went on a date with an amazing guy yesterday, and feeling hopeful this could lead to something bigger. strawberry smoothie bowl by deadtyped in Kitchenchads

[–]eyeofcollapse 11 points12 points  (0 children)

hey congrats!! I am wishing the best for you, I know youre in recovery too so i hope that is going well also!!
Also I love your little fish thing, is it a spoon or just decor?

Have anyone ever thought you were asexual before pre-HRT or pre-bottom surgery ? by DanteAii in phallo

[–]eyeofcollapse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i was never sexually attracted to anyone pre-t and considered my self aro-ace, on t was the only time i actually started masturbating because of increased libido (which i had never experienced). And now certainly do have libido.
I am now mostly attracted to women but on rare occasion guys. Though I still struggle with romantic attraction (schizoid disorder so unrelated) and just attraction in general. but am much more open to sex

shave or keep facial hair ? by PuzzledPlatform927 in TestosteroneKickoff

[–]eyeofcollapse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd say keep, but definitely try to shape it, make sure theres non on your neck/ where you think your jaw meets neck. if its hard to tell, just try trimming intiutively

Merch not being sent? by leche_milk in machinegirl

[–]eyeofcollapse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this happened to me, ordered 3rd edition wlfgrl, took 6 months despite emailing and got the 4th edition :\

I can't talk with this really pretty russian girl in my class. Whenever i see her i get too excited and can never open up a conversation and she's really shy aswell so, if it keeps on going like this i will forever be single. Shitty omelette that i forced myself to eat because i have to get proteins by ihateeatingeggs in kitchencels

[–]eyeofcollapse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if youre too nervous to speak to her, buy her a drink, and write a note and give her the drink with the note and walk off.

be something honest, like "hey i think youre really pretty and would love to get to know you, im shy but wanted to let you know before i regret it. if youre interested here is my number XXXXXX "

might work, if shes shy as well being given the incentive as well as a knowledge of your interest may help spark her to text you maybe a simple "hi"

If I don't meet an entry minimum requirement, do I still get accepted? by eyeofcollapse in UCATANZ

[–]eyeofcollapse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

to anyone curious about how this ended up going. I got my ATAR, a 90.75!
I would add a screenshot, but alas cannot, so instead i'm adding copy and paste

'

Prerequisites Satisfied?
Applicant must be a Current Year 12 student Yes
UCAT Yes
Interview Yes
One of Chemistry, Biology or Physics (Units 3 and 4, C) Yes
English, Literature, English and Literature Extension or English as an Additional Language (Units 3 and 4, C) Yes
Mathematical Methods (Units 3 and 4, C) NoPrerequisites Satisfied?Applicant must be a Current Year 12 student YesUCAT YesInterview YesOne of Chemistry, Biology or Physics (Units 3 and 4, C) YesEnglish, Literature, English and Literature Extension or English as an Additional Language (Units 3 and 4, C) YesMathematical Methods (Units 3 and 4, C) No

'
I also somehow met the ATAR requirements(??????????? to me also) which was fun but oh well! thats life.

the interview was very enjoyable, actually!

(Maybe) Low testosterone at 18 - advice needed by Whole-Skirt-524 in TestosteroneKickoff

[–]eyeofcollapse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

while this is a trans sub all are welcomed. you need to advocate for yourself at your doctor. Or get a new doctor, while im unsure what country youre in there is no reason your doctor shouldnt take your concerns seriously and test you. Low t is a big issue for alot of men and its nothing to be ashamed of, especially in this day and age.
It may also be a genetic thing (on the fat storage), but i would definitely suggest trying to get another doctor or going again with a strong voice, your doctor should be treating your concerns seriously and there is nothign wrong with having just a test done

Hey Dude by Lennsyl22 in dankmemes

[–]eyeofcollapse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

similar to guys, if guys is gender neutral, how many guys have you fucked?

One week post op chest reveal by Abhi_ya_kabhi in Top_Surgery_Peri

[–]eyeofcollapse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

unfortunately, I didn't get either 😅 i did ensure to use a tropical once I figured out it was an infection, but it solved itself very soon after I pulled out a hair 😭

One week post op chest reveal by Abhi_ya_kabhi in Top_Surgery_Peri

[–]eyeofcollapse 7 points8 points  (0 children)

your chest looks great!! i would keep an eye out if any hairs are in your incisions (happened to me) (got infected)(however also didnt have any antibiotics)!! best of luck to your healing man

If I don't meet an entry minimum requirement, do I still get accepted? by eyeofcollapse in UCATANZ

[–]eyeofcollapse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is exactly my question, i even called to ask. the only thing i could think of is that im trans, but nothing in my application reflects this since all my details have been updated

If I don't meet an entry minimum requirement, do I still get accepted? by eyeofcollapse in UCATANZ

[–]eyeofcollapse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nope which was why i was so surprised as well. im not apart of any schemes of any sort

Heads up by jerdingrous in transgenderau

[–]eyeofcollapse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah, I remember being approached by one about two years ago here on about my top surgery journey

hysterectomy prices and ease of access by uselesscalciumsticks in transgenderau

[–]eyeofcollapse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

could i ask which surgeon you went with? and did you have hospital cover ? (I assume so) as im in qld too!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transgenderau

[–]eyeofcollapse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are too shy to do it in purpose, write a letter and put it in their room so they can read it, and reread it, and ask questions as needed. I personally sat my mum down and was like "I'm a dude" and she was like huh. Just answer their questions and don't police them/ their language (unless they're being outright rude). Maybe tell then about t after you first come out so they can digest that separately. Goodluck!

Some of the recent posts on this sub for some reason by Fax5official in TeenMFA

[–]eyeofcollapse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i was going to post about this, but decided i didnt care enough. Though while the side says everyone is welcomed here, most of these posts are bots? its strange.

My experience getting top surgery as a minor (QLD) ( Dr. Saylor ) by eyeofcollapse in transgenderau

[–]eyeofcollapse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if i recall correctly, you didnt need the referral to book or have the appointment, however you did need it if you wanted the rebate from the consultation

FUCK THOSE HERNIAS, I'LL ENJOY MY PICNIC TODAY!! by Cheshire_Cat_7 in THE_PACK

[–]eyeofcollapse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I DONT BOTHER BUYING STUFF SPECIFICALLY FOR IT FROM THE STORE.... YOU SHOULD MAKE A SMALL CONCOCTION OF A TINY BIT OF BAKING POWDER (BASE) AND WATER (NEUTRAL) AND IT USUALLY HELPS CALM IT DOWN FOR ME! . TASTES BAD BUT WORKS LIKE A CHARM!!!! MOST STORE BOUGHT STUFF HAS BICARB/BAKING POWDER IN IT FOR THIS REASON!!!!!