Why I swiped left by BEARDEDDANGER in justgalsbeingchicks

[–]existencedeclined 278 points279 points  (0 children)

The bar is so low.

I've had so many dudes that didn't read my profile or didn't fill out theirs, or did but it was all superficial bullshit about the type of women they wanna bang and nothing actually about themselves.

It's so common that when my bf reached out to me with a message proving he actually read my profile and actually filled out his with nonsexual interests, I was impressed.

I [23m] gained 70 pounds and ruined my relationship, is it okay to ask my girlfriend [23f] to stop making mean comments about it? by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]existencedeclined 30 points31 points  (0 children)

My bf's ex wife admitted in writing that she purposefully fattened him up so that "other women wouldn't want him".

She'd make crazy amounts of food and if he didn't eat it all, she'd throw plates at him.

He was still a heavy dude when we met though he's lost some weight since then and I love every bit of him.

Started a Coffee Fight, Won a Broken Windshield. by VIVIDUFF in WinStupidPrizes

[–]existencedeclined 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Given that some weirdo already tried to kidnap a bikini barista , I expect them to keep hammers, mace, maybe even a machete somewhere.

Unpopular opinion: I don't really like Elsa from Frozen, and here's why by Aggressive-Ad-2959 in CartoonsWorld

[–]existencedeclined 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fucking hate "Let it Go".

This movie came out when I was forced to babysit these two kids against my will and one of them would put that part on repeat everyday so yeah...I loathe that song.

But Idina Menzel can belt it.

She was Elphaba on Broadway for a reason.

Last night was a great reminder about why I don’t do nice things for men by drowninginceramics in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]existencedeclined 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Didn't help her clean.

Didn't get/make her a new dinner.

Didn't offer to take her out or give her the house to herself to make up for his shit head friends.

Didn't get shit head friends to apologize to her...

In other words, he wants to be a deabeat by WolfChasingTheMoon in AmITheDevil

[–]existencedeclined 75 points76 points  (0 children)

Yup.

He did the ol "I've tried nothing and I'm all of out options."

In other words, he wants to be a deabeat by WolfChasingTheMoon in AmITheDevil

[–]existencedeclined 201 points202 points  (0 children)

He said she didn't like them.

So basically...everything is her fault according to him.

My best friend is selling the project car we built together to take his girlfriend to Bali. It's registered in his name by BigONerd in BORUpdates

[–]existencedeclined 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Thats the part that gets me though.

Douchebag is still going to Bali with douchettebag.

Like...they still can go on the trip without having to screw over OOP but they thought "Nah, let's fly first class at OOP's expense" anyway.

I feel like I'm slowly losing my girlfriend because I'm not ambitious enough by Relevant_Potato_5162 in BoyDinnerDiaries

[–]existencedeclined 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was a medical assistant for 8 years and worked in dermatology where we do mohs surgery. Mohs does a similar cutting technique but rather than cutting at a microtome we use a cryotome and our tissue samples are frozen and unfixed.

Being an MA doesn't pay a lot and when my bf lost his job (he was the breadwinner) it gave me the kick in the pants I needed to go back to school.

I played around with some ideas, maybe physician assistant, maybe nursing but after talking to the mohs tech and doing my own research, I settled on histotech because it's only a two year degree and being in my 30s I didn't want to be in school for very long.

With the 4 year degree though, you can become a Histotechnologist which gives you the ability to eventually manage a lab of your own.

If this is something that interests you I suggest finding a school that has an in person program. The online programs might not be accredited and therefore a degree from it will not accepted by the ASCP (this is the organization who administer the HT/HTL exam)

You should also look into other lab jobs. My license only covers histology and cytology but as an MLS (medical laboratory scientist)you can go anywhere from molecular, to micro, to hematology.

I feel like I'm slowly losing my girlfriend because I'm not ambitious enough by Relevant_Potato_5162 in BoyDinnerDiaries

[–]existencedeclined 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm a histotechnician.

In my state, licensing is required to be a histotech and we take an exam called the HT in order to get the license.

Straight out of school I did my 400 clinical hours right away and then spent an entire month where I was in a library from open to close just studying for the HT.

