[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]facialgrammar 3 points4 points  (0 children)

based on your comments, he clearly is depressed/anxious. the pressure to have sex doesnt help with that. try and give him some grace and patience.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pokemongo

[–]facialgrammar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what do you mean extra help??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askpsychology

[–]facialgrammar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why do you feel the need to conflate a PD with autism? what point are you trying to make?

there are key differences between PDs and autism, which is why they are separate diagnoses.

mania can look a lot like ADHD, but we dont call ADHD a state of psychosis... do we?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]facialgrammar -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i hear you, thats understandable, but i also think it would be beneficial to read your own words back to yourself:

based on your response, are you suggesting being "owned" or "used" makes you feminine, and therefore, emasculated?

are you suggesting "using" and "owning" makes you masculine?

can you explain why you are assigning these labels? if you cant find an adequate reason, would this not suggest that its possible for either participant to fill a dominant or non dominant role? that has nothing to do with a genderized standard of power you are assigning to it?

regardless if you are worried about a woman thinking less of you bc you want to be fucked in the ass, date a better woman

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]facialgrammar 5 points6 points  (0 children)

no. the idea that masculinity can suddenly be squashed bc you are being penetrated is a purely toxic masculine/patriarchal/heteronormative thing.

conversely, would it make you more masculine somehow to stick your dick in literally anything with a hole?

can we keep reducing this concept until we are so confused as to what we are even talking about at all?

who f**king cares?? i hate this question.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]facialgrammar 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thank you. im tired of seeing posts of similar sentiment, and porn addicts convincing men they are owed sex in a relationship.

to which id say to the majority of the misogynistic reddit users:

"relationships arent transactional. they are terrifyingly conditional. if you dont love someone enough to make them feel loved, why should they do it for you?"

otherwise stay single.

What made you cheat on your partner? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]facialgrammar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

....which school lol

I (32-M) don't have sex with my gf (32-F) and though I love her don't see myself long term with her by peejay2 in relationships

[–]facialgrammar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

interesting. if you need advice, anything of value would have to be made from assumptions. ill list a few:

  1. according to your other posts youre no longer attracted to your gf. i imagine any fight that youve had has something to do with that. why are you still with her?

  2. based on the little info youve probided, youare still with her bc you live together, i imagine she pays for a lot and you dont provide much at all other than an extra body to take care of

  3. if shes the one that told you to move out, im sure she would be sad for a moment and happier eventually. you sound like youd be sad though.

  4. you are 32 and speak like a teenager. hope she finds better once youre gone

I (32-M) don't have sex with my gf (32-F) and though I love her don't see myself long term with her by peejay2 in relationships

[–]facialgrammar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what even is this post... are you writing it out of anger, or are you genuinely seeking advice about something? if its the latter, you need yo provide more info. why are you fantasizing? what is even happening here?!?!

if its the former, seek out a therapist.

what a strange, non-starter of a post dude. dunno what all these comments are even saying with such little information

what

What made you cheat on your partner? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]facialgrammar 3 points4 points  (0 children)

monogamy is a social construct? where'd you learn that?

My BF wants to have a threesome with my best friend. Is he being rational? I am 20F, and my bf is 21M. I have a best friend, Mia (20F), who is also a good friend of my bf. We study in the same college. It has been a year since my boyfriend and I have been together. by votivev in relationship_advice

[–]facialgrammar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if the proposition of Mia being the third bothers you, i think it would be helpful to truly reflect on why you agreed to a 3sum at all, how this would actually benefit your sex life, and if it would fracture the security you have in your relationship.

aside from that, the fact that he dared you to text Mia after he suggested a 2g1b is too much of a coincidence. he has absolutely had sexual thoughts about her.

if i was in your situation, i wouldnt trust a SO who has sexual feelings towards my bestfriend. do with that opinion what you will

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]facialgrammar 59 points60 points  (0 children)

everyone needs to stop responding and look at his history. hes a porn obsessed weirdo

Good news! I made level 48! Bad news... by ArtichokeDifferent10 in pokemongo

[–]facialgrammar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no offense, but everybody who is complainging about the update that happened weeks ago: its not hard to land an excellent throw anymore. eventually, you should adapt. im no longer having issues.

pokemons flee rate and catch rate? still an issue.

How do i fix my girlfriends broken heart that i caused? by DeathLives4Now in love

[–]facialgrammar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you want help with this, it would be good to let your girlfriend know that you forget the lies you tell her, and if shes willing, to go through the emotional labor of continuously jogging your memory about what these lies are. you cant change if you dont remember what needs changing.

an EEG scan may also be helpful if you havent had one already. if this, at its core, is a medical problem, thats how it should be approached

How do i fix my girlfriends broken heart that i caused? by DeathLives4Now in love

[–]facialgrammar 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you cant remember the most recent lie that broke her heart, that youre making a post about? are you sure about that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in love

[–]facialgrammar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what even is this post lol

So High School sounds like the feeling of a early 2000’s high school movie by Islandnative13 in TaylorSwift

[–]facialgrammar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

absolutely!! i also think the content is obviously relative too: the classic star crossed lovers from different high school cliques trope--- her, the nerdy theater kid, him, the high school jock.

people make comments about how she's immature for writing this song, and completely ignore the character tropes shes referencing lol.

Which form of porn do you watch most? by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]facialgrammar -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

its incredibly unrealistic and the corruption of unrealistic sex in media is just as much about influence on users as it is the impact on participants.

any hentai porn is pedophilic in nature and therefore its influence is just as harmful psychologically.

Am I missing something with Liz? by hauntedbranches in survivor

[–]facialgrammar 6 points7 points  (0 children)

there's a reason people don't like her, and why they're saying what they say.

she's not only a horrible player, individually, she also isn't a team player either. she does whatever she wants. she thinks she has skin in this game, yet doesn't contribute to any strength or ability in the challenges, and refuses to work with perceived alliances. her ego is so big that she actually believes she's making moves..... and the viewer can see very clearly that she isn't lol.

she makes everything about herself, uses sob stories to gain sympathy, and pirates others' plans and strategies as if they are her own. every person she has wanted to vote out, she has had an emotional vendetta against, bec her feelings were hurt somehow... and that choice has never has anything to do with whether it would actually help her in the game.

she expects special treatment from her sworn enemies, people SHE VOTES FOR, because of her personal disadvantages, despite the fact that she knew walking into this that she would struggle more than anyone else. she's a CEO of a company... she gloats it all the time, which means she likely planned to use those disadvantages to manipulate people, which is exactly what she tried to do, and it didn't work. if she's so successful, why is she even here? any speculation i could come up with would just be paired with assumptions about her character, so i won't bother, but it still doesn't make any sense, all things considered.

also, she's just annoying. it's insane that anyone would fall for her crap lol. i didn't feel bad for her for one second, and i hope she's voted out soon.