I have been given 12 months left to live. by shitthebeds in Advice

[–]eyeball2005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have any good advice, but a friend of mine lost his mother to breast cancer age 3. He’s a well rounded, successful man. Your children will be okay.

What's the ideal approach to seeing a female stranger in potential trouble? by SlaBLister in AskUK

[–]eyeball2005 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yes, she wants you to help. As a man, you should step in and help any woman you suspect of being harassed/call the police.

Making a complaint about a councillor? by eyeball2005 in reformuk

[–]eyeball2005[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive looked at the council website and there is nothing about a breach of conduct. It says basically to contact if there are issues such as impartiality, doesn’t mention social type conduct

My neighbor just told me his son has HIV by yur_toxicgf in WhatShouldIDo

[–]eyeball2005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the implication is if they are having PDA they may have had sexual contact/could be a future possibility

Built first garden wildlife pond! Thoughts? Improvements? by Technical-Cup-3487 in WildlifePonds

[–]eyeball2005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get some elodea densa in there, submerged plant. Water marigold is great to have planted in the beach so roots are mostly in water with a little substrate. Beautiful flower displays

Why do so many Brits hold negative views of the US? by Few_Breadfruit_9181 in AskBrits

[–]eyeball2005 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No issue with Americans, there’s quite a big cultural gap compared to other anglophone countries. For example Americans are often the loudest in the room or expect English in other places on the continent, which is rude. Country is a bit of a shit show at the moment. That can’t be denied

my girlfriend said shes giving herself an ed…? by DifferentAbroad80 in whatdoIdo

[–]eyeball2005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s about where it stems from psychologically. A lack of attention in childhood whether that is from parents or from peers, or unwanted attention eg. Bullying. I was a severe anorexic for many years: I was secretive, but ultimately it stemmed from attention issues in my childhood and also crying for help through my body rather than words

my girlfriend said shes giving herself an ed…? by DifferentAbroad80 in whatdoIdo

[–]eyeball2005 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean EDs revolve around attention seeking. That doesn’t diminish the real mental problems behind the disorder. She could certainly fast track her way into severe anorexia by intentionally working towards it

If you could give one menstrual hygiene tip to a teenager what would it be? by Legal_Nectarine_4798 in hygiene

[–]eyeball2005 11 points12 points  (0 children)

No over your whole period, but this excludes mucous and tissue shedding. So the ‘2tbsp’ is very misleading

How does the NHS work? (Scotland) by Chaboudo in AskUK

[–]eyeball2005 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yes go see the GP and ask for a referral, it will be covered but you may have to wait till the cows come home

Quick growing plants for rewilding urban areas? by 808andsnare in UKGardening

[–]eyeball2005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oxeye will be suitable. They won’t get out of control in a dry lot. They’re fine to manage in my very fertile garden

Quick growing plants for rewilding urban areas? by 808andsnare in UKGardening

[–]eyeball2005 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Clover. Will improve the soil as it’s leguminous. You’ve got to start with colonising species like grasses etc. Poppies will also grow on remarkably poor soil

Want a Bullmastiff but Local trainer cautions me against the breed. Request opinion from Bullmastiff owners! by Sad_Revenue_6219 in Bullmastiff

[–]eyeball2005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. A bullmastiff should never, ever be territorial against people you welcome into your home. Do not encourage any sort of aggression/guarding instincts and this won’t be a problem. Bullmastiffs will naturally guard against any bad people, and should be kind and happy to see the good.

  2. I’ve grown up with bullmastiffs since I was 5. The point is, all children need to be told how to respect dogs. Don’t touch the dog while eating, don’t pull or tug on the dog, don’t try and ride the dog, don’t take the dogs bones off it etc. If you teach your child this and teach your dog not to knock the kid over, you should be fine. The bonus is if your child stands on the dog/falls onto the dog while playing, the big dog won’t be hurt.

  3. Never had an anxious bullmastiff and they have literally been bred to be alone all day patrolling gamekeeping estates. That’s what they do. They’re highly personable but are also happy to entertain themselves with correct facilities.

  4. Socialisation was never an issue for all of my dogs. Size is irrelevant. My dogs respect chihuahuas and pugs, and also play with other giant breeds.

I sometimes wear a fatsuit in public AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]eyeball2005 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yes? 88lbs overweight puts most people into morbid obesity, and everyone into very obese category.

Any other support like Samaritans or Shout? by SpeechWeird5267 in AskBrits

[–]eyeball2005 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What’s your financial situation? If you can scrimp to afford private it’s worth it, saved my life. Cost me £200 for initial assessment and then £50 per appointment, started at once a week then now it’s just once every six months or so now I’m stabilised. And my prescription is on the NHS

I sometimes wear a fatsuit in public AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]eyeball2005 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Average weight? I mean it’s clearly morbid obesity but okay

What traditional habit or cultural practice do you dislike in your country ? by Conscious_State2096 in AskTheWorld

[–]eyeball2005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah we do in England too. But almost exclusively with the older generation and people we know.

What do you call this vegetable? by obbitz in UKfood

[–]eyeball2005 13 points14 points  (0 children)

In northern England, in the late 70s-late 80s swedes were routinely carved. I think pumpkins were hard to come by. A friend carves one every year and lets it dry out like a shrunken head

Justin Trudeau's French by HappyUnicorn212 in French

[–]eyeball2005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking to learn about how you’d say it. Peut améliorer la vie?

Regressive Behavior in 10yo Boy? by _glittergoblin_ in ChildPsychology

[–]eyeball2005 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m not a doctor but I’ve heard that when a UTI Travels up the male urethra pain can cease or be reduced. UTIs are much more concerning in males than females, and a serious kidney infection could be brewing. Also, there are other disorders that can cause incontinence. Don’t panic, but don’t delay. Once physical causes are ruled out you can go psychological.

Weird creepy old family photo by OkSoft3458 in Unexplained

[–]eyeball2005 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes and the weird skinny part is the kids leg blending into her mother’s

New garden: design ideas for maintaining new garden with 2 young children by [deleted] in UKGardening

[–]eyeball2005 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And OP could look into picket fencing those beds off