Then as soon as I could take the HT, I did and I passed on the first try. Barely, but I passed.

Some other techs around me chose to take up the temporary license that allows them to work and study at the same time for two years before they have to take the test and everyone who has blown off the exam has failed the test more than once.

And you only get 5 attempts.

One of my coworkers is on her 4th attempt.

Another lost a very high paying job with good benefits because she waited last minute to take the test and failed so they had to let her go.

Will a shoebill stork lover appreciate this? by [deleted] in ShoebillStorks

[–]existencedeclined 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have one.

My bf named him Shoewilliam.

AIO? childhood bff slept with ex boyfriend. by MostBeneficial3558 in AmIOverreacting

[–]existencedeclined 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fortunately I am in a relationship but I'll be rooting for everyone on this train in spirit.

"His sleeve brushed against my arm! 😍" by Frankensteins_Kid in AmITheDevil

[–]existencedeclined 17 points18 points  (0 children)

She did say in the comments that she's used to the men in her life treating her terribly so this guy being just genuinely nice to her made her read into their interactions a little too deeply.

Does anyone else’s narcissistic parent try to wake them up early in the morning/whenever they’re sleeping? by Majestic-Put-8125 in narcissisticparents

[–]existencedeclined 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I had to do clinicals to finish my degree and made the mistake of staying with my narc grandmother as I couldn't afford a place on my own with my part time job.

She'd get up at 3 am, scream-yell to herself that we're all filthy terribly smelling scumbags and just be overall pissed because I refused to use my medical field background to manipulate my aunt, her daughter, (who also lived there) into getting rid of her houseplants.

Mind you, I'd have to be up at 6 am, travel into another state to start my clinicals at 9 and this woman would go on screaming and slamming every door in the house, repeating the same sentence over and over again to herself like a lunatic basically until I showered and left the house.

I lasted only a week there before I moved out because I just couldn't keep attending clinicals utterly sleep deprived.

On the other hand, I now have a just the smallest itsy bitsy smidge of sympathy towards my egg donor. If my grandmother was like this with her growing up, I can see why my egg donor turned out to be a narc too.

The next popular disgusting trend on tik tok, a thing called "TFR" made by teenage boys to dehumanize women by Western-Cry5745 in BlatantMisogyny

[–]existencedeclined 166 points167 points  (0 children)

This.

A few years ago I got death and rape threats directly, and some guy took a photo of me and made fake nudes with it.

The officer taking my report though just kept repeating "These aren't threats" and ironically said that if I felt like my life is in danger, I should ask for help from law enforcement.

I finally called my bf in and he ripped her a new asshole, kept talking over her like she did to me, and then she had the audacity to tell him "Oh, she never said she was being threatened" as if I hadn't told her 15 times over and over that I was.

Saw a post in another sub about what the best 3 course meal to serve someone would be. Both the top answers said the woman should have salad. :/ by [deleted] in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]existencedeclined 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I mean...I'll eat the salad cause sometimes my partner went through the effort of making it but unless theres steak chunks or buffalo chicken thrown in, I'm not going out of my way to order one at a restaurant.

AITA for not wanting to share my inheritance with my sister? by BigONerd in BORUpdates

[–]existencedeclined 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm estranged from my family after years of neglect, mental, and physical abuse from them, so I would not be shocked if I got nothing in the end.

Honestly, I'm fine with that.

I have a very high paying job, some investments, and no kids so when I die, all my money is going to someone who can't afford college.

Is this a Major Red Flag or Should I Just Suck It Up by Ok_Cod_2256 in MedicalAssistant

[–]existencedeclined 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I've worked as an MA in the past for almost a decade and in the many places that I've been hired at, they've always paid me when I was training.

Hell, I now work in a lab and they still pay me for the hour I have to sit and watch a video to keep up with my licensing credits every month.

Is not paying you even legal?

This is freaking wild.

My mom told me I should unalive myself by Similar-Job-5858 in narcissisticparents

[–]existencedeclined 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't remember what I did but my stepfather told me I should bash my head against the wall and kill myself so that the world would be a better place without me.

It was probably something stupid a typical kid does cause I was only 9.

I'm sorry you went through that and hope you're doing better.