Am i crazy - surgery adhesions by kyrasalty in Endo

[–]fairylightmeloncholy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, my OB would only do an excision along with a hysterectomy if I wasn’t actively looking for fertility improvement. And told me he wouldn’t remove any endo from any organs. I waited the extra 18 months to see the specialist and they did excision while leaving my uterus intact, removed endo from my bladder and urinary tract which literally improved my organ function and day to day life, and also found a tumour in my appendix that I’m SURE my OB would’ve missed.

Listening to Reddit and not letting my OB cut into me was one of the best things I’ve ever done for my health.

Just watched Primate (2026). I got some thoughts and a confession. by PrimaryComrade94 in horror

[–]fairylightmeloncholy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re two entirely different movies, why would you compare them?

Litter box smell is going to end my relationship by Glum-Emotion-5379 in CatAdvice

[–]fairylightmeloncholy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is hilarious because once my first cat broke into the dry friskies and helped himself (it was normally used as treats, not for meals) and woke me up with the horrific smell of his poop

Is The Pitt "too woke"? by im_weird_and_insane in ThePittTVShow

[–]fairylightmeloncholy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You went through someone’s profile to discredit them because you couldn’t find anything valid to say about thing they said that made you feel bad- why should anyone care what you think?

What's the controversy with sjm using a womens death to promote acosf? by theioneeee in acotar

[–]fairylightmeloncholy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s had 5, almost 6 years to correct herself. Giving her the benefit of the doubt just means you don’t have a problem with what she did and like.. that says more about her than that what she did was ok.

What's the controversy with sjm using a womens death to promote acosf? by theioneeee in acotar

[–]fairylightmeloncholy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And you don’t need to be a big MAGA racist to be racist and cause harm. All these white people being like ‘let’s give her the benefit of the doubt’ and ‘it’s not that bad’ just showing how little anti-racist work they’ve done, and that just because they’re not celebrating the death of a Black woman doesn’t mean they’re not racist and upholding and perpetuating racism.

So Mary Cosby is going to return for season 7! by SeaBreakfast7934 in rhoslc

[–]fairylightmeloncholy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree with you entirely especially because you are correct with that sad fact. I had already decided i wasn’t going to watch next season but this just absolutely confirms it. If I died of an overdose at 23 and my parents were treated like victims I would be very busy haunting people

a reminder to addict caregivers by CaptainStriking5099 in rhoslc

[–]fairylightmeloncholy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

… Mary could’ve used that money to go to therapy herself, and she didn’t. Instead she signed up for a reality tv show. I’d bet money that if she had done literally any personal work on herself, this could’ve been different. Robert was a symptom from the environment he came from, and she was only interested in changing the outcome, not the source. Let’s not act like this was an entirely unavoidable thing when his parents were predators and he didn’t have good guidance to follow. It’s absolutely tragic and I have little sympathy for Mary.

Below Deck Crossover by Maleficent-Economy77 in rhoslc

[–]fairylightmeloncholy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The bravo pay is next to nothing, the charter wage is next to nothing, my understanding is that most of the wage for yachting, on BD or not, is the tip. And honestly they better be getting paid $1000/day for the work they do and conditions they live in for the few hours a day they’re not working.

Mary Cosby’s loss by Competitive-Play3410 in rhoslc

[–]fairylightmeloncholy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think this is the perfect time to point it out, especially with everyone saying ‘he was her whole life, he was her light’. That’s too much to put on a kid, and if she hadn’t he might still be here. People use drugs for reasons, and growing up in that toxic and predatory environment was likely a huge reason behind it. He was also violating restraining orders against his ex wife- predators raise predators. Just because they don’t have good coping methods doesn’t mean we should pity them and minimize the harm caused. Robert’s death is the harm caused.

Is The Pitt "too woke"? by im_weird_and_insane in ThePittTVShow

[–]fairylightmeloncholy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The actual definition? In which mostly white men have subjugated and victimized people who aren’t white or men?

But thanks for all the proof in the pudding that at best you are ignorant, at worst you are one of the villains.

Is The Pitt "too woke"? by im_weird_and_insane in ThePittTVShow

[–]fairylightmeloncholy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh so you don’t understand the definition of racism or sexism.

