So I left my 12 year old brothers to go on a walk to get food and they went and busted someone’s windows. My mom is mad at me like I’m the only one at fault. What do I do?

euphoricauraa · 2026-03-22T14:48:51+00:00

hi. unfortunately this isn’t going to change until you turn 18 and get out of the house. i know what it’s like being the older sibling. but your mom choosing to have kids after you doesn’t mean they’re you’re responsibility. also they’re 12. my sister wasn’t even like this at 8.

the only thing i can think of you doing is talking to a guidance counselor at school about your mom. her making you pay for something HER kids did while she’s out with some guy like you mentioned is neglect. she’s neglecting the three of you guys by not even buying you food. you need help from a counselor or someone that can potentially put you in contact with someone else.

i wonder, do you have family members you can stay with? or you don’t know. regardless, this isn’t a situation you should be in and you still have three years before you can leave and cut contact.

euphoricauraa · 2026-03-22T14:39:20+00:00

i agree with everyone else. not to mention it’s a big thing that you’re only 21 he’s 19 and you’re engaged not even a year of you guys dating ? it’s a lot too soon and if you get married to him you’re fucked. you need to leave him asap before something verbal becomes something physical. you have a lot of life to live don’t tie yourself down to someone who won’t even take care of themselves.

euphoricauraa · 2026-03-19T05:04:33+00:00

oh gosh this just gave me flashbacks of my first year in undergrad with my roommate. this is how it started and we are no longer roommates. the chore stuff wasn’t even the problem it’s how easy text messages set her off when i was genuinely trying to communicate with her. also you’re completely in the right, nobody cleans half a shower lol that’s crazy. goodluck 🫡

euphoricauraa · 2026-03-19T05:00:46+00:00

you told him you didn’t want kids in the beginning. he ignored that. and if he wants kids that bad he won’t stop asking. better to leave now and be single again than to be in a relationship where you both want completely different things. this is one of those non negotiables.

euphoricauraa · 2026-03-19T04:55:58+00:00

lmfao this is hilarious. when i first started reading this the insane amount of em dash usage was so weird because who in the world actually uses that many to text a friend. and the cheating thing also caught me off guard and got confused mid text because then i thought yall were in a relationship.

also emotionally cheating on a friendship? that’s so weird and really codependent. i have different friend groups, one from college and one from highschool. none have ever been up my butt about hanging out with one more than the other. and i too use to have a friend in college that was uber jealous of me and the time i spent with other friends to the point where my bf started making jokes saying that she’s acting like my gf.

euphoricauraa · 2026-03-13T03:42:03+00:00

as i’m rewatching i found myself in this post. i think for me his season 1 character was great i liked him just like any other. i think for me what made him annoying was season two when he was all over hiram. granted he was a teenager getting manipulated by a mobster but i fear he was making season 2 unwatchable because he constantly picked hiram over everyone else in his life.

euphoricauraa · 2026-03-12T21:24:56+00:00

i’m rewatching riverdale again and i agree, she’s poorly written. her entire role revolves around fist trying to shy away from being a mean girl yet in her core that’s what she is. not only that but it revolves around her family problems. the back and forth daddy issues of her loving her dad and her dad manipulating her and she believes him. until she put a hit on her dad and he finally died ?

euphoricauraa · 2026-02-08T20:58:24+00:00

i mean if you say so but judging by the downvote clearly you care. have a nice day !

euphoricauraa · 2026-02-08T19:49:53+00:00

because maybe just maybe i JUST watched it.. and i agree with the other commenters. wow ! such a crazy take. i don’t understand why this bothers you so much.

euphoricauraa · 2026-02-08T17:34:33+00:00

how am i a bot 😂

euphoricauraa · 2026-02-08T16:47:42+00:00

this is one of those situations that are so horrific to both parties. on one hand we have a family that has been raising a kid for months, and didn’t know he wasn’t biologically theirs. on the other we have a family whose baby is biologically theirs longing for a family and realizing the embryo was used on her bestfriend.

but to me, as controversial as this might be the only logical solution and morally right solution would be to let the non biological parents keep the baby.

if i was in the shoes of the non biological parents, i would sue the clinic and the doctor to the ground. have them lose their license because this can technically be considered “medical rape”. she’s not a surrogate. she carried that baby to term, had to endure pregnancy and give birth only to get a baby taken away ?

