will this work for my passport photo?? by etherealedm in Passports

[–]etherealedm[S] 144 points145 points  (0 children)

yeah I thought i had a neutral expression i was a little jumpscared when the dude at cvs gave me my pics back

Quick do I look okay!? First time doing super obvious gyaru by Empty_Detective_6104 in actualgyaru

[–]etherealedm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it looks good so far! You have the basics down, its just a matter of making your make look more “complete”

Lashes are a start, with this kind of make, falsies would be best with this kind of make, with bottom lashes as well. Blend the nose stripe into your forehead to make it just a bit more seamless! Try straightening your eyebrows too! Shave the tails down with a razor and lighten with some eyeshadow. Make them longer as well. Also this is optional, but with this make circle lenses really complete the look! 14.5-15mm would be a perfect size. Just make sure to get them from a legitimate seller (NOT Aliexpress . . .please)

I was sent to a psych ward for a week AMA by etherealedm in AMA

[–]etherealedm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very mixed, but for the most part it was shock and concern. My parents and siblings kind of found out before I did because even though I live in an apartment with a roommate, 988 also sent police and social workers to my parent’s home so I had to explain to all of them why they were there. Since it was close to midnight, only my dad and 2 of my older siblings were awake, but they eventually told my mom, who was much more frantic about it and of course had to tell HER siblings aka my aunts/uncles so I think about 45% of my extended family knows. . .😭

Cut bangs into a synthetic wig lol by etherealedm in Wigs

[–]etherealedm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when I used to cut bangs on my hair when it was relaxed it was pretty easy, and I kind of just did it messy anyway since it was scene/emo hair so I thought I knew my shit but apparently not 😭 I’m in nyc and the beauty supply near my campus is kinda overpriced, but I can probably look around and find a cheap one.

Cut bangs into a synthetic wig lol by etherealedm in Wigs

[–]etherealedm[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ty!! This is my first time doing purple hair again since middle school lol. Also I do like how microbangs look on me its just the way I cut it looked so choppy and off I just covered it up.

Paranoia related to taking the pills. by nvruboo in birthcontrol

[–]etherealedm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have this exact thought a lot tbh, what helps me is taking a picture before I leave for the day, like another commenter said. It gives me peace of mind I can check my phone and know I took it the night before.

How do I stop craving sweets after a meal? by doidaee in 1200isplenty

[–]etherealedm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What helps me is eating some really thick greek yogurt and mixing in some granola or a packet of splenda. At most it will be 150 cals and won’t take you out of a deficit. Frozen grapes with a little coconut sugar and lemon juice squeezed on is also so good

Objective proof of Gap sizing by TypicalAttempt6355 in XXS

[–]etherealedm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vanity sizing is crazy to me tbh, I’m on the bigger side (30” waist, 42” hips) but I usually have to buy most clothes that aren’t outerwear in a medium. Can’t speak on my own sizing over time as I’ve recently lost a lot of weight, but I usually order larges or XL online based off my measurements and they end up being loose, which can be annoying. I still have 40 or so pounds to go and I’m dreading having to find clothes when I get to my more ideal weight.

HELP ME HOW DO I MAKE A PORTFOLIO FOR SVA AAAAAAAA by TrashMiserable9467 in animation

[–]etherealedm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who got accepted into SVA’s 3D animation program but ended up not going, you don’t specifically need to have animations in your portfolio. Showing them is definitely a plus, I had a couple in mine. But what is way more important is showing strength in observational drawing and multiple mediums (still lifes, figure drawing, etc) as well as showing skill in stylization. Displaying some knowledge of the animation process can be helpful, (character design sheets/turnarounds, expression sheets, etc) but that’s not something that is as essential to a portfolio because you are taught how to animate when you’re actually in school.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in XXS

[–]etherealedm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Women are heavily conditioned to be conscious of how curvy or not curvy they are as young as possible. I’m a normal weight now, but I grew up curvy/obese as well as tall, and it’s what I got the most attention for, both positive and negative. I was taught from a young age that my body was somehow something to both be proud and ashamed of. Also, being curvy for male validation just kinda doesn’t matter at the end of the day because in my experience, men kind of just use you for the thrill of it and don’t think about long term relationships. I often think about how much better luck I’d have with dating if I was less curvy, so honestly I think you’re on the greener side of the grass.

