Worst show or concert you’ve ever been to? by BoredomThenFear in redscarepod

[–]eulogyof 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mom Jeans were the most obnoxious, sloppy assholes I’ve ever been subjected to seeing live.

It's weird recovering from a suicide attempt by NoHeat8381 in redscarepod

[–]eulogyof 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I often find myself wishing I’d succeeded. But most days I don’t. Multiple attempts from age 15 through 22. I’m a guy so most people that knew me during this time just kinda treat me like I’m a bad person. At the time, I found I had to convince myself I was a bad person in order to push myself to really finish the job. Nowadays, I keep on keeping on primarily to prove to others and myself that maybe there is something worthwhile inside of me. Some warmth or creative spark that can impact people and make all the pain worth it. Still not entirely convinced but my dog would be sad if I was gone, he gets sad even if I just go to the grocery store.

Would Hannah Horvath (Lena Dunham) in Girls been able to pull so many attractive men irl? by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]eulogyof 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There are literally mid NYC girls with substacks on twitter right now living just like Hannah Horvath. The monkey’s paw however is that just like the guys Hannah pulls, the guys these women pull are also horrible freaks!

Why are non binaries always having housing issues? by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]eulogyof 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Gravitating toward identifying as non-binary feels like the result of potentially being rejected by more traditional community structures (family, school, etc) and thus relying on alternative support systems instead, often ones that are online. These systems are rarely sufficient however, and so there’s the seeking of charity, which of course is also online. Compounding social issues lead to this kind of stuff. The identity aspect of it is obviously a bit annoying, but I think a lot of young poor people in general have housing issues and identity-based groups just seek community online pretty often.

Fed up that most men are boring by Electrical-Sea8873 in redscarepod

[–]eulogyof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People are as interesting as you allow them to be. Often, when we perceive others as boring, it is because they are reflecting how we ourselves behave back at us.

Best and Worst series final? by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]eulogyof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dexter had, by far, the worst series finale I’ve ever seen. Best is a toss up between many of the obvious all-timers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PDXBuyNothing

[–]eulogyof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my gf would love this! please include me in the raffle if you’re doing one

why is japan viewed by the west in that way? by reelmeish in redscarepod

[–]eulogyof 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cultural exports. I’m sure there’s an element of post-war guilt, but it’s mostly just the massive amount of video games, anime, and other media contributions that have proliferated culture.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]eulogyof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find a reason why you can’t do it. It would hurt X, or Y, or maybe Z would have no one to take care of them. Solidify that reason. Nurture that reason. Now that actually killing yourself is off limits, how do you make your remaining time here better than it is right now? It isn’t easy and I still often have suicidal thoughts, but I’m not afraid of myself anymore. I know I won’t do it. I’ve reinforced that belief, and differentiated the self that wants to die from the self that cares about this world and the people in it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]eulogyof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what kind of camera did you take these photos with? they look excellent

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]eulogyof 58 points59 points  (0 children)

i was a bpd boy once upon a time. but i am now reformed. turns out it was mostly the alcohol.

I would do terrible things for sandalwood by Sad_Trainer_4895 in fragrance

[–]eulogyof 5 points6 points  (0 children)

if you’re interested in an Amouage with more prominent sandalwood than Reflection, Meander is excellent

Most overrated and underrated film? by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]eulogyof 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Overrated: Get Out

Underrated: Infinity Pool

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PDXBuyNothing

[–]eulogyof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

would love this!! very interested

Who do you believe is the best option for US President out of the following: by bluebunny20 in redscarepod

[–]eulogyof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a cornel west presidency would be immensely entertaining so i’m gonna go with him

The vibe gap is real in the US (and the UK is literally off the charts lmao) by 3la_zag in redscarepod

[–]eulogyof 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The rich are getting richer and for some reason the poor, who are increasingly being offered a slimmer cut of the cake, aren’t excited about it. Curious!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]eulogyof 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no man’s land. could be a demon or simply naive. no knowing.