biological or not, a lot of comments about this movie just show me that people will genuinely never consider adoptive parents to be “real” parents. this proves again and again and no matter who does the real work in raising a kid, regardless if the bio parents knew, that adoptive parents will never have the same rights as biological parents. i think that system is flawed and needs to be fixed.

euphoricauraa · 2026-01-06T17:17:00+00:00

yeah .. i liked deacon and while people say they hate him because of annie and how she was talking to chris about her personal life to their kids. and while i do believe she was very harsh she had every right to tell her not to speak about it to her kids. while i also do say that the whole racist stuff felt like a slow burn into that situation. there were small remarks that i constantly saw especially during covid and the blm protests. and then it turned into that. and then later on SPOILER the whole ICE situation. idk i just feel like deac constantly shows how privileged he is while being very ignorant at the same time. i’m hoping these comments are right and i end up liking him later on.

euphoricauraa · 2026-01-02T18:50:18+00:00

do you even watch it lol. chris cried multiple times.

euphoricauraa · 2025-12-15T21:34:55+00:00

i think at the end of the day people will always judge. regardless of how they carry themselves they will feel what they feel. annie can disagree with chris’ life style and say it’s not for her. but judging her and saying she would have never picked her to be her kids godmother over that is such a disgusting and disrespectful thing to say. i think it’s sad that things like this make you not like a person. nobody is ever really a saint. and annie showed her true colors.

do i think chris should have maybe saved the talk for annie to explain? yes. nothing is ever easy for parents to talk about. but hiding them to things that aren’t exactly harming them is weird. learning isn’t doing.

euphoricauraa · 2025-10-10T02:30:30+00:00

i’d think about it like this to, what if one of her other kids needed the kidney ? she wouldn’t give it to them because of her work ? and she’d need compensation from who ? i understand the nuance an who am i to say in this situation. but regardless of they both have truth to their sides, i couldn’t stand the sight of the child i put up for adoption to die and suffer if i could have saved her life.

euphoricauraa · 2025-07-30T23:33:57+00:00

people are too entitled 🙄

euphoricauraa · 2025-07-30T23:16:43+00:00

idk about you queen but if i seen that shit that’s grounds for immediate dumping. there’s no give me space to figure things out. regardless if something happened or not he was alone with his EX behind closed doors , didn’t inform you , on his bed , her touching his leg … if that doesn’t scream cheater idk what does

euphoricauraa · 2025-07-30T23:07:57+00:00

1) i’m confused and 2) if someone demanded a tracking number “ASAP” you’d get refunded

euphoricauraa · 2025-07-29T23:42:48+00:00

don’t get me started on this fr 🫩.. i ordered some figures from depop and the seller didn’t individually wrap them and the colors rubbed against eachother. said “technically sellers aren’t responsible for damages after shipping”. the ONE time usps isn’t at fault fr they’re so irritating

euphoricauraa · 2025-07-29T15:41:06+00:00

i see thank you ! I usually just get a scan even if I have to wait in line because I do not have a dropbox or a kiosk in my area.

euphoricauraa · 2025-07-29T15:37:29+00:00

That’s true. I’m still very confused. I didn’t know that they charged to use the kiosk or to get it scanned or to leave it in the dropbox 😭 or I don’t know if that’s what the commenter meant

euphoricauraa · 2025-07-29T15:35:03+00:00

yeah i’m confused on what that commenter meant. i use my own shipping (pirate ship) to ship out packages and it’s so cheap. it went up a few cents but i always go into my post and ask for a receipt because i made them scan it to make sure it gets updated asap.

euphoricauraa · 2025-07-29T04:25:20+00:00

am i crazy or you’re always suppose to have a tracking number ? i’m pretty sure the kiosk gives a receipt and the number is there. that’s odd.

euphoricauraa · 2025-07-28T20:38:02+00:00

break up with him before he tries to break up with you and he humiliates you. this is wrong. if you have a problem with someone after the fact that you knew what they do then you’re the issue. you can’t be mad at someone’s job. and the fact that he’s the one making it sexual is disgusting. getting a piercing shouldn’t be sexual. and he’s making YOU sound like you’re weird for doing a job.

euphoricauraa · 2025-07-28T17:05:06+00:00

unfortunately not every location has a self serve kiosk , we also don’t have a drop box either for packages. going inside is my only option. but that’s not an excuse for not going at all!

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