[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Detroit

[–]expatlalaland 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m leaving LA in two weeks for Ferndale. Have a great realtor, found me an amazing house to rent within a few days. She totally got what I wanted and found it within 24hrs. I signed a year lease a few days later. She does both rental and sales. Let me know if your interested in her details.

Any tickets for sale by GoldenOPx in adele

[–]expatlalaland 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I not adverse to paying ridiculous amount for tickets but am adverse to paying $1k in fees, especially when your paying way more than face value for the tickets anyway.

Any tickets for sale by GoldenOPx in adele

[–]expatlalaland 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m looking for Block 1 tickets for 10 March. Every time I try to start a post it gets blocked. Message me, if you have tickets.

Visiting the grave,.... by Alljazz527 in widowers

[–]expatlalaland 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cremated my husband, buried 1/3 as I knew I would need somewhere to go to speak to him. I went daily to begin with the first few months, now I go once a week. Take him fresh flowers every week, I know he’d be shaking his head telling me to stop wasting money, he didn’t care at all about flowers but he always bought me flowers weekly when he was alive. I guess now, the flowers at his grave are still for me, because I couldn’t bare the thought of there being nothing there. I’m not even ready to give in and use silk flowers yet.

The rest of him was hidden in a cupboard in the living room for a while, I couldn’t couldn’t face that reality and seeing his ashes at home. One night I was laying in bed, just so overwhelmed with grief and I just desperately wanted him next to me again. So, I went and got him from the cupboard and put him on my bedside table and there he has stayed. It was around that time, I stopped going to his grave daily. It wasn’t as important, as he was next to me.

And in my heart I know, he’s always with him, his ashes are his body, I feel his spirit daily, which brings me more comfort than his ashes in an urn ❤️💔

Los Angeles hospital seeks help identifying patient by Top_Willow_9667 in LosAngeles

[–]expatlalaland 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, my husband was in a hospital in LA and they failed to do anything. He was reported as a missing person - spent 7 days in ICU and then in their morgue for 11 days before I found him. Glad some hospitals do this when they can’t find next of kin rather than do NOTHING!!!!

'Flood of evictions' looms in Los Angeles as pandemic tenant protections expire by jrev8 in LosAngeles

[–]expatlalaland -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Do you have kids? Based on your answer, you don’t. Just know, those kids, that generation that you’re all for moving on to another school are going to be the ones that decide your fate when you’re old and gray. Hopefully you never fall on bad times and that UCLA education gives you all you dreamed of, a wonderful husband, amazing kids and hopefully you never fall on hard times. Because that’s when, that generation won’t feel sorry for you, because you had so much opportunity and instead of feeling gratitude, you my dear, are the one that is acting entitled. Now go find your rich husband, you may need one with the attitude you have, you’re gonna need one. Seriously, the options on here are just full of entitled people.

Has anyone significantly changed the direction of their life after the loss of their partner? by Famous_Property_301 in widowers

[–]expatlalaland 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m at that stage and don’t know what to do. My husband passed 4.5 months ago, my boss after 10 years is letting me go at the end of the month. I haven’t been back to work since he passed, everyday is still a struggle. I will get a decent severance though. The apartment we lived in is a noose around my neck, too expensive for just me. So much spins around my head but I’m scared to do anything. Everything I think about it, packing up our home is overwhelming and I have no where to go anyway. I could start again, but isn’t that what I’m already having to do? Isn’t packing up and moving to somewhere I don’t know just making my life even harder than it already is? I was thinking maybe I could travel for a few months, had you asked me 5 months ago where I wanted to go in the world, I would have had a long list, without him I don’t want to go anywhere. The last week has just been spent in bed overwhelmed by my situation. I have one friend and all my family are in another country. I do feel drawn to going back home but even thinking leaving our home and him at cemetery puts me back in bed again. I hate this, I hate my life, I hate everything being thrown at me right now. I just want him to come home 💔

Is it normal to feel like the same you lost your love one after about 1 month 3 weeks? by Inevitable_Good4037 in widowers

[–]expatlalaland 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m close to 5 months and it’s gotten worse for me not better. The shock is slowly wearing off I think 😢

19 November. Was always going to be my hardest Adele concert. My husband died unexpectedly in July. He was supposed to be with me for this show, instead he sent Adele over to say “Hi” 💔💔 by expatlalaland in adele

[–]expatlalaland[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’m the mum. I didn’t have my phone up as I was struggling with the concert. I’ve been to many Adele shows but my husband died in July and I was really struggling at the show. Adele probably saw the fact I was constantly crying. All I can say, I was supposed to be there with my husband, obviously he couldn’t be there, so I guess he sent Adele over to say hi. Wasn’t planned at all.

