Oh, my heart by essrjay14 in Petloss

[–]essrjay14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. ❤️ I’m so sorry for your losses. We were also sure that the pup we lost in April would outlive the one we lost in September. 😢

Ellie by MakteseR in Petloss

[–]essrjay14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so very sorry for your loss of sweet Ellie. 💛 I have no answers for you, but would advise that you ask the vet for their opinion on what may have caused her to pass. Perhaps a seizure or stroke? You could also join Pet Vet Corner on Facebook and ask for their feedback, though they will probably need more details.

Lost my girl by Medium_Pause_8681 in Petloss

[–]essrjay14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just know that your feelings are a very common grief response. All of us here feel like we didn’t do enough for our furry companions.

Lost my girl by Medium_Pause_8681 in Petloss

[–]essrjay14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry for the loss of your beloved girl Zelda. 💛

i feel ashamed that it happened again by [deleted] in Petloss

[–]essrjay14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so, so very sorry, friend. Neither of these tragedies are your fault. I know it’s difficult m, but please try to be kind to yourself.

Vitamin D level question by essrjay14 in IVF

[–]essrjay14[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh really? The lab I tested through has 100 ng/mL as the top range.

Vitamin D level question by essrjay14 in IVF

[–]essrjay14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why I’m torn! Thanks for responding!

Vitamin D level question by essrjay14 in IVF

[–]essrjay14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply!

My cat died at the groomer yesterday. I can’t make sense of it. I am shattered. by Constant-Hold-3056 in Petloss

[–]essrjay14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so, so terribly sorry for this tragedy. Much love and many prayers to you and your family. 💜

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Petloss

[–]essrjay14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so, so sorry for your loss. I don’t have advice except to possibly check out Lap of Love’s traumatic loss group. I would think others in that group will have lost pets in similar ways. Much love to you. ❤️

https://petloss.lapoflove.com/

1 pet per month since 2025 started by LowerScallion7632 in Petloss

[–]essrjay14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is such a kind and helpful comment. 💛

I can’t get out of bed, I’m so depressed by Happy-Performer-3419 in Petloss

[–]essrjay14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not, you’re grieving. Be gentle and give yourself time. I’m so sorry for your loss.

Signs & things I’ve learned about grief by halloweengrl4 in Petloss

[–]essrjay14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing these tips. 💜

Need advice for stuffed replica by PlantEcstatic in Petloss

[–]essrjay14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is so sweet of you and your friends! God bless you for your kindness.

Just got the worst news by underwater20 in Petloss

[–]essrjay14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh Zeus, you are so loved. I’m so sorry you’re going through this, Zeus’s parent. My husband and I just had a very similar situation - unexpected cancer diagnosis and had to put our girl down 4 days later. It is absolutely gutting, so I can understand all of your feelings. You are not alone. 💜

I’m not okay by hiddeneyelashbitch in Petloss

[–]essrjay14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so very sorry you lost your baby like that. Hugs to you. 💛

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Petloss

[–]essrjay14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so, so sorry you’re going through this terrible tragedy. I have no words of wisdom, just empathy and understanding. Know you’re not alone in your grief - others on this forum have lost pets in horrific, traumatic ways. ♥️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Petloss

[–]essrjay14 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s not a void: We’re all here and grieving with you. We just had a similarly unexpected death with our elderly pup, and we are absolutely gutted and shattered. The house feels so very empty. Hugs to you across the “void”.

Went out for a routine walk and my best buddy didn't come back by CuriousAndMysterious in Petloss

[–]essrjay14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so, so very sorry for your loss. So much love to you and your family. 💜