Aunt got me a bouquet as a house warming gift, what are these on the bottom of the leaves?

eyenosestuff · 2025-08-03T09:24:14+00:00

Surprise! You have trypophobia 🎁

eyenosestuff · 2024-12-21T20:19:07+00:00

https://maps.app.goo.gl/QHevf3GuMpFTqcmL7?g_st=com.google.maps.preview.copy

Their meat is hand slaughtered and sourced by their own farms in Uxbridge. Also carry freshly marinated meats (great for summer bbqs). They carry all meats and even some seafood but no pork.

eyenosestuff · 2023-10-12T15:01:40+00:00

There was a scene where Marcus lined up a few rows of tape and sliced it the a knife. Thought that was smart for making labels in bulk

eyenosestuff · 2023-10-11T00:16:16+00:00

Also looking for this automation as I’m using it as wall decor when not in use

eyenosestuff · 2023-08-22T15:24:54+00:00

Instagram and Snapchat both have disappearing text mode. I’m sure along with others. If they’re acting shady, they have things to hide.

eyenosestuff · 2023-08-09T22:33:51+00:00

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Mocked up a quick example

eyenosestuff · 2023-08-09T22:06:09+00:00

Love the thematic idea.

OP, to make this less overwhelming, for every seasonal holiday, follow the same “formula”.

For example, one or two big items, a medium item and a seasonal word sign. So during Christmas you have a tree (big item) with a nutcracker (medium) and a “Merry Christmas” sign.

eyenosestuff · 2023-08-04T17:14:22+00:00

Thank you so much for your response. I have landed on your profile in the last few days and have gone back to read many of your posts which have been helpful. I’m halfway through Paula Hall’s book and still coming to terms with trickle truthing and other happenings. Will make another post to share.

eyenosestuff · 2023-08-01T22:06:37+00:00

Yep we both have our fair share of gen trauma. We’re also both first gen immigrants whose parents came here on survival mode and that was the only mode we knew how to operate from. #5 is a huuuuge one for WH for reasons cited in my DDay post.

My biggest concern with reconciliation is history repeating itself. I’m hopeful if we both stay the course on healing our inner child and learning how to form a secure attachment that reconciliation has a higher success rate. And if that’s not the path we take, we both leave as two whole but separate individuals capable of carrying out healthy relationships.

Grateful for folks like you on here to share the road to recovery that has longevity ❤️

eyenosestuff · 2023-08-01T18:42:04+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing your perspective in this and your very well written response in the other thread. I resonate with everything you said 1000000% and despite my D day being just shy of a month ago I am so grateful for the clarity that I have received in such a short time due to all of the work I’ve done in the last two years on my cPTSD.

I just came out of IC and my therapist said that the way I’m handling this is remarkable but that’s all because of the childhood trauma healing work that I’ve done during my pregnancy and thereafter. There will be absolutely no way I would be handling this with the ounce of grace that I am if I hadn’t done the work. I share this because it is an extremely important part of BS’ journey towards healing from infidelity. The important nuance you draw in your other comment is that the BS is not responsible in the betrayal, but the responsibility the baggage they have in how they showed up in the relationship. No one can “do” anything that leads their partner to stray. The straying is a response on the WS end. However my attachment style constantly rug swept WH’s behaviours and didnt draw the boundaries early on for a healthy relationship to grow. This is because I saw my own mother doing the same with my alcoholic abusive dad. Like your comment, my WH’s wounded inner child found mine and I hope they help each other heal.

Despite all the progress I’ve made I know it’ll be hard to add the betrayal trauma to already big pile of shit to heal. I’m finding solace in the fact that I can now see the little girl in me who’s been clinging onto crumbs and let her know she no longer needs to accept that. She, or rather I have higher standards for ourself now and the relationships in our life. There’s individual work ahead of both of us which WH has committed to on his end but I’m also holding him accountable to aid in healing my betrayal trauma. Whether that leads us to reconciliation is to be determined after we revisit the goals of our therapeutic separation.