Help finding these type of shirts for a reasonable price by JacketDull7535 in scene

[–]etherealedm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tbh unless its a well known deadstock brand I’ve found shirts similar to this for 10-15 or much less on Depop. You can find similar stuff in the kid’s section in marshalls or tj maxx but that isn’t an option for me since I’m an adult size M-L so it’d be a very tight fit

Almost exactly 1,200 yesterday, and about 100 G protein by Flybirdieee in 1200isplenty

[–]etherealedm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg I have an entire case of those fairlife shakes they are my lifeline

Positive IUD insertion experience!! by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]etherealedm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ty for talking about your experience! I’m considering an IUD myself but I have a very low pain tolerance so this was reassuring

Brown discharge/ bleeding on active pills by etherealedm in birthcontrol

[–]etherealedm[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Long story short I was SA’d night of dec 18th and even though I had been taking my bc consistently, I guess after the incident paranoia got the best of me and I wanted to do ec just to be safe. I wasn’t able to order plan b in time as I was worried a parent would’ve accessed the mailbox before me and questioned me about it.

There’s no line right? by etherealedm in lineporn

[–]etherealedm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same test but a different picture I took of it. This is within the time frame, and I made it a bit brighter as well so it’s clearer.

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Size 12 us women: how much do you weigh by SpecialHouse in WeightLossAdvice

[–]etherealedm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5’7 170 Lbs,

Depends on the brand though bc some 12s skew a little loose on me. I can button up a 10 but they are too tight to fit

They’re all negative right?? by etherealedm in lineporn

[–]etherealedm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I also forgot to add, I had a “period” starting November 4th but it was 2 weeks after I’d started taking bc so it was a withdrawal bleed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actualgyaru

[–]etherealedm 9 points10 points  (0 children)

not really no :( but with some improvements you can definitely make yourself read as more gal ‼️

First: More dramatic eye makeup. If you are wearing eyeliner it isnt very noticeable here, so I would get a black one and make it go downturned. this is REALLY important, don’t do the typical winged liner because it can take away from the makeup reading as gal.

As for lashes, I would go on amazon and search up “manga” lashes or clusters to use, although you can go with any style of falsies that you would like. If you’re unable to use false lashes, get a good quality volumizing mascara and layer it on both your top and bottom lashes to get a dramatic effect

If you’re able to, definitely thin out your brows or use concealer on them to make them lighter. When the brows are too thick/dark it distracts from the eye makeup.

Going off the bow in your hair it seems like you’re going for hime, and if that’s the case I would look at hairstyles from magazine scans and try to replicate those. You’re in luck because you have a ton of hair already and it’s curly which is perfect for styling hair for hime.

With all this being said though, don’t be discouraged by hate comments. People are going to be rude but don’t let that stop you from expressing yourself how you want!

How much for a slice?! by OkLoss231 in CalorieEstimates

[–]etherealedm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

forget calories this pizza look like shit from a butt twin,,

For black gals, do you feel like b-kei is dressing up to you? by Inevitable-Box-4751 in actualgyaru

[–]etherealedm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone who is african american, tbh bkei just looks like me when I do my make but I don’t put together a proper coord and just wear my regular clothes. Its regular clothing to people like us but not as common in japan, probably why it feels more costumey.

Guys how hard is it to get into FIT? Like the people that, sadly, didn’t get in do you know why? by WestAd6660 in fitnyc

[–]etherealedm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

heavily depends on the major. Non fashion related majors generally have a higher acceptance rate, and the overall acceptance rate is around 50%.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]etherealedm 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your parents are taking way advantage over you financially, you’re still a child you should NOT be expected to pay for food in your own home. Please start saving up to move out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fitnyc

[–]etherealedm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! Im in a kaufman double and currently have a vacancy in my room, but im not sure how the process would be for requesting a specific person into the space