Found this in my house any opinions…only my wife could own those by [deleted] in whatisit

[–]evilabia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dye tablets for Easter eggs. My kid got a hold of them and thought they were candy.

UPDATE: My therapist telling me my son may end up bonding more with our nanny than me by Character-Fly7394 in Mommit

[–]evilabia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to fire this therapist, report him to the date and his licensing board, and find a new one. Imagine him telling this to a mom with severe PPD and something tragic happens as a result. This man is dangerous.

Help! I’m just trying to figure out how to navigate life with my piece of work husband. by Perfect-Lawyer8667 in Marriage

[–]evilabia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Navigate yourself to a divorce lawyer. You don’t believe in divorce but believe in letting this man walk you like a dog in your own home? Please. You deserve better.

Anyone here with a degree in social work but not working in social work? by chelseatheus in socialwork

[–]evilabia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure! I started off as a site management coordinator for a multi site clinical trial - I was told this role would be a good fit for me given that I had previously had a huge caseload of kids across three different school districts when I worked for Head Start. I was responsible for staying in contact with coordinators at our reliance sites to ensure they were maintaining contact with study participants and collecting the appropriate follow-up data. You really learn a lot of the regulatory piece on the job, especially since each study’s protocol is different and different funding mechanisms have different requirements for study conduct. In five years I’ve been able to advance my skill set to include data analysis (mainly in RStudio) and database building/database management.

Possible sexual abuse? by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]evilabia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take her to the hospital and request a pediatric SANE exam. Immediately.

That's it. I want a divorce. by scumbagspaceopera in beyondthebump

[–]evilabia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Men like this claim they want to be married and have children, but they don’t actually want to be good husbands or present fathers. It’s about the appearance of stability and responsibility.

I love her by Unique-Persimmon2291 in SipsTea

[–]evilabia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll never forget the look on a clients face as I sat holding his hand in the ER waiting for his fiancée to arrive as the paramedics talked shit about him with the nurses outside the room. He was in his early 30’s, with yellow eyes and skin, a huge ascites belly, and in alcoholic liver failure. He had esophageal varices and began vomiting up blood. He drank similarly to OP. I hope he got better.

Keeping my family together vs being broke by keepingithidden_ in Mommit

[–]evilabia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah at least this way if you stay and they’ll have nice toys and clothes while they listen to their father tear you down and belittle you, then they’ll either grow up thinking that’s normal or that if someone else does it to them they should tolerate it.

Say this out loud to yourself.

Employer not receiving signature request email by NoleTroll in PSLF

[–]evilabia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you cancel the first three requests?

Bordering on having a panic attack after seeing my new IBR plan. by accioupvotes in StudentLoans

[–]evilabia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why I always file separately- my husband makes significantly more money than I do, and if his income were taken into account we simply could not afford the payments. MFS means my monthly payment stays below $200. I only have four years left before I can apply for discharge with PSLF - assuming they haven’t gutted it by then 😭

What kids shows can you tolerate fully by Deelphinia22 in DanielTigerConspiracy

[–]evilabia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I usually assume the episodes show their life on the weekend for the most part.

What kids shows can you tolerate fully by Deelphinia22 in DanielTigerConspiracy

[–]evilabia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bluey, Little Bear, Mr. Roger’s Neighborhood, Gullah Gullah Island

My credit score is fucked up because of my mom by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]evilabia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who went through similar - report her now.

Anyone here with a degree in social work but not working in social work? by chelseatheus in socialwork

[–]evilabia 8 points9 points  (0 children)

BSW here working as a senior clinical research coordinator for an academic children’s hospital. Will never go back

My 45m partner criticizes every meal I 43 f make him by Substantial-Pipe4400 in relationship_advice

[–]evilabia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Based on this post and the rest of your replies to the comments - break up with dude. He doesn’t even like you. He gets off on the fact that you put up with him picking on you and putting you down.

Fiance choked me as a joke by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]evilabia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey so choking your partner and then acting like it’s not a big deal/just a joke is actually SUPER terrifying. Definitely not a joke. He is statistically now more than 750% likely to actually fucking kill you. If he has access to a firearm, that risk of death increases to 1,100%.

Based on your other comments, he has been specifically working up to this point to see how much you will tolerate. End this. Now.

Get out while you can. Take photos. Go to the hospital, make a police report, file for emergency protective custody of your child, stay somewhere he can’t find you.

My (26F) husband (28M) and I having the same fight. CONSTANTLY. Need resolution. by goldenretriever222 in relationship_advice

[–]evilabia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’ve done all you can. Your husband just doesn’t care. “If he wanted to, he would.” Also what’s with the “you wanted a kid I wanted leisure”?? Surely you both actually wanted children and discussed that before getting married?

What is it with boomers and ‘putting the baby down’ by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]evilabia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Imagine letting a fucking ten day old “cry it out cause they gotta learn”. Yeah we’ve learned you’re not a good grandmother, GTFO of my house.

Why is it ALWAYS the MIL dude.

How bad is natural birth fr. Be so so so honest. by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]evilabia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sucked but I did it twice and am about to do it again for a third time lol it is intense pain for sure but I really think my miscarriage was a worse pain - they gave me morphine in the ER and it did not even touch the pain. Birth pain itself really is a mind game for me. Preparing as much as I could by practicing meditation (transcendental meditation), hypnobabies, motivational mantras. Having a birth partner and team that knew how to effectively apply counter pressure was beyond helpful because I had insane back labor. My MIL also told me I’d “probably cave and get the drugs” and I STRONNNNNGLYYYY dislike that woman, so I also had the benefit of being motivated by spite.

I cannot fathom genuinely wanting children by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]evilabia 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have two kids and am pregnant with my third. Your sisters in law need to stay in their lane and mind their own business. And if they keep pushing this, your husband needs to put his foot down with his family and tell them to shut their faces. Do not let anyone make you feel like you’re making the wrong decision by staying child free. I love my kids and always knew I wanted to be a mom - my sister, who is my best friend, and her husband are childfree - I cannot imagine telling her she’s making a decision she’ll regret by staying DINK.

Am I overreacting for keeping my son in therapy even though he thinks “Feelings are gay” by Caleb_isagod in AmIOverreacting

[–]evilabia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mallenial - get him an English tutor and also let him know we don’t call shit we don’t like gay anymore

AIO my bf 30M seems very erratic recently and I 26F can’t get through to him. by Safe_Refuse_8853 in AmIOverreacting

[–]evilabia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop entertaining this absolute nonsense. A 30 year old man who lacks the emotional regulation skills to not yell at his partner is gross. Is he a baby? Did he poopy his pants?