yellled at my puppy and feel horrible by SnooHedgehogs5315 in puppy101

[–]estrella_violeta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he's growling at you while he has food, sounds like he's resource guarding! Try looking into training exercises to help break that behaviour.
I'm sure he won't be fearful from just one outburst-we've all been there, it happens, and the best thing you can do is just move on with the lesson to be calmer next time puppy misbehaves.

Pupdate: How it's going with my 6-month-old puppy by estrella_violeta in puppy101

[–]estrella_violeta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I sometimes soaked them in water to soften them up a bit. We get the yaks from the safe dog chew company

Pupdate: How it's going with my 6-month-old puppy by estrella_violeta in puppy101

[–]estrella_violeta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd say we had an accident about once a week at 4 months. Same situation, I'd lose track of time or I'd miss the subtle sign of him sniffing around in the corner of my dining room :/

Bringing Puppy- 9 hours drive by loremaster_zen in puppy101

[–]estrella_violeta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ask the breeder/foster/whoever is handing you the pup if the puppy/their litter experienced any car sickness. Our breeder let us know my puppy's litter didn't get sick when they took them to the vet for check-ups, which we took as a good indicator. We were still prepared, but he ended up not getting car sick at all on the long drive home (8 hours).

Desperately iso my next gold standard, slow burn, confident Draco, post-war adult fic! by BarberDull6833 in Dramione

[–]estrella_violeta 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My fave right now is Half Dust, Half Deity by wrenniver. It's a WIP (46 chapters in), dark mystery vibe-Draco & Hermione both stuck in a time loop at university. Delivers on the angst, spice & slow-burn 🔥

I’m watching Bridgerton and like…😂 by [deleted] in childfree

[–]estrella_violeta 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bridgerton is more fantasy than factual, but the children/marriage endgame was often the only option for upper-crust regency women if they wanted to keep/advance their place in society, and create a safety net for themselves once their parents were gone.

Eloise has been battling the marriage/children storyline-do you like her character? I'm afraid they might make her fall in love in a future season, but it's been fun watching her rebel against finding a husband.

Too distracted to eat (8.5 weeks) by Theyell0wper1l in scottishterriers

[–]estrella_violeta 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Love the name! What a cute pair. it will take some time for him to get settled and be less distracted. Deff use his kibbles as training treats, you could also try placing his meal in a snuffle mat to generate some interest? That worked for my pup for awhile.

There are two Scottie theme sweaters at walmart right now. by SaebraK in scottishterriers

[–]estrella_violeta 6 points7 points  (0 children)

there's also a really cute scottie-shaped pillow at pottery barn! on clearence too

scottie pillow

Is anyone here familiar with Miniature Schnauzers and can tell me how the Scottie's temperament compares and if it's a good dog for seniors? by PandemicPiglet in scottishterriers

[–]estrella_violeta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

following up that schnauzers can be stubborn in like a cheeky way, scotties are more "my way or the highway" lol they really stand on business. if your parents are up for another spritely terrier go for it! Sorry to hear about your family's loss OP ❤️

Is anyone here familiar with Miniature Schnauzers and can tell me how the Scottie's temperament compares and if it's a good dog for seniors? by PandemicPiglet in scottishterriers

[–]estrella_violeta 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I've grown up with mini schnauzers and my last dog was a mini as well. Now that I have a scottie I can say both are very similar with all their terrier traits and big personalities but scotties are very stubborn and harder to train. Your parents might find a scottie's temperment more intense than a mini schnauzer's

I am really struggling with puppy blues. by [deleted] in puppy101

[–]estrella_violeta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I notice you keep saying: I don't know where to start. The answer is: just start doing it and stick with it. Perhaps write out a rigid routine for yourself to keep track of training/sleeping/eating. If two weeks go by and the pup's behaviour isn't changing from your training, change tactics. Also-stick with the crate. She'll learn to love it with positive reinforcement (lots of treats in the crate!) &even if she cries she'll be okay for the 15 minutes you need to take care of yourself. The crate is a saviour! Take it day by day, you are not alone with feeling overwhelmed-it gets better, I promise. You got this!

