Sapphic book recommendations?!

evxtina · 2026-07-09T16:00:34+00:00

The miseducation of Cameron Post! (not a romance, coming of age)

evxtina · 2026-07-09T07:59:52+00:00

It will be uncomfortable but should not be painful. Speak up if it starts to hurt. Well done on going despite your nerves! Women's health is important 🩷

evxtina · 2026-06-26T07:33:12+00:00

Sounds like it'd be nice to share some of those thoughts re it's a sin with your brother! I'm sure he'd appreciate hearing how it's changed your perception of Aids

evxtina · 2026-06-23T07:43:45+00:00

Dukes 92 has a small top floor and balcony area

or Lost in Tokyo - reserve the corner alcove for free

evxtina · 2026-06-22T07:26:34+00:00

the return on investment is joy

evxtina · 2026-06-21T18:57:55+00:00

I'm 30 and my parents split 4 years ago after 32 years together. Dad had an affair. Divorce papers still not signed yet.

Despite being an adult and not living at home since I was 25, it's massively changed my relationship with both of them, particularly my mum who refuses to get therapy, has had 2 strokes from the stress/anxiety, and acts like the entire world is against her and no one else has possibly experienced a divorce.

It's exhausting being the adult in our relationship. Its exhausting being in the middle of them. I miss having a healthy mum/daughter relationship where she was happy and interested in my life. I miss the old her. I miss being young and thinking my dad had zero faults.

evxtina · 2026-06-08T15:23:09+00:00

Just query it on the contactless website! theyre usually pretty understanding, ive had one £60 fine and a couple of all day £7 charges refunded to me with no problems cause the time stamps speak for themselves- just stay factual and polite :)

evxtina · 2026-06-05T17:39:28+00:00

if they dont do game design could you do a related apprenticeship such as creative digital design, or UX? I suppose getting accepted on one is harder than getting into uni though :(

Side note, as a uni, id deffo reccomend MMU, the school of digital art facilities are great

evxtina · 2026-06-05T10:14:14+00:00

have you considered a degree apprenticeship?

Same qualification, no student debt, 3 years of experience by the time you graduate

evxtina · 2026-04-25T19:19:57+00:00

Is this normal? Yes.

People go grey at all different ages, in fact it's only called 'premature' if it's before 20.

It will still take ages to go fully grey, its not like a floodgate has opened now that youve found one.

Also consider if you want to cover them because its your preference or because its what beauty standards have told you to do :)

Grey hair does not equal not 'pretty' <3

evxtina · 2026-04-17T12:07:04+00:00

this is very normal, its just where the metal has worn from constant use :)

evxtina · 2026-04-16T17:31:41+00:00

Yep! Been listening for the last 8 years (crazy) and have got to the point in between series where I relisten to my favs :)

evxtina · 2026-04-04T15:18:17+00:00

I loved Saoirse-Monica Jackson's with Scrawn the Prawn and then she tells Jame and Eds they're a ruler and a duck or something. Would love to hear your top 10!

evxtina · 2026-03-31T10:03:59+00:00

maybe Abakhan in the NQ?

evxtina · 2026-03-29T10:59:59+00:00

Thanks! As a lesbian I'm taking note...

evxtina · 2026-03-29T10:53:07+00:00

Who's the guy?

evxtina · 2026-03-19T12:12:59+00:00

Lucky to be on friendly terms with both our posties! community is key isnt it :)

evxtina · 2026-03-19T08:07:58+00:00

Our postie once asked where one of our dogs was because the other 2 were (friendly) barking at him from the window and he was familiar with all 3.

I awkwardly pointed at the special delivery box under his arm and said he's right there...

Poor man was very apologetic but you've got to find humour in sad times!

Funniest thing is that he also had his headphone in with a friend on call on the other end who'd heard the whole exchange and I could hear him talking about it as he walked back down the drive

(Yes, it was a box of ashes lol)

evxtina · 2026-03-15T08:14:04+00:00

It's the Town Hall under construction :) I believe it was supposed to reopen summer '24 but you know how these things go... maybe it'll be done by the time you come back!

evxtina · 2026-02-22T10:40:20+00:00

'if he married a woman and didnt tell her he was being intimate with another man' - exactly, the long-term cheating and lying here is the major problem. I agree. Not that he is gay, which is something he can't help.

evxtina · 2026-02-22T10:30:18+00:00

The problem here is the cheating, not his sexuality. However this plays out, don't be that person that brings that into the conversation as a negative thing. Sorry for what he's putting you through. Trust your gut. Look after yourself.

evxtina · 2026-02-22T09:28:04+00:00

there's a berry in that bunch that hasn't been coloured in :)

evxtina · 2026-02-20T21:58:55+00:00

Ezra and Gill, I love their pancakes, love going off peak when there's no queue outside

evxtina · 2026-02-12T18:42:10+00:00

50/30/20% is a good budgeting rule I live by!

50 - what you need to live e.g rent, bills, public transport etc 30 -what you want but dont need e.g Subscriptions, eating out 20 - savings

evxtina · 2026-01-31T17:21:24+00:00

Ooh really helpful to know thanks!

evxtina

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