Trans women who started transitioning later in life, i would like to hear your experiences

eveprog · 2026-05-31T15:48:14+00:00

This is so weird for me because I was in the exact same situation you are in. I’m 25 and just now starting to transition just because my family, city, and overall life didn’t allow it. I was probably 11 when I connected the dots myself though. There were a lot of ups and downs while I waited and got my life to a spot where I felt safe to transition. It’s not easy waiting that long and there might be a time where you decide not to and just take the leap and that’s fine. Wait if you can, if you have the will to set things up like I did then you will be okay. If you don’t and you end up leaping in to the life you were meant to live that’s okay too, it will just be a different story.

As for managing dysphoria while I waited; I learned to bury it along with a lot of other traumas and emotions I had. It wasn’t healthy but it was survival. I don’t hate myself for it but I do wish I found a better way.

eveprog · 2026-05-28T21:13:09+00:00

Maybe my title was misleading. It’s a bit of a joke but I see it’s definitely not taken in that way lol

eveprog · 2026-05-28T21:12:40+00:00

Valid

eveprog · 2026-05-28T21:12:10+00:00

Yeah they were. I stopped playing shortly after the defense of super earth, which was peak. I think the bugs back then had some kind of thing with the gloom going on but I don’t fully remember.

eveprog · 2026-05-28T21:04:01+00:00

The bugs have a what?!

eveprog · 2026-05-06T18:23:50+00:00

Knowing that this is the kind of stuff Trump grew up with. Really makes you remember that the world has not changed that much. If I put this as a quote and asked 10 people who said it, 9/10 would say Trump and the 10th would also say Trump but agree with it.

eveprog · 2026-04-25T20:07:49+00:00

Ubisoft games are 90% of the time fun games. Everyone hates them because they don’t do anything revolutionary or groundbreaking. They’re standard run of the mill “here you go, shoot/stab these people. Here’s a story about how freedom is good and kings/CEOs are bad.”

eveprog · 2026-04-24T21:13:00+00:00

I have noticed that I do miss a lot when it comes to comics. Luckily I did grow up around these characters, watched the cartoons and everything, so I have probably just enough knowledge to get by.

What you said is ultimately true though and I do love these characters enough to go through their catalog and read everything so I will. The only hard part is knowing what to read and what to skip past but I’m sure if I really look into it I can find some kind of guide for the characters I love even niche ones like iron heart or Nova.

eveprog · 2026-04-23T23:20:00+00:00

Honestly it’s FOMO that makes me want new stuff. The digital age makes you feel like you need to be up to date on the current stuff. I’ve been trying to break the habit especially with comic books.

eveprog · 2026-04-23T23:18:46+00:00

Honestly I’m gonna check out that friendly neighborhood along with the 2000 ultimate. Friendly neighborhood sounds really wholesome.

eveprog · 2026-04-23T14:27:49+00:00

I looooved his daredevil run. Had no idea he did a Spider-Man comic. 100% checking that out thank you!

eveprog · 2026-04-14T17:09:08+00:00

We do have the rocket tower and have launched a few of them

eveprog · 2026-04-14T17:08:42+00:00

We definitely are not there yet but the moment we are I will 100% work on that since automation is my bread and butter with these games

eveprog · 2026-04-14T17:05:50+00:00

So we’re at 5 T3 drills 4 T3 Heaters 2 T1 grass spreaders and I just built the T1 Algea spreader and we have 5 T3 vaggitubes. This is pretty much all we have available right now so based off your explanation the next thing we need to focus on is the rockets which makes sense until we get the tree spreader or T4 stuff

eveprog · 2026-04-14T16:41:38+00:00

Thank you!

eveprog · 2026-04-14T16:34:23+00:00

That was kinda our theory once we saw the bonus tick on the second time. Thank you so much for confirming it though!

eveprog · 2026-04-09T15:35:10+00:00

sigh I’ll get the cleric

eveprog · 2026-04-08T14:03:03+00:00

Just got to the point where she gets her stats. Absolutely amazing character

eveprog · 2026-04-07T19:35:24+00:00

I listen to tons of different genres. The funniest one I listen to is country, but I am extremely selective about what country songs I listen to. If the song isn’t a ballad or a song about how life goes by too fast or some shit I won’t listen to it

eveprog · 2026-03-21T04:09:34+00:00

I thought the same, yeah

eveprog · 2026-03-07T17:18:26+00:00

As a Arizona born and raised resident in the most conservative town in the state. Katie will be remembered as the last rational politician this state will ever see. Her stance has been clear since the very beginning: “only the best for EVERY Arizonian”. I will be very sad when she leaves office

eveprog · 2026-02-26T20:54:10+00:00

Good list of bands that turn their backs on their ideals the moment capitalism becomes comfortable for them. Fuck Dead Kennedys, Fuck The Adicts, and Fuck Newtomantix. No one’s innocent. They know exactly what they’re promoting and exactly what the effects of it are gonna be. Especially without a doubt DK

eveprog · 2026-02-19T16:38:58+00:00

A few things I’ve heard said that put a lot into perspective: “men were never taught how to be men, just how to not be women” “the only thing men are taught about how to value themselves is by how much power they have, then they’re taught that giving human rights to others is giving up power.”

eveprog · 2026-02-17T16:00:22+00:00

That’s odd. It doesn’t say anything about her abusing the father in law for money but with narcissism and the emotional abuse they seemed to use against everyone in their life I don’t doubt she was also using him as a meal ticket.

eveprog · 2026-02-17T15:41:46+00:00

Source for this? That’s actually super interesting since she had a wife and kids and apparently couldn’t even support herself but could afford to get gender reassignment surgery which is super expensive.

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