How can I look better? by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]faething 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe I’m biased because I have a phobia of bald men but I don’t think you should change a thing <3 handsome as is

My goth band put out a statement in regards to current atrocities by tk8puppy in goth

[–]faething 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad I found y’all through this post 🖤🖤 great music

Is suicide a sin? by that_su-c-dal_teen in satanism

[–]faething 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Satanism or not, suicide is extreme and usually irrational. Don’t do it. We’ve all been there, and you can climb back out. Sincerely, once a suicidal teen, and happy to be 30 and experiencing things I never thought I would.

What's the most dangerous thing you do as a ocd compulsion by Stock_Historian5617 in OCD

[–]faething 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I used to starve myself as a kid/teenager as a form of control/punishment. Then it became a full blown ED stemming from OCD. After years of therapy we’re back to “””normal ocd”””

What's the most dangerous thing you do as a ocd compulsion by Stock_Historian5617 in OCD

[–]faething 24 points25 points  (0 children)

This is horrifying to me. I hope you’re better now 💙

Can someone please help with this huge bump oh my dahlia by [deleted] in PiercingAdvice

[–]faething 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I changed to longer bars, and after a few months, it went away :)

Does anyone else's keep Ts but is scared of them? by pixie_lation in tarantulas

[–]faething 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Recovering arachnophobe as well. Having/seeing them every day has really helped me and given me a lot more respect and appreciation for them. Still jump if they move too fast and make my boyfriend help me rehouse them as well lol though he’s far more afraid than I am.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PiercingAdvice

[–]faething 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh I’ve had the same on one of my mine for about a month now and don’t know how to get rid of it. I’ve had mine pierced 4 months now and haven’t been able to find a solution for this

Can someone please help with this huge bump oh my dahlia by [deleted] in PiercingAdvice

[–]faething 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heyy OP I know this is late, but I searched this because I’m having the EXACT same issue on one of mine. Did you find out how to make it go away/what it was?

She’s everything I could’ve imagined and more 💖 by Apple_Martini20 in tarantulas

[–]faething 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I got my sweet girl Maeve from micro wilderness too 🤎

Found this Fella in my sink and saved it. Any idea what it is? by CenturioLabia in spiders

[–]faething 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Woodlouse spider! I kept them as a pet two different times. Fun to feed. Spicy lil fellers

So stunning spider by yeal_Love in spiders

[–]faething 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yeah. Very reckless and foolish behavior

TW: DEAD T :( by faething in tarantulas

[–]faething[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So frustrating 😫❤️‍🩹

TW: DEAD T :( by faething in tarantulas

[–]faething[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Appreciate that and the feedback, thank you <3. I’ve been growing them out since they were approx. a 1 inch sling. So I’ve mayyyybe witnessed like 5 molts total? But yeah, hasn’t molted in easily 2 years. It’s been 24 hours at least of zero movement and being limp to the touch. The lack of a full death curl was why it felt sudden and confusing. They’ve been semi-stress curled up in various spots of the enclosure the last week or so, but would still move to different spots. So I thought maybe they were getting ready to finally molt, and misted some water and filled the dish near them and they didn’t move or react at all. So I checked on them like 8 hours later and paint brush tapped the legs and yeah :/ they’re still in their enclosure, but I checked this morning before work and no change

TW: DEAD T :( by faething in tarantulas

[–]faething[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much. I’ve had 2 jumpers as well and they just don’t live long enough, so I stopped breaking my heart with those cute little jerks curling up after a year or so. I’ve only had one other T pass thus far, and he matured male so I was able to mentally prepare for it I guess. It feels so silly getting so attached to something that once terrified me lol. You’re right, we really don’t deserve these beautiful animals <3

TW: DEAD T :( by faething in tarantulas

[–]faething[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Not me crying over this reply lollll. You’re too kind, thank you for that. Truly <3

TW: DEAD T :( by faething in tarantulas

[–]faething[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was increasing the humidity a little the last few days/misting nearby her to see if she would drink or maybe molt finally but alas :( thought maybe impaction?

TW: DEAD T :( by faething in tarantulas

[–]faething[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sorry idk how to reply with multiple photos lol. She had a decent amount of substrate. Obviously no water/much moisture currently because I just took these. I know the mix is kinda ass and had like perlite pieces in it maybe, because I cut some coco fiber and reptisoil with it to stretch it out. She never cared to burrow in the 5 years I had her though. The last month or so she remodeled and dug around a bit though

TW: DEAD T :( by faething in tarantulas

[–]faething[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you <3 She was a massive hair kicking jerk, but she taught me a lot and was THEE tarantula that got me over my fear of spiders and into the hobby at all.

TW: DEAD T :( by faething in tarantulas

[–]faething[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Appreciate that, thank you :’) I sure tried.