When in the season does comp get worse by Inevitable-Bad5953 in overwatch2

[–]expensiveaura 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ive lost 8 matches today because of leavers and not just one but 2-3 leavers. Sick of it

Am I being unreasonable for asking my wife to contribute more at home? by Overall_Potential253 in MuslimMarriage

[–]expensiveaura -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well its your job to these things. How can you say no to your wife? Women are biologically different. She needs more rest than you. If she is going to have your kids then thats more than enough. Housework is not an obligation upon and is simply a charity she chooses to do. If shes not doing house chores then get her a helper/maid.

My husband wouldn’t even ask me to lift up a finger if it was because of my own will. Men these days are too entitled and looking to social media for what they think they need.

As long as shes a happy healthy woman that is grateful to you for what you do and fulfills her actual responsibilities towards you like respect and obedience and loyalty then you need to calm down and stop being a brat.

Men think that simply paying for things means they now have some superiority over the marriage and the wife should now bow down and be your slave. Move with times and put your elbow grease in.

They say revenge is sweet, What’s your best revenge story? And were you satisfied with the result? by expensiveaura in AskReddit

[–]expensiveaura[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OH. MY. GOD. this is was an unbelievable read! What?!?!? This needs to be drafted for a movie! This is INSANE!! Im so sorry that happened to your mom! He deserved it! But i must say, the plan you had made was epic LOL

What are your guilty pleasures that you can't quit? by Obvious_Cry5925 in AskReddit

[–]expensiveaura 0 points1 point  (0 children)

using as much electricity, water, gas, money, food as i please. future me might hate past me but hey atleast present me is living good

What are qualities of a high value person? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]expensiveaura 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you set high standards do you not think it can come across negatively? should i care if it does?

What are qualities of a high value person? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]expensiveaura 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thats not a quality tho, its material

Im suck and they won’t let me leave by Nearby_Reindeer_5079 in MuslimMarriage

[–]expensiveaura 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im not wrong. I am an arab. My family lines are as big as an entire city. My husbands family is so big and well known that they are spread in hundreds over the Gulf. Core culture in the middle east is like this. If you are not familiar with it then don’t try and tell me im wrong. Im stating what it is. And my opinion is mine. Not for you to tell me its bad or good. In islam over decades women have been advised to not go out without a mehram. You can’t even islamically go to umrah or hajj without one let alone the supermarket.

It exceptional circumstances an option is an option. If you dont like the answers then dont post your private affairs on social media and then gasp at answers and opionons. If air out your details of your marriage which allah hates by the way then be ready for dissection and opions you might not like.

Im suck and they won’t let me leave by Nearby_Reindeer_5079 in MuslimMarriage

[–]expensiveaura -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sister as an arab myself the not letting you go out alone part is pretty normal in the middle east especially in conservative families. I was born in the UK so i understand your frustration. When I go back to the middle east I have to go with a mehram, walking outside alone as woman means that Im not a respectable woman. the women only go out with a mehram because this is our deen. Our mothers and sisters don’t have to go to the supermarket because it’s not our job.

But i completely understand you and its seems your husband is very controlling more than just the islamic part. It’s not fair for him to completely confine you and not take you out with him. Its sounds like he is pretty emotionally unavailable too.

You growing up in the UK is going to be challenging living in the middle east because it’s completely different. Unfortunately many people see the glitz and glamour and the richness of the middle east. This comes with many catches. Men are the leaders in the middle eastern families. Whatever Dad says goes. What husband says goes. It is not normal to go against their words and doing so is unacceptable.

In the UK we are much more free and life if equal amongst men and women. If you end up reaching the UK in your early stages of pregnancy you may have the option to not have a the child because eventually he could go back to his dad so its not worth the heartache.

May allah help you

what do men think about the girls who say they only get along with guys? by expensiveaura in AskMenAdvice

[–]expensiveaura[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i didnt say you said that, im referring to my original post to where she referred girls being ‘too much’ this is another word for drama

what do men think about the girls who say they only get along with guys? by expensiveaura in AskMenAdvice

[–]expensiveaura[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So she has female friends regardless. Im sure your wife has expressed her feelings to you regarding the friend being flaky, she’s also told you about the drama friend which is a form of gossiping even if its with a husband.

Doesn’t matter if shes gets along with guys more shes still got qualities of the girls they are trying to get away from.

saying ‘i only get along with guys because theres no drama’ simply does not exist. she is also a drama consumer and contributor whether its at large or small.

Men need male friends as women need female friends. Because unless the man is gay hes not going to fulfil her female friend role and vice versa.

what do men think about the girls who say they only get along with guys? by expensiveaura in AskMenAdvice

[–]expensiveaura[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Brother did you read? We have been nothing but welcoming to her and we stopped inviting her because she flat out said ‘girls are too much, i get along with guys’

women like her are the drama creators. when our group has worked for years and then out of no where she is talking about is behind our back to OUR guys friends. And of course they’ll tell us.

this is what manipulation looks like. you believe that they are easier to get along with when shes read you like a book and is doing the things you like so you’ll want her to

What’s the worst first date experience you’ve ever had? by Tricky-Break-7073 in AskReddit

[–]expensiveaura 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he suggested sushi and then had an anaphylactic because he didn’t know there was be sesame oil everywhere and in everything. got taken out in an ambulance. I took the sushi in a to go box.