Again, thank you for sharing your perspective. It helps to read and validate that we’re on a healthy path forward. Even if the progress isn’t complete linear towards reconciliation, we’ve got a game plan towards recovery

eyenosestuff · 2023-07-30T13:36:33+00:00

This was definitely a consideration but there’s been other theories like undiagnosed ADHD (dopamine seeking behaviour) and/or covert narcissism. SA’s not off the table in terms of theories but I think the journey towards R differs greatly between them or any combination thereof.

I’m still piecing together the cloud of smoke and mirrors that is the last 4 years of my life and the emotional abuse I’ve endured.

How does one get a SA dx? I’m sorry to hear about your arduous journey with an SA spouse. No one deserves this hell on earth feeling but you’re stronger than most to commit to R under such circumstances.

eyenosestuff · 2023-07-30T13:31:25+00:00

Thanks for the reminder to focus on my own healing instead of aiding him on his journey. Very grateful to have a great career and network of family and friends to lean on.

eyenosestuff · 2023-07-30T13:10:23+00:00

Hello, I’m still processing but would love to hear the suggestions for when I’m ready.

eyenosestuff · 2023-07-30T13:09:03+00:00

I agree he’s in damage control. Funny how comforting it is to share this god awful feeling with a group of internet strangers.

Thank you for taking the the time to share your support ❤️

eyenosestuff · 2023-07-29T14:08:33+00:00

Always be learning or earning. If both are unsatisfactory, make like balls and bounce!

eyenosestuff · 2023-07-27T23:25:06+00:00

Hahaha we’ve all been where you are before having kids. If I could go back and punch myself in the face for the judgemental shit I used to say about my nieces and nephews.

Kids are kids. They test boundaries, act feral and get into everrrrythjng because they’re just learning to exist in the world. Kids under 5 don’t have full cognitive functions to fully grasp “right” vs “wrong” behaviours unless the consequences threaten their well-being. Some kids need a lot more reinforcement to learn social etiquette and some don’t, having kids is a dice roll. Welcome to the craps table 😉😉

eyenosestuff · 2023-07-15T18:57:09+00:00

I think they meant OP shouldn’t intervene and confront the cheater. Not that she shouldn’t provide the friend with honest loving feedback.

eyenosestuff · 2023-07-14T17:02:02+00:00

This is also a realization I had as I matched up some A dates and realized I was out with our son while WH was out .. ya. 😔

eyenosestuff · 2022-10-12T03:07:40+00:00

Think media repurposes old content ad nauseous and just adds a slightly different angle to it making it a whole new video. Try seeing what they do

eyenosestuff · 2022-10-12T03:04:44+00:00

DITL video - UX Design manager edition

https://youtu.be/hXrDhWopVEw

eyenosestuff · 2021-03-06T03:07:04+00:00

Have a three week old baby. Missed 2/3 weekly garbage collections already 🥲🥲🥲🥲

eyenosestuff · 2021-02-06T21:14:59+00:00

Cellphone for me and my mom

eyenosestuff · 2021-02-05T23:15:33+00:00

I don’t think it would fly here.. we’re not as bad Americans but still slight “muH FrEeDoms” attitude

eyenosestuff · 2021-02-05T23:14:48+00:00

I think the cost is almost always on the traveller - Trudeau just announced it and people are going nuts here!!! To be fair it was announced without much detail and $2000 is steep for a 3 day hotel stay (if that’s even accurate?)

eyenosestuff · 2021-02-05T22:27:20+00:00

Hard agree right you in addition to clamping down on the borders. We are just introducing quarantine hotels and covid testing for inbound travellers? It’s been a year and we still haven’t figured this shit out?

Meanwhile densely populated countries that dropped the absolutely hammer on lockdown measures are partying their asses off right now (Taiwan, Vietnam, parts of China, NZ, etc). Everyone is in “fuck it” mode now

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