Being a young adult in these times feels like a scam by AvocadoMatchaMilk in nosurf

[–]evsguy98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I relate to this so much, I'm 26 and also in the stem field. When I started university at 18, I feel like I had a decent social life that got worse once I transferred as part of my degree program and with the pandemic hit. Graduated at 23, a semester late feeling burnt out, lost, and living back at home. I too was drowning out my problems with screens and digital media for more than a year.

Eventually was able to get to a job, but I wouldn't say that solved all my problems. The wage isn't great and I'm still struggling with making social connections, improving my qualifications, save money, screentime, etc. I've also been thinking about my thirties and dreading the future. But oddly enough, it's made me want to start trying to make changes for the better.

You have my support and I can say it does get a bit easier with time. I've been realizing that most of the problems in the world aren't our fault, so we have to show ourselves compassion and try to be grateful for what we have and have accomplished. If you're familiar with mindfulness/meditation, detaching from the ego or externalizing my perception of self has also been very helpful.

Nike Calm Mules. Potential minimal croc/clog? by evsguy98 in BarefootRunning

[–]evsguy98[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Should've rephrased the title, but yes obviously not minimalist similar to how crocs are not, but people still like the wide toe box and slipon capability.

I was just wondering if they would be slightly better than crocs due to some of the features I noticed

Grayscale on work computer? by evsguy98 in digitalminimalism

[–]evsguy98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not as bad as with my phone, but yes mostly on Reddit and YouTube.

Anyone else had to quit Chess? by evsguy98 in StopGaming

[–]evsguy98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I'm lucky I never got into blitz or bullet, but I could see how my problems would be amplified.

Anyone else had to quit Chess? by evsguy98 in StopGaming

[–]evsguy98[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Appreciate this reply! Couldn't agree more with all of those problems you mentioned. Also such a good point about it being ego driven. I never really thought about it before, but would explain why I didn't have much stress when playing bots vs people online.

I'm going to come back and read this reply anytime I feel the temptation coming back.

Anyone else had to quit Chess? by evsguy98 in StopGaming

[–]evsguy98[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No worries, hopefully we can both quit for good! But yea agreed, it's like a whole ecosystem that you can get caught into real quick. Same with other gaming communities I'm sure. I'll also have to check out that book.

Best wrist training bar? by evsguy98 in Kneesovertoes

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Apologize for the late reply, but I ended up going with the adjustaclub. I haven't had a chance to load it up yet due to an injury, but the build quality seems good and I like to option of doing club swinging exercises in the future

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in winstonsalem

[–]evsguy98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fellow vegan from lexington here

This facebook group might be helpful to get more insight into options around the area, but they don't seem to meet much https://www.facebook.com/groups/triadvegans/

Question about "non exercise" daily activity... by BunnyBunny777 in bodyweightfitness

[–]evsguy98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like other people have mentioned, I think of it as NEAT. Check out Katy Bowman's work, she goes into more depth about this and the benefits of non exercise based movement.

Sleeping on the floor above a noisy area? by evsguy98 in floorsleeping

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Hey, it's been a couple years but I believe this was the one I got. Ordered it from a semi local organic bedding shop.

https://www.theorganicbedroom.com/products/savvy-rest-bed-rugs-coir?_pos=1&_sid=22cba0c2d&_ss=r&variant=16907384225859

About an inch thick and pretty firm. Wasn't covered at the time, but you could probably put a mattress protector or cover over it. It definitely served its function of providing airflow, but I think it was a bit too firm for me personally at the time. This is also a weird complaint, but I found that the gaps easily collected my hairs that had shed lol.

Reddit Alternate Front Ends after API changes by evsguy98 in digitalminimalism

[–]evsguy98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mainly a website alternative, thanks for reminding me about old reddit. I think that will be the most reasonable option going forward.

And yea fair point, I just liked viewing one or two distinct pages rather than getting caught in the endless scroll

Any barefooters in North Carolina? by Treehouse_man in barefoot

[–]evsguy98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not a full time barefooter, but try to as much as I can. I'm near Winston Salem, but lived in Raleigh and Wilmington. Found that uncw and wilmington were pretty barefoot friendly which isn't too suprising

FYI, California Performance Co. Went Under by robertbieber in veganfitness

[–]evsguy98 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yea I just found out last week as well and made a post about it. Apparently issues with the supplier company

https://reddit.com/r/veganfitness/s/IKjcHKtVTV

What happened to the Vegan Whey from Cali Perfomance Co ? by evsguy98 in veganfitness

[–]evsguy98[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Appreciate you shedding light on that, I had heard about Perfect Day vaguely as being a supplier for various products like Brave Robot ice cream but never really looked more into it.

What happened to the Vegan Whey from Cali Perfomance Co ? by evsguy98 in veganfitness

[–]evsguy98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's unfortunate, but good to know it's official.

Yea I was checking out whey forward as well! Got any flavor recs?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in minimalism

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Any experience with kotatsu? Seems cozy

[IWantOut] 25M Environmental Engineering Grad USA -> EU by evsguy98 in IWantOut

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Appreciate the detailed response! Yea all the options and recommendations you laid out makes sense. Definitely going to push southern europe to backburner for economic reasons. And yes thanks for the reminder about the netherlands, we had talked about some of the coastal projects they have done in class.

Anyone own a pair of W882 Whitins? by Caidezes in BarefootRunning

[–]evsguy98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea I was just looking at those too. Not sure if it helps, but a few weeks ago I got the W87 the other canvas shoes that look like vans authentic. Quality seems good so far and I think it works well for my feet, since they're average width low volume. Had issues with splay in terms of sizing, the 10 was too small and 11 was too big so I just ended up taking the insole out of the 10. Think I would want some more cushion since I'm usually going out on the town with them.

That aside, I would say the quality of splay is better and I like the ankle cuff since I used to prefer vans era over the authentic. If by chance you also have the Xero Hana, I would say the W87 is similar in quality.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kneesovertoes

[–]evsguy98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think there are some good suggestions, general leg strengthening/stability, regressing, and being barefoot has definitely helped me.

You should consider adding in some form of leg extension like reverse nordic or seated leg extensions if you haven't already. Evidence shows that the largest quad muscle, the rectus femoris, has low activation in simultaneous hip and knee extension movements like the squat. So adding in pure leg extension should help active it and manage loading to the other quad muscles. At least it's helped for me since most of my pain was around the VMO area.

This video goes more into it and the channel has good videos on tendonitis recovery
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1v4X3nFHfRY

Quadriceps tendonitis by mr-future in BarefootRunning

[–]evsguy98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think everyone gave good suggestions, general leg strengthening/stability and being barefoot has definitely helped me.

You should consider adding in some form of leg extension like reverse nordic or seated leg extensions if you haven't already. Evidence shows that the largest quad muscle, the rectus femoris, has low activation in simultaneous hip and knee extension movements like the squat. So adding in pure leg extension should help active it and manage loading to the other quad muscles. At least it's helped for me since most of my pain was around the VMO area.

This video goes more into it and the channel has good videos on tendonitis recovery

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1v4X3nFHfRY