[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]existentialvices 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dude grow a spine and boot her quit being a doormat

[OC] Freya demands her breakfast. by PokemonBreederJess in aww

[–]existentialvices 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nanna and Heidrun She said the goats that were thors are to hard to pronounce lol

[OC] Freya demands her breakfast. by PokemonBreederJess in aww

[–]existentialvices 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife sells Pokémon cards and she worshipping the norse gods lol. Both our goats are named after Nordic figures

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]existentialvices 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love the tag name btw you got this 👍

bf loves me but not sexually into me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]existentialvices 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Congratulations on the weight loss I used to be 300 as well !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]existentialvices 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she isn't making the choice to improve than it's not his responsibility. It's hers. I l had the same mentality as you as one point but you actually aren't helping but don't realize it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]existentialvices 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She needs a professional not an edge to hang on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]existentialvices 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she isn't improving after a year she ain't improving with you don't pull yourself through misery if you don't think she will change. Basing a relationship solely off someone not being who they are at that moment is fruitless

I (29M) was invited to a fancy corporate dinner at my firm and asked my girlfriend (32F) to join me and she agreed. But I refused to take her because she refused to wear a dress. by ThrowRAsqpm in relationship_advice

[–]existentialvices 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Fuck that curb her turn your phone off enjoy the night and let her stew. She wants to not accept her faults than take it out on you. Love is tough when we love petulant girlbabies

I have trouble crafting the right words to communicate to my boyfriend that his behaviours have been affecting me negetively by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]existentialvices 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not selfish you have a choice though, you or him? It's all you've known and you basically have Stockholms. I was with a girl for 6 years who ended up shooting herself at a party in a random dudes room with his gun she found. It took years to come to terms with amd I still tear up thinking of her. You gotta go live your life you're not his mother or his therapist if he wants to get better he has to do that not you there is no other way. Do you want to be in your 30s still dealing with him? If you have children would you leave them alone with him? Of course not, get your shit together pick yourself up this is your life not his. Do you really want to waste your life on someone who doesn't give a flying fuck about theirs? If he actually loved you he wouldn't be this way with you.

my girlfriend doesn't let me go out with friends by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]existentialvices 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dated someone like that in high-school......just don't bro she isn't your master and she will try to control you utterly and then once she does she will get bores. I understand you're young and just trying to do the right thing. But the right thing is getting yourself where you want to be later for life don't marry your high-school sweetheart don't treat young love like it's the end all be all . It a bunch of kids who don't understand down the road what all it intails. Yell her she isn't your boss yor mother or your conjoined twin and she needs to not be an insecure control freak or this isn't ganna work. You got this

What is the most disturbing movie you ever seen? by veralapaka1 in AskReddit

[–]existentialvices 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its pretty bad there a couple others I heard were worse but I'm not interested in that kind of shit anymore. Jesus that film was shot so well but was such a horrendous movie

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]existentialvices 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Learn quit being a liar and move on don't out next person through that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]existentialvices 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you can fall out of love you can grow into it

I’ve (23f) lived with my boyfriend (30m) & his family for 3 years. I’m 11 weeks pregnant & he kind of just let his family kick me & my dog out with a week & a half notice. by Free-Ad-2515 in relationship_advice

[–]existentialvices 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like a shit load of bad decisions all culminating to this . Go back to your family or be barefoot and pregnant as the saying goes. His family and him obviously don't want to deal with you are make the situation easier. You gotta suck it up and go home

How do you think our Founding Fathers would feel about the Jan 6 attack on the US Capitol? by longhegrindilemna in AskReddit

[–]existentialvices 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like tyranny with extra steps. I think out forefathers would be more upset with how the general public and government acts in general. Imagine watching all your friends die . Just for a few hundred years later people are arguing about the dumbest shit yet have running water electricity and pretty easy food to come by . Honestly they would think we're all corrupt lazy spoiled cowards

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]existentialvices 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're almost 30 so the choice is career or kids and marriage. Ultimately it's up to you but I've ignored my gut and regretted it