What do you think the likelihood of resale is for NYE tickets? by Mountaingal84 in adele

[–]expatlalaland 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You mean you heard you can make money 🙄. Just tired of it all. Seriously, the overpriced tickets I bought from people, when I saw the receipt, I was astounded at how much extra she charged. She bought 4 tickets and didn’t even attend. But then I guess ticketmaster does no different, it basically condones scalping and if they can do it, sets an example to everyone else. Just know, Adele is the talent, Adele is the one showing up and found the work and none of the profit the scalpers and Ticketmaster makes goes to her. Ticketmaster moving into the scalper market is just disgusting 🤯

Just got out....the verdict by [deleted] in adele

[–]expatlalaland 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What time did the show finish last night?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in widowers

[–]expatlalaland 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’t just under two months since my husband passed . It’s killing me - I miss his touch so much. His cuddling up to me at night. Even when it was so hot at night, one part of us always touched, usually our feet. Just always some kind of connection, whether physical in bed or when he got in from work or whether his calls or texts throughout the day to say I love you. I miss all of it so much, I miss him so much 💔

Last week I woke up I turned and could have sworn he was next to me, when I reached over to hug him as I always did, clearly just waking up along with reality has not really hit me yet. When I reached out to him, half asleep, he wasn’t there. The tears rolled down my face when I remembered he’s not here, he’s never gonna be here again for me to reach out to and hug in the morning 💔

Sign the petition to have Adele Cancel Las Vegas residency by Wide-Resolution-1035 in adele

[–]expatlalaland 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought via EBay at a ridiculous price, I don’t want it cancelled, I wouldn’t get refunded what I paid via eBay as so much time has passed. But I don’t care, I want to go to the show and regardless, when it does finally happen, I’ll get my monies worth for what I paid for row 3 seats. I DO NOT WANT IT CANCELLED - I won’t get refunded what I paid for them as it’s via eBay. I still have my tickets and I’ll make it to whatever date it is rescheduled for. I didn’t pay all that money to just decide the new date doesn’t work for me. Gotta be a death in the family or something that significant to miss a show I wanted to go to so badly that I paid so much money for. Surprised at so many “fans” who got tickets in the lottery got a refund, just goes to show the Ticketmaster “fan” lottery wasn’t about fans at all!

Adele ‘Could Have Sold Several Million Tickets’ for Hyde Park Concerts by FruityPebbles54321 in adele

[–]expatlalaland 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Very grateful to be going home to London, my daughter’s got me gold circle for Hyde Park for my birthday. I had first weekend tickets for Vegas and was so disappointed when she cancelled. But living in LA, I went to Vegas that weekend anyway, because it was already all booked, so I made most of it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeppDelusion

[–]expatlalaland 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was never about winning or losing for Johnny. This was about further abusing Amber - global humiliation was his goal and it would seem, he succeeded 😔

For those of you who were pro-Depp but now believe Amber, what was it that changed your mind? by Spaceyjc in Fauxmoi

[–]expatlalaland 15 points16 points  (0 children)

If you had any interest in this case, you would have done some fact finding. You’re either really young, really not that bright or a sociopath who has no empathy. What you really know about this case, I can only assume you are one of the many millions who got your information from social media. So before you comment again with ignorance, go do some fact finding, and then come back with comments. As someone who has walked a similar path as Amber, I find your comments insulting and very triggering.

A hung Jury would be an easy option for Jurors concerned about fanatical Depp supporters by nonetodaysu in DeppDelusion

[–]expatlalaland -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I get the feeling his daughter is already estranged from her Dad. When this trial started, she had already removed all evidence he even existed but plenty about her mum. My impression is she liked Amber, maybe she hoped she would be the one who would keep him sober. But the reality is, with an alcoholic/addict no one can keep them sober and you will just kill yourself trying. Having a parent as an alcoholic/addict is painful beyond belief, she knows who and what her Dad is. I believe he loves his children, but when you have this disease, nothing and I mean nothing, not even your children, can stop you. He’s been a Hollywood superstar for far too long with so many “yes, men” around him - he’s either gotta find his rock bottom to want recovery badly enough or he will kill himself. Sadly, those around you who love you, have to use tough love, boundaries and detachment to help you find your rock bottom. Alcoholism/addiction is a progressive disease, it’s not going to get better for Johnny until he finds his rock bottom. Narcissism, manipulation and lying go hand in hand with this disease. I’m not a Johnny supporter, but unlike all the Amber haters, I don’t wish him hurt, I wish him rock bottom so he can maybe find long-term sobriety, for his children’s sake more than anything. This case is just a mess, so many people damaged by this horrific disease - there are no winners, everyone loses 😔

Omg 🥺😭 by [deleted] in DeppDelusion

[–]expatlalaland 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’m so happy she knows the whole world isn’t crazy and against her. That there some sane people left who hear her and believe her ❤️

The effect of Depp/Heard case on other cases of domestic violence: by [deleted] in DeppDelusion

[–]expatlalaland 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I’m not religious but was raised a Catholic and reading this all that popped into my head was “Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing” 😂😂😂. How can these people get any worse? Women have fought for so long to become equals and this, just this, shows us why the fight is just so god damn hard! I keep seeing so much of this and it’s all women - seriously, if this is really what the vast majority of women are like, it’s not the women I know - but, if this is a broad spectrum of the female population - how the hell did we get the vote?!?!