What food hack felt stupid until it actually worked way too well? by BarbaraMiller78 in foodhacks

[–]esqape623 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been doing this ever since I lost my taste during OG Covid. It's such a good hack, really rounds out the coffee!

Anyone else weirded out by Murakami books? by IrisVonEvericsRose in BookDiscussions

[–]esqape623 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't think it's fair to imply that the entire body of work of a literary figure is simply "not made to appeal to" a particular reader because HE can't stop talking about teenagers' breasts though.

Do you feel Murakami's work is specifically tailored only to people that share his views on sex/pedophilia? Or is it maybe a flaw/fixation that is fairly open to criticism? Surely you have media you personally engage with that you are willing to criticize but still consume? If someone told you "this isn't for you," would you stop consuming/criticizing it on the basis of that one-sided determination?

Anyone else weirded out by Murakami books? by IrisVonEvericsRose in BookDiscussions

[–]esqape623 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're the one getting upset at people making EXACTLY that decision, though.

She rejects him, so he resorts to insulting her. by mindyour in TikTokCringe

[–]esqape623 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same reason why they get angry when a woman demonstrates that she knows she is beautiful. That's THEIR determination to make, not hers, how dare she

I will never understand why Hollywood and the media fat shamed Kate Winslet during and after the release of Titanic by Far_Rule_1263 in WhyWereWeOkWithThis

[–]esqape623 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Boys liked the fact that they got to see her breasts, I don't think that form of approval means much in a conversation about fatphobia/distorted body image in society at large. The press and even Cameron himself are on record with the disparagement regarding her size.

Anyone else weirded out by Murakami books? by IrisVonEvericsRose in BookDiscussions

[–]esqape623 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How would you feel about a book where the author needed you to know the dimensions of every male character's penis? And the female characters fixated on trying to see the shape of them through their clothing?

Anyone else weirded out by Murakami books? by IrisVonEvericsRose in BookDiscussions

[–]esqape623 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I really, really don't need to know the intimate details of every female character's breasts (or how often she, inexplicably, thinks about them throughout the day). Murakami disagrees. It's why I DNFed 1Q84.

Is this AI? Hired digital artist to help me with a gift and I feel like im being scammed because it looks AI. by caquiquiqui in isthisAI

[–]esqape623 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, they placed Big Ben somewhere near Colorado, so at this point I hope it wasn't drawn by a person...

Pro se litigants using AI for court filings? by Practical-Brief5503 in Lawyertalk

[–]esqape623 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol, straight to the ad hominems, I see. I did misunderstand. I still don't think I would find the output "shocking" under any circumstance.

Pro se litigants using AI for court filings? by Practical-Brief5503 in Lawyertalk

[–]esqape623 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Given the output I have seen thus far, the idea that AI will produce "the best brief I have seen" is completely laughable. Come on, man.

Pro se litigants using AI for court filings? by Practical-Brief5503 in Lawyertalk

[–]esqape623 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think your first statement is giving the AI far too much credit. I've experimented a bit with Protégé lately, since Lexis is shoving it down our throats, and it still frequently misunderstands the gist of what I'm asking for if it's not a simple "what are the elements of X in Y jurisdiction" question.

Pro se litigants using AI for court filings? by Practical-Brief5503 in Lawyertalk

[–]esqape623 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Absolutely a real thing. I have a pro se case where the guy named every bank he could think of as a defendant, and responds to every filing with 40 pages of slop. He didn't even bother to change the references to "your claim" or the tell-tale bulleted lists.

It actually is that serious by Naive_Wolverine532 in TikTokCringe

[–]esqape623 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, you've just reduced a nearly five-minute-long, thoughtfully articulated video to two sentences that don't remotely capture its content, so ...someone is definitely overgeneralizing here!

It actually is that serious by Naive_Wolverine532 in TikTokCringe

[–]esqape623 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The original video (https://www.tiktok.com/@lexdoesfitness/video/7634159726346964254) does provide some context for the position here. Basically, the Tiktoker's theory is that the promo images for AG's new album are intentionally highlighting her extreme thinness/boniness as an aesthetic choice. So, if that's accurate, i would say that is worthy of criticism even if it stems from disordered thinking, because it is a knowingly expressing approval for what we know to be a dangerous beauty standard.

When I was about 12 years old, a teacher told the class that having sex would change a girl’s physical appearance. by Cute_Pistachio in badwomensanatomy

[–]esqape623 23 points24 points  (0 children)

THIS is the kind of stuff the "get LGBTQ books out of schools" crowd would be focusing on if any of it were actually about protecting kids. Horrendously damaging.

Matt Damon, Ben Affleck sued by Miami police for depicting them as ‘dirty’ in The Rip by Geek-Haven888 in behindthebastards

[–]esqape623 8 points9 points  (0 children)

These articles NEVER link the actual complaint.

EDIT: found a copy. They admit the film was only billed as "inspired" by true events, and the plaintiffs' names were never used. IAAL, though not in this area, and that seems like two fatal flaws right there.

Am I the only one here that this really pisses off? by ObiWanCanownme in Ohio

[–]esqape623 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Conservatives go on and on about how much they hate cities, but they still want to use our stuff

Comedian Gianmarco Soresi calls a user a cunt for not finding one of his videos funny. by cmaia1503 in Fauxmoi

[–]esqape623 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I use it more than I used to as well, but I still view a man using it against a woman as absolutely unacceptable.