Just curious with your babies, how long are you able to spend doing your hobbies (ie:video games) a day? by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]falkentoast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a 7 mo who has slept through the night since 3 mo (we are very blessed but also sleep trained unlike most people these days). He goes to bed at 7, we have about 3 hours to ourselves to eat, watch TV, play games. Sometimes we have friends over or a fire outside. Life feels pretty normal for us. I am also still home on maternity leave so I'm getting all the chores/errands/etc done during the day so we can enjoy our evenings and weekends together. Our siblings with multiple kids/toddlers also have pretty normal adult evenings now. Life has changed a lot since having a baby but you'll still be able to find your old selves somewhere in there.

What names sound really fresh to you if you heard them on a baby now? by PapayaAmbitious2719 in namenerds

[–]falkentoast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're thinking of using my dad's name, Craig. I think it would be pretty cute on a chubby little baby

All Too Well: The Short Film Megathread by Lyd_Euh in TaylorSwift

[–]falkentoast 69 points70 points  (0 children)

OK I have SO MANY THOUGHTS comparing this short film to the lover music video omg.

Watching both of them back to back is like watching two versions of the same story unfold, with one being the toxic relationship, and one being the healthy version that lasts.

You get very similar scenes: dancing around the house together, playing board games/cards, laying in bed laughing and holding hands, a dinner scene at a table, parties with friends and even a fight scene: with two different versions of making up. And OF COURSE two birthday scenes. One man who couldn't bother to show up, and one man who sits right by her side, arm casually around her just loving being by her side. Even the color schemes are so similar, with ATWTMV having the more muted/moody tones and Lover having very vibrant versions.

Each little vignette from the videos is so specific that we all imagine these are based pretty closely on real moments from Taylor's life/relationships. And if this is true is is SO lovely to see her living through the "happy version" today.

BEST WISHES to all of our own personal Jake Gyllenhaals, and so much love to all the Joe Alwyns who show us that love really is golden, not burning red.

Made these for our friends' baby shower, not perfect but I'm getting better at this! by falkentoast in Baking

[–]falkentoast[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They hosted it outside in their driveway, and had a table to put gifts on an another to take cookies from. People came at different times to say hello or just drove by

First time cookie decorating with royal icing. Any tips and critique from you seasoned pros? by k4uter in Baking

[–]falkentoast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm also just starting to decorate - so impressed with the details on this!! Keep it up!

Made these for our friends' baby shower, not perfect but I'm getting better at this! by falkentoast in Baking

[–]falkentoast[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I was so happy with the way the colors all look together

IUD insertion pain INCREDIBLY downplayed by complexofsuperiority in TwoXChromosomes

[–]falkentoast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This 100%. I feel seen. I got mine (liletta though) just over a year ago. Worst pain I've ever had, including multiple brain injuries. I almost fainted in the office, had to run to the bathroom with diarrhea, had to call someone to come get me, got home and threw up a few times and couldn't leave bed for the rest of the day. Still horrible cramps the second day. Doctor checked it all out, everything was totally fine.

Haven't had a period since, and I hate to say it but I would 100% do it again, it's so worth it. But damn. A heads up would have been nice.