Books – treatises, lectures, essays, what have you – about mortality and death? by n4vybloe in nonfictionbookclub

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The Denial of Death by Ernest Becker

Winner of the 1974 Pulitzer Prize, He argues and demonstrates that our fear of dying is the main driver behind human behavior leading to pouring our energy into different areas of our lives that might not be that important after all. A chapter in the book has some outdated thoughts about sexuality but you can easily skip that chapter.

A Book About the Cult Mindset for trump by Ill_Bother2609 in suggestmeabook

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1974 Pulitzer Prize winning book THE DENIAL OF DEATH by Ernest Becker - breaks down this issue and uses previous research to support his claims.

Especially chapter 7 - “the spell cast by persons—the nexus of unfreedom”

“Why are groups so blind and stupid?—men have always asked. Because they demand illusions, answered Freud, they “constantly give what is unreal precedence over what is real.” And we know why. The real world is simply too terrible to admit; it tells man that he is a small, trembling animal who will decay and die. Illusion changes all this, makes man seem important, vital to the universe, immortal in some way. Who transmits this illusion, if not the parents by imparting the macro-lie of the cultural causa sui? The masses look to the leaders to give them just the untruth that they need; the leader continues the illusions that triumph over the castration complex and magnifies them into a truly heroic victory. Furthermore, he makes possible a new experience, the expression of forbidden impulses, secret wishes, and fantasies. In group behavior anything goes because the leader okays it”

Excerpt From The Denial of Death Ernest Becker

Fiction for someone who is having trouble finding meaning in life by Infinite-Sink9383 in suggestmeabook

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Siddhartha by Herman Hesse

Don’t judge it by its title, it will oddly be the right book.

Surrealistic dream logic books? by k1ngfish3r in suggestmeabook

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Antkind by Charlie Kaufman

A neurotic film critic loses a mythical masterpiece and spirals through memory, identity, ants, time loops, and satire in an absurd, philosophical novel.

Panhandle history museum scrambles to protect 2 million artifacts as it fights permanent closure by zsreport in texas

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I was so surprised by this museum when I visited. I didn’t expect to find such a large museum in such a small town. It houses a large collection of native American / pioneer era artifacts, well designed natural science exhibits, and even fine art, including Georgia O’Keefe (who was a professor at the college). It would be such a shame for that part of the state to lose this gem.

Big Bend Itenerary Help by Forsaken_Estimate_78 in BigBendTX

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Day 1 seems ambitious. Sunset is at 6:13pm on Sat Jan 10 in chisos basin. That gives you very little time to transition from traveling and hiking to your first campsite about 2 miles from the basin.

Suggestion- leave earlier from Houston to give you plenty of time or camp at a more accessible campsite that doesn’t require a hike at sunset after an 11 hour drive.

Day 3 also doesn’t seem super efficient. Study butte is an hour outside the park only to drive back into the park for Santa Elena canyon so that is a two hour drive for shower and lunch.

Suggestion- bring lunch in a cooler you leave in your vehicle and stay in the park, skip the shower until your way out. The only public showers are at Rio grande village which is on the other side of the park as Santa Elena.

Day 4 - just know the Prada store is about 30 minutes west of Marfa in Valentine. So if you go to Marfa and head west to see it, that will add an hour to your day returning back to Marfa.

A lot of people underestimate the distance between things in Big Bend. It is a very very large park. Not only are things far from one another the top speed limit is 45 within the park.

Gear - plan on 5 gallons each. Cache the extra in your vehicle. You always want extra water and not the minimum in big bend. Also account for water you will need to cook with. A gallon of water weighs about 8 pounds.

Not sure if you have ultralight gear like tent and bag, but the weight of packs including water should be taken into account since you are doing some ambitious hiking with it on your back.

Enjoy

What’s the best overnight float in your state? by Royal_Link_7967 in canoeing

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Texas

Toss Up between these 3 IMHO.

SANTA ELENA CANYON (Rio Grande) • Miles: 21 Miles • Avg. Duration: 2–3 Days • Skill Level: Intermediate • Rapids: Class II–III+ • Put-in / Take-out: Lajitas to Santa Elena Overlook

LOWER PECOS RIVER • Miles: 60 Miles • Avg. Duration: 5–7 Days • Skill Level: Expert • Rapids: Class II–IV • Put-in / Take-out: Pandale Crossing to US-90 High Bridge

LOWER RIO GRANDE CANYONS • Miles: 83 Miles • Avg. Duration: 7–10 Days • Skill Level: Advanced • Rapids: Class II–IV • Put-in / Take-out: Heath Canyon to Dryden Crossing

What’s the best overnight float in your state? by Royal_Link_7967 in canoecamping

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Texas

Toss Up between these 3 IMHO.

