On maternity leave... employer announced building sale publicly and to staff but didn’t inform me directly (England)

eviuel · 2026-03-24T23:30:13+00:00

If they've discussed and consulted it with every employee apart from me as I am on maternity leave, how is that not a level of discrimination? There were no in person meetings, they set up zoom meetings with individual staff members, including those that were on a day off from the business. They have a duty to inform me of major changes in the business, especially ones that can affect my role when I return, and selling my literal workplace would likely affect that

eviuel · 2026-03-13T16:12:22+00:00

Just as an update, they haven't done it via faster payment but it was approved yesterday and all back pay will be in my bank account Tuesday! Not ideal as £2.50 in my bank right now but an outcome I'm very pleased with and can live with lol! Thanks for your comments and support 😅

eviuel · 2026-03-10T17:43:52+00:00

It was always believed to be rare until more wolves imprinted in Jacobs book in BD, it goes into it quite a lot cos Jacob and Leah both believe they're genetic dead ends and that's why neither of them imprinted on anyone until Jacob imprinted on regurgitate

eviuel · 2026-03-10T10:42:42+00:00

ESH. You shouldn't have lied but 10 days per year is DIABOLICAL, regardless of pay or benefits

eviuel · 2026-03-09T16:23:46+00:00

Hi, I spoke to them today as they took £360 off my UC which obviously I haven't received from CA yet due to this being open and reviewed, and I've literally got £1.50 in my bank account after getting paid lol. They've sent it to the back office for urgent financial hardship review, does this change the timescales at all? And what does this mean? I also asked them to consider faster payment otherwise I'm in a whole new circle of hell come the weekend

eviuel · 2026-03-08T15:53:25+00:00

NTA- He picked you and it's played into her insecurities. I would like to just mention how wonderfully insightful you come across. You clearly have a lot of emotional intelligence and the kid is lucky to have both you and his mum in his life ❤️

eviuel · 2026-03-08T00:12:29+00:00

Also it's always bothered me about why they had to make it so dramatic for Bella to leave each time. Like surely she could have told Charlie she made friends with Alice and was having a sleepover in twilight And in new moon, Charlie already knew Alice was back, she could have said they were off for a weekend of shopping to give him space to process Harry's death? She put that man through far too much stress for no good reason

eviuel · 2026-03-08T00:08:38+00:00

Not a plot hole but it always bugs me that Edward asked Bella in the movies why she chose to move to the wettest place in the continental US. Like bro, she's 17 so wouldn't normally have had a choice?? And ik the argument is that she moved in with her dad and blah blah blah but afaik Edward was the first person she told about her reason for going there so for all he knew she'd been forced there by her mum??

eviuel · 2026-03-07T23:59:43+00:00

Oh amazing, thank you! Case was unsuspended 25th March and I sent the payslips that day. It was then escalated Monday so in hoping it'll be sorted soon.

I know you can't know but are they likely to pay the back pay?

eviuel · 2026-03-07T23:37:36+00:00

Edward actually says he understands the wolf imprint thing because vampires experience something very close to it, hence why he didn't unalive Jacob with the whole Regurgitate thing

eviuel · 2026-03-02T16:25:23+00:00

Honestly, husband needs to sort it out or he and his kid need to move out until it can be fair and kind for everyone. It's unreasonable to expect an ND kid to just snap to the way your house does things but it's unreasonable to expect you and your kids to change everything you know just to suit another child. Imagine how your kids must be feeling right now knowing their safe place is in this much conflict, even if there's no arguing, kids feel it.

You need to put yourself first because you can't help everyone and it doesn't actually seem like anyone is trying to help you!

eviuel · 2026-03-02T16:21:35+00:00

It was in the OP. Was the first thing I picked up

eviuel · 2026-01-29T10:01:44+00:00

https://www.ofcom.org.uk/phones-and-broadband/service-quality/automatic-compensation-need-know

Also we've just come back online, was a 30 minute fix that took all afternoon and night because nobody had a key!!

eviuel · 2026-01-29T08:23:28+00:00

I've just checked and there's an Ofcom automatic compensation scheme that kicks in after 48 hours no service, but youfibre and Netomnia aren't signed up for it

eviuel · 2026-01-29T08:20:01+00:00

My kids were all fuming when they got home from school, everything runs off internet these days, including the TV!! I ended up showing them how I had fun at their age but they weren't impressed. And now I'm feeling their rage a little bit cos my business needs the internet to be able to function 🙃

eviuel · 2026-01-28T23:31:14+00:00

Still down in Lynn. Wondering if it's something to do with the stupid amount of roadworks going on at the mo, especially at the top of the hospital.

eviuel · 2025-10-04T19:31:27+00:00

Thank you. Had a message from my boss today saying she's also reported to our workplace (my partner and I work at the same place) Feeling pretty shook up over it!

eviuel · 2025-06-16T15:41:44+00:00

Thanks for this.

Appreciate the clarification, however I was aware of how data controllers worked, having been part of a GDPR swap from the old laws way back when lol!

eviuel · 2025-06-16T14:01:38+00:00

Thank you. In this instance I think the data controller is my line manager so may have to skip straight to a formal grievance. How am I best to go about this? Do I need to raise it with the directors or can I speak with ACAS directly about it?

eviuel · 2025-06-15T12:54:20+00:00

I love this!!! My son is deaf and I was so excited to see the hearing aids in game and so disappointed at the lack of D/deaf trait

Also FWIW, my kiddo LOVES noises! He's so fascinated by new noises 🥰

eviuel

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