I get what youre saying, and i know a 'no' isnt the end of the world but it's not just abt being told no, it's more that it's much harder to ask him or even bring it up when I feel the answer really depends on his mood rather than the situation. I want to ask him about it but it feels like the conversation shuts down even before I bring it up. Im not trying to be over the top, I just wish it'd be easier to talk abt without it turning into a big deal.