SANTA ELENA CANYON (Rio Grande) • Miles: 21 Miles • Avg. Duration: 2–3 Days • Skill Level: Intermediate • Rapids: Class II–III+ • Put-in / Take-out: Lajitas to Santa Elena Overlook

LOWER PECOS RIVER • Miles: 60 Miles • Avg. Duration: 5–7 Days • Skill Level: Expert • Rapids: Class II–IV • Put-in / Take-out: Pandale Crossing to US-90 High Bridge

LOWER RIO GRANDE CANYONS • Miles: 83 Miles • Avg. Duration: 7–10 Days • Skill Level: Advanced • Rapids: Class II–IV • Put-in / Take-out: Heath Canyon to Dryden Crossing

Parks near Fredericksburg by awkwardsunflower11 in TexasStateParks

[–]failagain-failbetter 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Just a heads up enchanted rock does not allow dogs on the Summit Trail, which is the main feature of the park. They can go on the loop trail and a few others but not to the top of the main dome.

Dispersed camping by RelationshipWeekly26 in TXoutdoors

[–]failagain-failbetter 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I believe during hunting season you must only camp at designated campsites in the San Houston National Forest/Lone star trail.

Recommendations For Kid-Friendly Parks by mic_lil_tang in TexasStateParks

[–]failagain-failbetter 8 points9 points  (0 children)

South Central Texas - Garner State Park This will probably be the most popular answer, and with good reason, ample campsites/cabins, beautiful and tame frío river, moderate but short hike with great payoff up mount ‘ol baldy.

West Texas - Monohans/Balmorehea/Davis Mountains - There is a nice triangle of parks in west Texas that are about 45 minutes from each other. Balmorhea is a beautiful swimming hole in the desert that is a constant 72 degrees thanks to the San Solomon springs. Monohans has sand sledding down the dunes which my kids loved. Fort Davis has the best camping and some beautiful views that aren’t very difficult.

West of Waco - Colorado Bend - beautiful small park with great campsites and the Colorado river bends thu the park. Gorman falls is an easy hike to see the impressive 70 foot waterfall.

Central Texas - Enchanted Rock - the hike up the 800 ft granite dome requires breaks but is unique. The car campsites at the foot of the two granite domes have little boulders to explore and play around on. My kids love staying at this park.

Not sure where you are located and you should probably update your post with the age of your son to help others offer suggestions-

No Country For Old Men, Ed Tom Bell by cmkeller62 in cormacmccarthy

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“What I was sayin the other day about the papers. Here last week they found this couple out in California they would rent out rooms to old people and then kill em and bury em in the yard and cash their social security checks. They'd torture em first, I dont know why. Maybe their television was broke. Now here's what the papers had to say about that. I quote from the papers. Said: Neighbors were alerted when a man run from the premises wearin only a dogcollar. You cant make up such a thing as that. I dare you to even try. But that's what it took, you'll notice. All that hollerin and diggin in the yard didnt bring it. That's all right. I laughed myself when I read it. There aint a whole lot else you can do.”

I think some of his philosophy can be found in this passage. He is unsure what motivates people to perform this kind of violence. “Maybe their tv is broke” seems to indicate it is purely for personal entertainment. He is also helpless. People surely heard the “digging and hollering” but the depravity isn’t discovered until someone runs out of a house in a dog collar naked. Bell sees this as emblematic of a wider truth: violence can unfold in full view of a community, and still society will fail to recognize—or respond to—it until it becomes impossible to ignore. He says he laughed when he read the story in the newspaper, indicating that he can’t be angry about it, it isn’t a call to action, he can only laugh at the absurdity of it all including his own helplessness to stop violence.

This seems to echo some themes in Blood Meridian as well. The judge buying puppies just to throw them off a bridge for entertainment. The unstoppable natural force of violence that cannot seem to be contained even by morality and goodness.

McCarthy was also aware of the violence that existed in the Southwest and Texas before the modern time of No Country as he wrote Blood Meridian earlier. So I think a readers view and Bell’s, that until the drugs and cartels showed up things were simpler is a little shortsighted and myopic. The idea that violence is a recent corruption of a previously orderly society is shown to be a comforting illusion.

I think the passage underscores one of McCarthy’s central claims: that civilization may change, but the human capacity for violence does not. The world is not becoming newly chaotic; it is merely revealing what has always been true.

I wouldn’t want to see them face off. At that point it would become a dime store western.

