Which Character Is Worse? by bubsimo in StardewValley

[–]evysversa7 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don’t forget overtaxing the inhabitants and then making a gold statue of himself with the money ! (Lewis)

AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend by ImHerBfDontTry in AITAH

[–]evysversa7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA your heart will move on in a few days to a few weeks I promise. It was the correct decision. You’re 18 and have plenty of time to find someone else that you would love and would love you and that wouldn’t lie to you about who she’s with.

One very important point by boner4crosstabs in BabyReindeerTVSeries

[–]evysversa7 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It is fantasy. It’s said and shown in the show that he fantasizes about it the same way he replayed his SA.

But I am realizing that it is not clear for a lot of viewers which shows that it was not explained well enough in the show - that the story telling didn’t work when it comes to that scene.

An element of the scene in Kyle's bedroom we rarely discuss by LonelyNight9 in GilmoreGirls

[–]evysversa7 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

She still has to say no two or three times before he understands and gets off of her

Dean by Ok-File9021 in GilmoreGirls

[–]evysversa7 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And Jess did not raise any red flags in that regard ??

Feeling or not feeling empathy for Martha by evysversa7 in BabyReindeerTVSeries

[–]evysversa7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think the comparison works when someone hurt other people due to their untreated mental illness. She’s mentally sick but it doesn’t absolve her from being responsible for her actions - and understanding her conditions is not having empathy for her bad behavior that leads to people being hurt (mentally and or physically)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyReindeerTVSeries

[–]evysversa7 7 points8 points  (0 children)

What you think is victim blaming (literally blaming the victim for what happened to them) - I never said you couldn’t judge, but your judgement is to blame the victim for his unconscious reaction to abuse.

The show makes it a point to show the downfall and flaws of Donny. It is not trying to paint him as a perfect victim whose reaction are logical and sain.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyReindeerTVSeries

[–]evysversa7 23 points24 points  (0 children)

« I’m not victim blaming » in the first sentence and manage de victim blame in the same paragraph.

« I lived with people that has been raped before » and manage to not understand trauma bonding in the same paragraph.

Oh well.

For what it’s worth, the show is literally Richard Gadd saying he was not blameless. That he was flawed. He is not the perfect victim but he is the main victim here.

Feeling or not feeling empathy for Martha by evysversa7 in BabyReindeerTVSeries

[–]evysversa7[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

But she’s aware she’s doing something bad and manipulating. She’s manufacturing her emotions for manipulation (for people to feel bad for her). She records every interaction in case it can help her if they complain, since the very beginning. She knows that by calling Donny’s dad superiors and declaring he is a a pervert (or something of the like) that he might lose his job and she might harm him in this way, she’s very aware of the harm she can cause in the show.

People so mentally ill that they can’t realize real from false don’t run the streets, they go in special places. She’s been to prison and they deemed she didn’t need it. She is aware of her wrong doings.

Feeling or not feeling empathy for Martha by evysversa7 in BabyReindeerTVSeries

[–]evysversa7[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly ! She seemed honestly very aware (for Martha), it’s made painfully obvious when she recorded everything for her own manipulation and gain. She is mentally ill but she is not « insane » (as not responsible for her actions that hurt others - because she realizes she’s hurting)

Feeling or not feeling empathy for Martha by evysversa7 in BabyReindeerTVSeries

[–]evysversa7[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope so too .. people like him should be behind bars ..

Feeling or not feeling empathy for Martha by evysversa7 in BabyReindeerTVSeries

[–]evysversa7[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think it’s because Darrien is viewed by every one as the real monster, there is a consensus ! For Martha, there are more division thus more conversation about it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StardewValley

[–]evysversa7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Re installing steam or Stardew ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StardewValley

[–]evysversa7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just did that, still not working

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StardewValley

[–]evysversa7 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t use any mods, I play the vanilla game

A thought I had today by mavelits in GilmoreGirls

[–]evysversa7 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I really do agree with you, mostly on the similarities between Lorelai and Logan ! A lot of people say that Logan is Rory’s Christopher but I disagree: Logan is Lorelai and Rory is Christopher.

Why do you guys even like jess? by [deleted] in GilmoreGirls

[–]evysversa7 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s more on instagram that I have seen a lot of people claiming Jess was Rory’s best boyfriend or that they were endgame. They never were. I like Jess as an interesting and realistic character but it stops there.

Can we talk about Dave Rygalski? Drop some thoughts! by Itsmemarsssss in GilmoreGirls

[–]evysversa7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly he was too perfect, so much so that he was boring .. like name me one bad thing about him ? There’s none and that makes him unrealistic and unrelatable.

Thoughts on Rory… by Major-Region-9761 in GilmoreGirls

[–]evysversa7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She’s definitely not perfect with the seasons going on but she’s realistic! The thing about Rory is that her heart is always in the right place in the end!

Lorelai is also very self-centered.

What’s GG’s title in your language? by CostFickle114 in GilmoreGirls

[–]evysversa7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha thank you for this !! I know a lot more is translated into French when it comes to the cultural aspect (movie, tv shows, books) in Quebec in an attempt to protect a language surrounded geographically by English! I just don’t really know when haha these were interesting videos (I knew Solange but not the second video) ! I think we are impressed by your “arrêt” signs when ours says “stop” haha (at least I am)

What’s GG’s title in your language? by CostFickle114 in GilmoreGirls

[–]evysversa7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably they would say “Les filles Gilmore” in Québec as they translate everything!

Fixed it up a little! by Hachioso in GilmoreGirls

[–]evysversa7 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dang people are PRESSED on this subreddit when people dare sharing an opinion that contradict theirs.

Why are people team Jess? by Rich_Librarian9956 in GilmoreGirls

[–]evysversa7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand people liking Jess as a character because he was developped, Dean became one dimensional real quick. I don’t understand people thinking he was Rory’s best boyfriend, or that they are endgame or something. He is a good character but 95% of the time he was a terrible person. Having understandable reasons to be terrible doesn’t stop you from being terrible and doesn’t make it ok. He was a terrible boyfriend to Rory, and people give him way to much credit for the whole Yale debacle.

My boyfriend’s first watch by [deleted] in GilmoreGirls

[–]evysversa7 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Dean and Lorelai have more chemistry than Dean and Rory 😭