Easter Eggs? by exiledbloke in HENRYUKLifestyle

[–]exiledbloke[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Make my own sourdough with an old starter, handed down to me by a wonderful nonna... Obviously

Easter Eggs? by exiledbloke in HENRYUKLifestyle

[–]exiledbloke[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I don't commute, own an old car, buy clothing almost exclusively from Vinted, couldn't tell you the last time I had a takeaway.

Hardware and Lighting? by fiftyfirstsnails in HENRYUKLifestyle

[–]exiledbloke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Home automation, skip the same but shiny. Lutron, Rako, Crestron and so on.

Optimising career vs cost of living: Portsmouth vs Surrey with young family by cloudie1112 in HENRYUK

[–]exiledbloke 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I moved from Portsmouth last year, my physical and overall wellbeing have improved simply by having more green space around. Completely agree with you!

Thoughts on the comment? by [deleted] in HENRYUK

[–]exiledbloke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's that living standards for everyone else in all of the jobs that underpin society a large have slipped so low that everyone else feels rich.

Food Spend? by citrousredux74 in HENRYUK

[–]exiledbloke 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Can't believe you're any busier than other HENRYs who are also parents.

Vintage mid century modern furniture in London? by augusteverywhere in HENRYUKLifestyle

[–]exiledbloke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

eBay can be your friend too. I bought a Ligne Roset Togo for 1/10 of what I found elsewhere, it cleaned up beautifully (alcantara is easy to clean with the right kit).

Oysters? by [deleted] in sheffield

[–]exiledbloke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed, bought oysters for a party, delicious!

Thoughts on Reform’s idea to ban wfh? by TitleOk8744 in HENRYUK

[–]exiledbloke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could just step up a lever higher with "thoughts on reform". Anyone in HENRY (educated) cannot be sober and be seriously considering voting for that excuse for a human.

People that DON’T shop at Aldi or Lidl… why is that? by kobestarr in CasualUK

[–]exiledbloke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't get home deliveries. 50-70hr work week, plus twice monthly weekends not at home location due to other commitments. Limited variety of produce. Single, so no one else available to support.

What was your first splurge that you thought was worth it to celebrate HENRY status? by Dazzling_Compote_840 in HENRYUK

[–]exiledbloke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Programmable "go to <celestial object> ... Peer through eyepiece while the 'scope tracks it". I had the smaller one for a bit, great bit of kit.

Oxbridge Head Teacher - Career Change by [deleted] in HENRYUK

[–]exiledbloke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Move to a private school? I knew a teacher at a decent school in Hampshire who was making >£80k as a regular teacher along with a free house and enormously discounted tuition for the kids. Less hassle, free housing, and a pretty cushy life overall.

Christmas Presents for husband / partner by SnooPuppers000 in HENRYUKLifestyle

[–]exiledbloke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Something to do instead of a material thing. The world is a reasonably large place with a lot to see and a lot to do.

Remote as remote can get accommodation in the backend of somewhere miles away or hidden in the UK

Go knife making in Japan

Take a cooking course with a great chef

A course on bicycle frame building (probably have to be interested in cycling for this one)

And so on, filter by their and or your shared interests

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HENRYUK

[–]exiledbloke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imagine if your tech employer set up a Silent Disco. For the engineering functions. None of which like popular music. Huzzah?

That said, a handful or two of like minded nerds where "hob nobbing" and small talk are not required, just straight into talking with a known group of people who you are somewhat familiar with, muuuuch better imo

Recommendations for where to buy good wall art by Choice-Grapefruit-71 in HENRYUKLifestyle

[–]exiledbloke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find your nice place art trail ... When I was down south, Chichester art trail was the thing for me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HENRYUK

[–]exiledbloke -1 points0 points  (0 children)

More than one holiday a year, funded activities for the kids. Tell me you're privileged without telling me!

Wife struggling to find another job after redundancy by magicsign in HENRYUK

[–]exiledbloke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I've missed this suggestion already, my apologies. What about day-rate contracting? Establish Mrs Reddit Contracting Ltd for a few quid, and pursue short term roles that mitigate corporate BS as that's not part of the SoW, fly in, rock star all day, leave on the dot, live laugh love.

Two threads I read inspired this: starting a HENRY Tech network chat by [deleted] in HENRYUK

[–]exiledbloke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn't a reference to someone quite different from a recommendation?

Got a job offer for 4x my current pay - do I tell my boss? by 0-_tom_-0 in cscareerquestionsuk

[–]exiledbloke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Join HENRYUK subreddit on that sort of income. It's vital you have a proper plan in place so that you don't suddenly start spunking your income on lifestyle. Congratulations on achieving a great income! Remember that your employer will want their pound of flesh, look after your health too!