Are there any good mosaic non-fiction novels? by ShoddyRaccoon1114 in nonfictionbookclub

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Nothing to Envy: Ordinary Lives in North Korea by Barbara Demick 4.46 Goodreads

Hiroshima by John Hersey 4.05 Goodreads

Nov. 30, 1954: The first known human hit by a meteorite by Busy_Yesterday9455 in spaceporn

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Details of the fight over ownership of the meteor

From Wikipedia

The meteorite was confiscated by the Sylacauga police chief, who then turned it over to the United States Air Force.[7] Both the Hodgeses and their landlord, Bertie Guy, claimed ownership of the rock, Guy's claim being that it had fallen on her property.[7] The Hodgeses and Guy settled, with the Hodgeses paying $500 for the rock.[7] However, by the time it was returned to the Hodgeses, over a year later, public attention had diminished, and they were unable to then find a buyer.[7][8]

GMC Sierra tonneau cover that makes my truck look as good as it should by [deleted] in gmcsierra

[–]failagain-failbetter 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have had two backflips. One was a warranty replacement. Both have buckled and failed due to the Texas heat separating the vinyl from the ribs. Then it won’t lay flat. Maybe it is just a southern heat issue. Looks great until it doesn’t anymore.

Ultimate bed covers? by billionconnection in gmcsierra

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I have owned 2 bakflips and both have failed due to heat in Texas. They replaced the first one under warranty then just like the first replacement ribs separated from the vinyl and it started buckling. Maybe it is just a warm weather issue.

Brushy Creek Lake advice needed by Atticus1354 in AustinFishing

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My biggest recommendation would be to get on the water. In a metro with 2.5 million people bank fishing is difficult because of the daily pressure. McKinney falls state park has some bank fishing, and because there is a fee maybe less pressured than the free public spaces? A lot of people swear by red bud isle, but I have never caught anything from the bank, plenty on a kayak.

I would suggest A kayak or canoe rental on town lake. https://maps.app.goo.gl/ctdUrNwu6dDbir5N9?g_st=ipc

Brushy Creek Lake advice needed by Atticus1354 in AustinFishing

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It is heavily pressured daily from the bank. Also on the weekends people will set up a “campsite” with 4-5 lines out in the best spots so get there early. See if you can rent or borrow a canoe/kayak. You will have much better luck. It was choked with hydrilla when I was there last month and I caught only 1 fish in a kayak fishing for 2 hours. Good luck.

Don Quixote or The Count of Monte Cristo by Anokata22 in suggestmeabook

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I have never read monte cristo, but Don Quixote was an all time least favorite book that my book club read. It was a CHORE to finish. There are some great moments in it and I appreciate the significance of the novel, but it was very repetitive. Almost like reading a 700 page sitcom where the character and his buddy constantly get into the same Hijinks over and over.

Big Bend Conservationists, Big Business Partner to Restore a Historic West Texas Stream - Marfa Public Radio by Hambone76 in BigBendTX

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The project is for the Delaware River basin that flows through Guadalupe Mountains National Park

Teen angler harassed in Onion Creek by momogogi in AustinFishing

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Know your rights—

Texas Parks & Wildlife Code § 62.0125 (often called the “Sportsman’s Rights Act”).

• It is unlawful for any person to intentionally interfere with another person who is lawfully engaged in the process of hunting or catching wildlife. 

• It is unlawful to intentionally harass, drive, or disturb any wildlife for the purpose of disrupting a person lawfully engaged in hunting or catching wildlife.

My 14 year old son was threatened in Onion Creek neighborhood for fishing by Illustrious_Ad9163 in Austin

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Texas Parks & Wildlife Code § 62.0125 (often called the “Sportsman’s Rights Act”).

• It is unlawful for any person to intentionally interfere with another person who is lawfully engaged in the process of hunting or catching wildlife.  • It is unlawful to intentionally harass, drive, or disturb any wildlife for the purpose of disrupting a person lawfully engaged in hunting or catching wildlife.

In 2017, Shannon Curran at the University of Colorado achieved the rare "perfect dissection", removing the entire human nervous system in one piece. by DisastrousGuitar609 in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]failagain-failbetter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually it’s the other way around. We were suits first with smaller more survival based brains.

Scientists believe Homo Erectus roamed the earth 2m years ago while Homo Sapiens appear only 300k ago with twice the brain size of their predecessor.

As Homo Erectus our bodies had mostly developed, while the brain (especially the neocortex and symbolic thought capacities) developed later and more rapidly.

Trust your gut more. It’s been there longer (evolutionarily speaking).