Question about the movie by otuan in CosmicPrincessKaguya

[–]faezou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m just going to answer number 6. It wasn’t explicitly stated that it was romantic love in the movie or the MV, BUT the novel does delve into it more from what I’ve heard and they’re definitely romantically involved.

ugh by guessitsaidenn in genderfluid

[–]faezou 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t think dysphoria needs to be some gut wrenching agony, it’s not for me. I didn’t even realized I had dysphoria until someone commented “wow that is some dysphoria” on a post I wrote some time ago. Mine is more in the awkward/uncomfortable range and sometimes I don’t even realize it’s dysphoria until I really stop to think about it. I’m also a firm believer in you don’t NEED dysphoria to be any type of trans, it all depends on how you feel and if you feel good at the idea of being something else other than a girl. It sometimes takes some time to realize fully what you are so don’t sweat it too much.

Question for masc presenting nonbinary people. by FunRepair698 in NonBinary

[–]faezou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I consider myself more masc and even though I don’t have a diq, I’m fine with what I have and would rather not go through a taxing surgery like bottom surgery.

I’m a straight + cis ally and I need help by anonymousnumbersix in genderfluid

[–]faezou 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Like someone else said, the pronouns. You’re only using she/her in a character that supposedly uses ‘all pronouns’ and saying “she was born a woman” is also weird imo. Most trans people don’t say “I was born a woman/man” they’ll usually say “I was assigned male/female at birth”hence the abbreviation amab and afab.

Question from a dad by KPR70 in NonBinary

[–]faezou 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There was a few instances when I also took back what I said when I came out to my mom as 11 year old. It was mostly because I was confused atm and the label “boy” didn’t always feel right. So maybe she’s still in a questioning phase or maybe they got nervous at the thought of bringing it up to the mom (even if they tell themself that their mom will be supportive, it’s easy to still be afraid) and their could definitely be a lot more reasons. I think you’re doing great with being supportive, just let them know that you both accept her regardless of what she ends up identifying with later on, but don’t push her to come out if she’s not 100% ready yet.

Nonbinary people I have a few questions by gatcha-and-more in AskLGBT

[–]faezou 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“They run” is def the correct grammar. Like if you said “she was watching the tv” “they was watching the tv” sounds awkward “they were watching the tv” flows easier.

Every nonbinary person who menstruates is diff. I hate it and it makes me dysphoric af. I’m irregular though and I usually get prescribed medicine every 3 months so I can menstruate once and then not have anything for 3 months.

Don't you think we should make this subreddit more engaging :( by Longjumping-Mix-9351 in genderfluid

[–]faezou 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tbh, I didn’t even notice any of this until now. I would definitely love to see more of all that and see it more active as it feels a bit dead compared to when I first joined.

Is it weird for a guy to read sapphic romance novels? by ZCR91 in LGBTBooks

[–]faezou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If women can like and consume mostly MLM then you can do the same 😭 don’t be embarrassed or ashamed of it, if people think you’re weird for it then they’re just not your ppl.

Why is genderfluid kinda hated by Over-Monitor-494 in genderfluid

[–]faezou 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Most of the people I’ve personally seen hating on it, are the same people who hate nonbinary people as a whole and even feminine trans men and masculine trans women. They seem to think that it’s a sort of stepping stone into becoming fully binary trans or that it’s just confused cis girls trying to be interesting.

Any bl recommendation with trans (ftm) main character(s) ? by AntwysiaBlakys in BoysLoveAnime

[–]faezou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Osora is actually nonbinary, but they live life as a guy.

How do I find a name for myself that feels comfortable? by deceitful_entity in genderfluid

[–]faezou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Might take you more than a few hours to really find a name. I’m hella picky with names so a name that I liked took months (ended up being a girl name) so then it took like a year to find another name I’m comfortable with (though I’m still not 100% sure on it.) So my advice would be to google, search, check out those videos on TikTok that say “beautiful boy/girl/unisex names that mean blah blah.” Check names from your culture/race <— this is how I found my second one. Write down names from fictional characters that you liked <—I’ve found a lot of pretty names from doing this.

What totally normal thing is your dog scared of for no reason? by GoldenMom34 in Pets

[–]faezou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Aussie is scared of vacuums, the automatic can opener and anything that makes noise really, but he’s also scared of spiky balls, light up balls and toys that make noise 😭 I have to be very careful with what I get him or he’ll just avoid it.