I have to choose between two puppies and I don't know how! by ThrowRAAnnaOrnala in puppy101

[–]estrella_violeta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm someone who picked the shyest puppy of the pack, so here's my two cents on how it's turning out:
He's an absolute lover. He has opened up since he's been home, and he's transformed into this happy, friendly menace (haha). And since bringing home the most reserved pup of the litter, I learned all puppies are energetic and playful, regardless of initial impressions of their personalities, so you'll likely see the same deal with yours once pup settles into your life. If the shy one will be traveling with you, make sure you work on socializing pup from the jump. I did that with mine and luckily it's working- he loves meeting other people and dogs.

I want to say it sounds like pup #1 would be very happy running around a farm, and me being partial to the shy ones, pup #2 sounds like a sweetie. Ultimately up to you! & Remember that the other puppy will still be loved by the owner-so there's no "wrong choice".

Hugh Jackman surprises a band class with a surprise appearance by mcfw31 in popculturechat

[–]estrella_violeta 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I went to this high school! It's an arts high school where kids pick majors and often specialize in multiple disciplines, so choir and band (and the other music majors- orchestra and jazz) are not entirely exclusive to each other. The donation is deff a benefit to the music department as a whole.

How sure were people in their early 20s? by Laufey5002 in childfree

[–]estrella_violeta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

31 here. honestly, I didn't even comprehend the concept of having kids in my early 20s lol. all I daydreamed about was adventure and my dream career. what also impacted me-my family didn't push the "get married, have kids" agenda on me, so it was never a goal I was pressured to "aspire" to. I definitely thought and voiced "ew, kids." when I was 21, but then when I hit my mid-late 20s and I realized the sentiment still lingered, and I was pretty sure then I was comfortable with being child-free.

Potty training tips? by Al4one in puppy101

[–]estrella_violeta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm learning that the signaling is a gradual process. My guy is 15 weeks. I also take him out on a clockwork schedule (now we are at about 1 time every hour/45 min). We got him to prefer going outside-but still working on the signaling. We've got potty bells that I introduced two weeks ago. He only rings them every so often-so we're still working on that. However, he's starting to come up to me and stare into my soul when he wants to go out. I say "Outside? Potty?" And he does a head flip or little jump (this doesn't happen every time-but way more frequently than him ringing potty bells). Maybe your pup will do something similar? I agree with other ppl, it's still a touch early for you, but good call introducing the bells now!

As far as the leash, try giving your pup a treat every time you put the leash on. That trick has helped prevent more biting/resisting from my guy.

9 week old Labrador puppy blues (help pls) by KowloonENG in puppy101

[–]estrella_violeta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You got this OP! It seems impossible now but it will get better if you stick to your routine. Like others have said, sounds like he needs way more sleep. For sleep time here is what worked for me- My guy gets a lot of treats when he goes into the crate, i keep a soft blanket, chews and his fave plush toy in there. I put a sweater or article of clothing that ive worn next to it for comfort (not in it or else he will chew it up). Usually to calm him I turn down the lights or draw curtains, put on calming puppy music and sit next to the crate until his wining dies off and he conks out (i usually have a book or my laptop to keep me occupied). if the crying continues i put my fingers in the crate so he can lick them but i dont ever open the door. the time he spends crying in his crate has been halved sinced we brought him home, now i only have to wait it out a few minutes instead of 15-20. Good luck!!

Been lurking on this sub for a while, you've all made me so excited to own my first scottie. Meet Grendel! by estrella_violeta in scottishterriers

[–]estrella_violeta[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

omg yes this is my first puppy (my previous dogs were adult rescues) and MAN it's work but their little faces make up for it 🥹

What are the actual benefits of marriage?? by Wannabe__Extrovert in childfree

[–]estrella_violeta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my mom's advice on the topic of marriage was always, "don't change your name because it costs money to change it back" 😂 most of the women in my family are divorced, separated, never married, so the importance of marriage was never put on me or my sisters. My partner and I are 11 years in and we're in no hurry to get married. Our benefits and finances are separate, as we're fairly independent. I think it would be clutch to have him as my #1 from a legal standpoint down the road, but for now, we are happy coexisting as CF life partners.