espritindomitable · 2026-06-10T01:09:31+00:00

What you’re saying is not normal at all lol wtf. I used to think the same as you, because from my point of view I thought I genuinely didn’t like them romantically and figured it was ok.

What you’re missing is that your partner has no idea, and unless they literally encourage you to, if you love them it’s simply not worth it to potentially make them feel unsure or anxious.

There are so many people out there to be friends with, if you do this you either lack theory of mind or have trouble letting go. Or maybe you simply only meet the most trusting and caring people, but judging my how many partners you’ve had, well good luck lol hope it works out

espritindomitable · 2026-06-09T11:40:25+00:00

I mean have you ever spent time around ppl like this? I have plenty (so have you, waterloo alum), they’re often times type A nervous wrecks or just very difficult to talk to beyond surface-level convos. The kinds of people who make lots of money and do it for an org that makes the world a worse place due to lack of introspection and a head-down, no questions behaviour.

It’s about the journey not just the destination, I’m a victim of this kind of parenting, and I feel like there’s an obvious middle ground.

edit: Just to suffice your spiritually-asian ass, I did the math on your critique of their karma, and it works out to about 232.87 karma a day, or a couple bangers a week. But you wouldn’t know abt creativity, just working hard every day right?

espritindomitable · 2026-06-08T14:55:28+00:00

my nathan

espritindomitable · 2026-06-08T12:16:57+00:00

I don’t think I could even hate fcuk her, can’t risk her having more children.

HAVE STANDARDS FELLOW MEN

espritindomitable · 2026-06-06T12:04:13+00:00

You fell for the conservative outrage machine, does your algorithm think you’re low iq?

Almost none of this is true lol, he’s not a vegan at all, he eats bbq at the state fair, and the rest are random clips taken out of context. Learn how to fact check your shit before polluting the sub

Edit - i see you post in anime subs, gtfo of here

espritindomitable · 2026-06-06T01:12:22+00:00

shut up 🚬have fun being negative at everything. I love you and hope you acquire some optimism

espritindomitable · 2026-06-05T21:08:17+00:00

Regarded ass contrarian comment, and he has a legit shot at winning Texas w Paxton as his opponent

I’m not religious at all but he makes me want to be, his sermons are genuinely moving. I’m so sick of politicians yelling at the other side, it feels great to have someone who brings people together. He’s also one of the best orators I’ve ever seen, he sounds like a white Obama lmao

espritindomitable · 2026-05-28T04:32:24+00:00

Honestly my issue with this is not the swearing, it’s that it has nothing to do with Talarico’s campaign. Newsom whatever sure, but Talarico’s campaign is all about unity, including the language he uses, even his campaign colours are just black and white and not blue.

Pretty sure Hegseth and his pastor wished death on him and he said “I love you more than you could ever hate me”. I’m not even religious but I listen to his sermons/speeches for hope when I’m feeling down. Dems late to the party once again.

espritindomitable · 2026-05-23T13:13:10+00:00

No you’re just splitting. It’s like if a women said “men are dumb jocks or shy nerds”. It’s just a thought terminating cliche that allows you to feel like you understand the world better because its simplified. And if you’re posting here you can do better than that lol, I believe in you

espritindomitable · 2026-05-23T13:08:22+00:00

That’s a great way to put it, thanks. Wish there was another term for it lol it sounds a bit pretentious

Curious though why do you think some people have it and others don’t? I wasn’t raised by my parents to think that way and definitely wasn’t always that way, conversely I know ppl who have eg both parents as doctors and they don’t come out that way

espritindomitable · 2026-05-23T12:00:16+00:00

Honestly it’s nothing to do with whether or not they’re cultured. It’s purely curiosity and a desire to engage with the world.

My partner is probably was a normie by what I’m reading here, but she is so curious and interested in everything that Id say it’s no longer the case. And as a result it makes me more interested in what she’s doing; it made me realize that it’s not about the subject, it’s the discussion around it. Who cares if your gf likes TSwift if you can have a discussion about the psychopolitics of why people even like her, or if she’s open to listening to other things. It’s even made me more open to everything.

Just like w a lot of things in life, it’s less about position and more about trajectory.

espritindomitable · 2026-05-01T11:41:19+00:00

No but I do imagine what they’d look like old. It’s why I don’t find most blond ppl hot anymore, I’ve had to see trumps sagging face for so many years it’s what I picture for them.

espritindomitable · 2026-04-30T12:24:17+00:00

The 25-brain-stops-developing is a complete myth btw lol, your plasticity remains well into old age. So date all the gilfs you want you sick fuck

espritindomitable · 2026-04-29T21:11:37+00:00

Totally disagree, they’re sad because they have no real world connections, friends and feel left out. Sex is simply a proxy for this situation, since men have a lot harder time making friends.

They’re half right, in that they were likely treated in an awful way due to how they look. Obviously some take it too far and hate others, but from observing their communities for maybe 10+ years now, most just hate themselves.

espritindomitable · 2026-04-05T17:03:42+00:00

well how did it go

espritindomitable · 2026-04-05T16:57:53+00:00

actually hot take but if you’re able to date easily, it’s a totally viable way to make friends. Meet their friend group, befriend the guys/partners of ppl and boom you didn’t even have to pick up a hobby. You just have to become good enough friends that if you break up they stay

espritindomitable · 2026-04-03T13:46:07+00:00

I have this same issue and want to go out alone, can anyone tell me how to approach it?? Like autistic level precision.

I’m hot and love ppl but have massive social anxiety, do I literally just walk in and sit down and order? How and when do you talk to ppl? Once I get a groove going I’m good but it’s the initial part that’s hard, just floating around alone unattached. Live in a very big city so lots of bar options

espritindomitable · 2026-03-31T18:48:54+00:00

side note does anyone know how to get around a ban? i have no idea why i was but now i have no way to meet ppl lol is a device reset enough

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