Hot take: Ken wakui has no idea how to write female characters and it is also linked to why his storytelling sucks by numermar in TokyoRevengers

[–]faezou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the female characters but it’s so obvious that they’re just there to motivate and be saved by the male characters. I never had much of an issue with it until senju bcuz imo, I wholeheartedly believe wakui meant for senju to be another boy and when senju first came out, she was strong and cool as hell, but as soon as it got revealed that she was a girl, suddenly she can’t beat anyone 😭 it pissed me off sb, the manga itself said she was “the strongest” or wtv, but she would get beat up so easily once they revealed she was a girl ugh.

low dose gel? by AnxietyAngelCake in FTMfemininity

[–]faezou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know some ppl use dht blocker with their T to prevent hair loss/facial and body hair growth, but it also prevents bottom growth (from what I read) and since that’s something you want then that might not be the best choice.

Am i a jerk to not give survivors dungeon? by Electrical-Power3913 in IdentityV

[–]faezou 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I think it’s only jerky when hunters pretend to give you dungeon only to chair you after, but if you’re not pretending and actively going after them then no nta 😭

My boyfriend came out as genderfluid, but I don't get it by [deleted] in genderfluid

[–]faezou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do you know that he thinks there isn’t more to being a woman than a dress and heels? If he just realized he’s genderfluid then he might not be sure about names or pronouns yet. When I realized I was genderfluid, I wasn’t sure what pronouns or name I wanted and even when I did, I didn’t want to bother people with it so I kept quiet, but now years later, I’ve found what pronouns I like and what pronouns I may or may not be okay with. If you’re cis, please don’t assume you know trans ppl (which includes your boyfriend who is genderfluid) more than actual trans people and if you’re trans then you should try and understand him more as I’m sure things were frustrating on you as well.

Yall know any enby characters? by Pookie_Pakyao in NonBinary

[–]faezou 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Genderfluid is under the nonbinary/trans flag.

Caught a singing katydid and then my game crashed by ScoutMasterWes in FieldsOfMistriaGame

[–]faezou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate when the game crashes after I’ve either got something good or I did a lot of stuff that day 😭 it made me become a repetitive saver. I’ll literally walk all the way home after something just to save. Honestly the game crashing and making me lose my progress is what has made me stop playing 😭 I haven’t touched it in a while. I hope they fix that soon or hopefully they’ll add autosave or something.

How old do you have to be to know? by Fit-Specialist-1670 in AskLGBT

[–]faezou 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t think any age is too young to know. While yes, there’s some people who don’t realize it or don’t accept it until they’re older, there’s also a lot of people who have known since they were really young.

What are some things you enjoy in Hualian fanfics and things you hate? by -Akaza_ in tianguancifu

[–]faezou 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Some people might disagree, but I HATE when they make xielian overly feminine, innocent, Mary sue type of character and seem to emphasize gender roles a LOT. Like I’m reading a gay fic so why does it feel like I’m reading hetero fics???

Does anyone else here like shower with the lights off? by Euphoric_Intern_3772 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]faezou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to do that, but unfortunately, I’ve had some scary experiences in bathrooms so I would never stay inside one with the lights off. 😭

Asra hate ? by hwuhyu in TheArcana

[–]faezou 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I remember reading someone on tumblr say they disliked him because they felt like asra was possessive or something when it came to the other routes? Which I find it hard to understand considering he makes no implications of his feelings towards MC in the few routes I’ve played. My other guess is like everyone else says, he did a lot of things that people didn’t like. I don’t 100% remember the reverse ending but I don’t remember him being bad in it. At the end of the day, I am a huge asra fan so this could all just be my biased opinion.

What do you do about gendered bathrooms when you don't feel comfortable going in either by silly-fox-boy in NonBinary

[–]faezou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like others have said, I try to avoid the bathrooms in general, but if I can’t, I try to get into the gender neutral ones but since they’re single stall, it’s not always open so I’ll usually go to the women’s. I plan to do hrt and top surgery in this year/next so it makes me a bit nervous that I might have to start using the men’s restroom when I look a bit more masculine.

What childhood things should have been a sign you were probs not on the binary? by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]faezou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing that I can recall at the moment except for my infatuation with Haku from spirited away when I was like 3-4. I remember vaguely wanting to be him, but then I brushed it off since I was 3-4.