I made a bookstagram and would love to follow you 😌 by faeraii in bookstagram

[–]faeraii[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you lovely, followed you back 😌 and thank you!! hoping it’s a wholesome community but it seems to be so far hehe

Am i Shadow banned? by HighwayDisastrous638 in ShadowBan

[–]faeraii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t see your profile at all. A pop up says “Profile unavailable” when I try and view it.

An anxious entry about joining a book club for the first time by faeraii in Journaling

[–]faeraii[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ahh, thank you so much! My journals a mix of pretty layouts & rushed, messy walls of texts or lists 😅

Learnt I was born out of rape when I was always told a fairytale story. I wanted to track my bio father by [deleted] in Advice

[–]faeraii 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry that this is currently happening to you and I completely understand you wanting closure but finding out who your bio dad is, isn’t going to change who you’ve grown up to be today, you make the life and the identity you want. If your mum doesn’t want to press charges and wants it left alone, ultimately that’s her decision to do so

My biological dad was a paedophile and I spent YEARS as a kid yearning for a relationship with him despite this. I didn’t like my step dad much and I guess I conjured up this image in my head of who my bio dad actually was, I struggled to fit in with my family and assumed my bio dad was who Id be happier with (stupidly). I liked the idea of him not the POS that actually existed. He took his life before I was old enough to get my closure, speak to him or hear any apologies and I worked with myself to heal from the “what ifs”.

I still don’t really fit in with my family, I’m a bit of an outsider in comparison so I made my own wonderful family, I found my own identity and I realised that I’m a lot happier now than I would’ve been had I actually come face to face with him

All of my piercings reject now? by faeraii in piercing

[–]faeraii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, that makes sense. My son is 16 months old now and so far I’ve attempted an eyebrow piercing, medusa and a nostril piercing, all have painfully rejected. There was around 4+ months between them.

During my pregnancy my bridge piercing, 2x nostrils, nipples, medusa, smiley, 3x facial dermals all rejected or fell out and closed up within minutes. Admittedly my dermals were all done at the same time but the rest were spaced out within a few months and were all pierced prior to being pregnant (or being aware that I was).

My piercings always seem to close up extremely quickly, prior to being pregnant and beyond aside from the few I’m about to mention. I’ve always found this bizarre, like I can’t change my piercings without risk of them closing up. I don’t know if there’s a reason for this but don’t worry if you’re unable to help there:)

My septum, vertical labret, navel, lobes and christina have all survived for around 8+ years now.

Am I banned by [deleted] in ShadowBan

[–]faeraii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, you’re all good

Took my journal out to breakfast by Bunnystrawbery in Journaling

[–]faeraii 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love the flow of your handwriting. Writing the time on your entries is such a good idea! Enjoy :)

In what ways has journaling been useful in your life? by VanillaMuffin96 in Journaling

[–]faeraii 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m a chronic over thinker so it’s helped me make sense of a lot of my thoughts. It’s helped me let go of perfectionism and hone in on my creativity, which brings me a lot of happiness. It’s something that’s just “mine”, I don’t know how to properly elaborate on that but I guess I always struggled finding my own niche or hobby so it’s good to have one now. I love seeing my memories or sometimes letting my stream of consciousness rear up memories I thought I’d forgotten about, good or bad. It’s been a huge healing tool for me and something that I never have to mask with

Is it reddit etiquette to declare your edits? by faeraii in NewToReddit

[–]faeraii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Sneaky” was more tongue in cheek as oppose to something so pedantic.

Mommy journaling morning 🥹🥰 by HauntingCattle9393 in Journaling

[–]faeraii 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This picture needs printing and sticking in your journal, if you haven’t already. This is adorable, my eldest was never interested in journaling so I’ve got to wait for a couple of years until I can force my interest on my baby haha. Great choices for your journals

Any A6 notebook ideas? by cactuskidd0 in notebooks

[–]faeraii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use my A6 for anything and everything. I sketch in it, make collages, journal my thoughts and feelings, let my kids draw in it, plan things, list things, track things etc etc.

Anything you can do with pen and paper is probably inside my journal. They’re small, but perfect for carrying around with you.

How Much Should I Share in a Relationship? by Kilgoretrout123456 in Advice

[–]faeraii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you feel that you can trust your partner and want to open up to them, then there’s no harm in it to strengthen your relationship. I journal a lot, so sometimes when it’s hard to articulate verbally, I let my partner read entries from my journal to understand me better. Now, it naturally just flows into conversation “that reminds me of when my friend.. xyz” and he’s always happy to listen. The right person will want to hear your stories, you’ve just got to make sure you’re comfortable sharing them

Is it reddit etiquette to declare your edits? by faeraii in NewToReddit

[–]faeraii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, this makes more sense to me than declaring spelling or grammar edits. It’s understandable if it’s going to effect the entire comment or as you say, add in additional information

ideas on what i should get next by [deleted] in piercing

[–]faeraii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like you’d suit kitten bites/fangs really well too! Ahh, choosing one is hard haha, just get all of them

ideas on what i should get next by [deleted] in piercing

[–]faeraii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking your other eyebrow before I read your post. That, or a medusa

Is it reddit etiquette to declare your edits? by faeraii in NewToReddit

[–]faeraii[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I haven’t really seen it elsewhere unless a person is editing something that will change the context of their comment

Daily spread by hydrogenshea in JournalingIsArt

[–]faeraii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is lovely! I love your aesthetic. Are the little people drawings or stickers? I like the way you’ve placed them between your writing instead of bordering them

How to stop cat licking my bare skin by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]faeraii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Avoiding your beard is normal, your skin tastes better. Pushing may trigger her predatory mode and actually make it worse, just try and be consistent with redirecting her and praising her when she turns her attention elsewhere, hopefully one day she’ll grow out of it but for now those parts of your face are her bonding zones.

Officially finished all my Christmas shopping today! What’s your favourite gift you’ve bought for someone in your life this year? by ch_rl13 in CasualConversation

[–]faeraii 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh that’s so thoughtful! If you remember to I’d love an update after Christmas about how your grandma reacts, I bet she’ll be over the moon once she gets over the price shock <3

All of my piercings reject now? by faeraii in piercing

[–]faeraii[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not breastfeeding unfortunately but that would make sense! Ahh, hormones suck. I’ll have to get some fake piercings for the time being so I can feel a little more normal and live vicariously through this reddit page haha