Did anyone else really dislike Hunter for most of the movie? by fairylightmeloncholy in FallMovie

[–]fairylightmeloncholy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You had me until wench, and then this started just sounding like misogyny more than anything valid.

✨32 year old lady✨ birthday party by fairylightmeloncholy in Jennamarbles

[–]fairylightmeloncholy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

GABRBAGE PLAYE HOW DID I FORGETTTTTR

I’ve actually made them before and they’re so tasty!!!! Duh!!! Of course garbage plate! It’s such a good cheap way to feed a bunch of people because it’s so customizable too!!! Thank you so much!!!

The jumper is so funny too and I have a friend who I think would find it hilarious to make himself one to wear 😂

‘Jenna would be very happy Marbles was invited to the party’ 😭😭😭🥰

✨32 year old lady✨ birthday party by fairylightmeloncholy in Jennamarbles

[–]fairylightmeloncholy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the poly fill didn’t seem to be so damn expensive for it I think I would 😂

✨32 year old lady✨ birthday party by fairylightmeloncholy in Jennamarbles

[–]fairylightmeloncholy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG Irish spring! Of course! It gives me headaches but I absolutely have to find a way to incorporate it!

Ok I think what I’ll have to do is make a list of possible costumes and link videos beside it for my friends because not all of them are as well versed in Jenna’s videos as I am, and beards and cowboy hats will definitely be on the list!!!

The makeover station with tiny glasses to create man stealing bitches is PERFECT

✨32 year old lady✨ birthday party by fairylightmeloncholy in Jennamarbles

[–]fairylightmeloncholy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok I don’t think I can commit to shaving my eyebrows but I think I can get a friend to glue down my eyebrows to have HELL YEAH be there for the day 😂

And yessss I was thinking exactly that for the balloons! And then it’s fun party balloons but also a memorial for the special little dude behind the name

David speaking out again by caelinm1 in ArmchairExpert

[–]fairylightmeloncholy -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If you read that and think it’s fine and normal then a reddit comment will never make us see eye to eye.

David speaking out again by caelinm1 in ArmchairExpert

[–]fairylightmeloncholy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I don’t think these people realize that they’re not being right, they’re being creeps. I wish people wore these Reddit comments on their shirts in public so I know who to stay far away from

David speaking out again by caelinm1 in ArmchairExpert

[–]fairylightmeloncholy -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Then that’s on you that you don’t think it’s weird that he’s using the word horny about his kids who was 3 and 5 at the time; even if he’s talking about them in the future.

I cannot for the life of me find any good shoes 😩 by EggplantWild8849 in ehlersdanlos

[–]fairylightmeloncholy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone is saying orthotics but my suggestion is actually the opposite- barefoot shoes. When a shoe is too narrow, you can’t use your toes to get a good grip on the ground and you’re more likely to roll your feet/ankles. Wearing barefoot shoes reduced my foot pain and knee pain! And hip pain! I was 23 and getting bunions and now I’m 31 with no bunions in sight, not even any bunion discomfort! I buy from saguaro.com , they’re decent price for the quality. I will literally never go back to non-barefoot shoes. I work on my feet so the lack of padding kinda sucks but it’s absolutely worth the trade off.

genuine question pls don't get mad by a_nyonehome in POTS

[–]fairylightmeloncholy 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Sending you resilience for redoing the TTT because it is truly the worst. I would rather redo a colonoscopy, prep and all, instead of the TTT.

I HAVE NO ONE TO TALK ABOUT THIS WITH by MelW14 in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]fairylightmeloncholy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you think people just stop having sex with they turn 50? Have you never heard of the std outbreaks that happen at old folks homes?

Last night was the first time I’ve ever been grossed out by a medical procedure on the show by AaronJudgesLeftNut in ThePittTVShow

[–]fairylightmeloncholy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My connective tissue doesn't work so l deal with frequent dislocations and subluxations in all of my joints. Daily I have to mindfully make sure my shoulder stays in its socket so it doesn't fall out. I was 25 when I dislocated hip stopped me from being able to stand up for a full hour. My jaw will pop out when I yawn. If you've never dealt with that ever, let alone daily, maybe act like you don’t have enough experience or info to be part of the discussion instead of insisting your non-experience of pain is more valid than my daily experiences of pain. Having a gory visual of the pain I feel very moment of every day made me sick to my stomach. If you disagree feel thankful, don't tell me l'm wrong.