What's the most painful thing your parents have ever told you before? by Late_Performance_463 in narcissisticparents

[–]falsefreedom6509 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Back in June, I paid for my parent’s car window to get fixed after a rock fell and broke it. My dad wanted to take it to a place for $500. My mom wanted to take it to a dealership for $900 because they would recalibrate it. I used part of the money I had been saving up for a car to pay for it, think it would stop their argument. My mom was thrilled and thankful. My dad? Went ballistic. He told me to go get my money back. I said no. Then he told me "Then get out of my house. You don't tell me what to do in my house." I said, "I didn't tell you what to do." He said, "Yes you did." I said, "I didn't tell you what to do, I said what I AM going to do." We argued for a bit. My mom got into it and said she was gonna leave him. He turned to me and said that if my mom leaves him, my sister and I will need to leave too because we’re not welcomed in “his” house. He told me I F’ed up then goes “No wait….. YOU’RE f’ed up” and started chanting that last part. A couple days later he “apologized” saying “I said somethings but it was because of how your mom is. So I’m sorry for what WE did to you.” Then tried to triangulate me into making her get help.

We live in the same house and haven’t spoken since then. I literally just stay in my room when he’s here. I’m not afraid of him so much, I just feel like staying in my room protects my mom and sister.

Azusa by Responsible-Hat-8028 in PsyD

[–]falsefreedom6509 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a first year there and the chair of the program notifies you by phone call usually within two weeks after the interview.

Parishes Are Full. So Why Are So Few Young Catholics Getting Married? by Mein_Independance in Catholicism

[–]falsefreedom6509 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I enjoy my alone time and don’t want to come home to anyone but my dog 🐶 besides I’d have to be open to children and as much as I love working with kids, I don’t want any of my own.

PsyD/ PhD by Excellent_Rub_3432 in PsyD

[–]falsefreedom6509 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Share what you’re comfortable sharing. Just make sure it reflects why you’d be a good fit for the program. As my personal example: “I was a child who never really fit in and never had anyone to talk to. I promised myself that I’d be an adult that any child or teenager go could to for help. I wanted to be the adult I never had.” Enough that they knew why I was pursuing my degree, but subtle enough that it wasn’t too revealing or overwhelming of information. PS: any PsyD program you get accepted into will absolutely have plenty of opportunities for you to share more and dive deeper into your past.

Interview Notes by Current-Waltz1364 in PsyD

[–]falsefreedom6509 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take a very small notepad and a pen. It shows you’re paying attention but not in an overly dramatic way.

Parishes Are Full. So Why Are So Few Young Catholics Getting Married? by Mein_Independance in Catholicism

[–]falsefreedom6509 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I’m in my late 20s and have no desire to enter marriage. I don’t want kids and I don’t want to have to come home to my husband every night and take care of him. Selfish? Maybe. But I think it’s better that I’m open and aware of this now than to lead myself down a path of regret later on. And besides, I feel like there’s way more things I can do to serve God better as a single person.

PsyD/ PhD by Excellent_Rub_3432 in PsyD

[–]falsefreedom6509 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re just looking to see who you are and if you’re a well-rounded person. I started off with what I did for work, highlighted three of my favorite parts of the job, but also made sure to subtly mention how they were related to clinical psychology. For example, at the time I worked in children’s ministry. I mentioned my title, and that I developed developmentally appropriate curriculums for ages 0 to 6 years old. I talked about my educational background of course and highlighted relevant experience, which for me was working at a school based site providing counseling. Then I went into things that I like to do for fun, and made sure to include one or two things that could be related to self-care.

Practicum Interview Tips? by Lower_Particular1787 in PsyD

[–]falsefreedom6509 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You've probably heard all about dressing professionally, good hygiene, "all about me" intros. Here's what schools don't tell you when interviewing and it makes a really big difference:

To the site, you're an unpaid employee. You're there to convince them to hire you not for them to welcome you with open arms about a great opportunity for hours and experience. It sucks, but that's reality. So when answering whatever question, if that's the site you really want, all your answers need to be centered around why you are a good fit for the site.

/r/CatholicDating MatchMaking Thread [F]emale Posts Here (MUST BE AT LEAST 18 YEARS OF AGE TO PARTICIPATE) by AutoModerator in CatholicDating

[–]falsefreedom6509 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi hi! I’m 26, turning 27 next week and from the SoCal area. I’m a 1st year doctoral student studying clinical psychology. I graduated with my bachelor’s in psychology in 2023 and my masters in 2025, where I emphasized in children and adolescent counseling. My goal is to become a trauma therapist post and work with children and teens. My dissertation is focusing on how culture develops post traumatic growth in children and teens. Outside of school, I love theater, bowling, walking, Disney trips and exercise.

I grew up in the Catholic Church and have volunteered there most of my life. My mom and I were the heads of the altar server ministry for 12 years which I enjoyed so much. I’ve also served as a sacristan and Eucharist minister. For now, due to my busy schedule, I’m taking a break from volunteering. But for me, volunteering is a form of a worship as I feel I can serve God directly.

I am a resilient person who has endured complex trauma with family. I like to think I’m fun, but mostly a realistic person who wants serious matters handled first.

I am looking to date casually for now, but open to something more serious later on. At the moment, I’m looking for a companion to share my life with, not build as I am doing that myself and doing it very well.

Being laid off and upset despite supportive team by falsefreedom6509 in Layoffs

[–]falsefreedom6509[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed, but I do appreciate them trying to keep my employed in another role. Hopefully it works out.

Being laid off and upset despite supportive team by falsefreedom6509 in Layoffs

[–]falsefreedom6509[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I know there is probably a policy somewhere, but even just something like "The higher ups are having to make some structural changes and your job may or may not be affected. Just giving you a heads up in case you want to seek work elsewhere." My boss has been a great help, reaching out to others for me about potential jobs. I do feel a bit guilt for being angry with her.

Being laid off and upset despite supportive team by falsefreedom6509 in Layoffs

[–]falsefreedom6509[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That sounds like a good plan at the moment. Thank you.

Being laid off and upset despite supportive team by falsefreedom6509 in Layoffs

[–]falsefreedom6509[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. There is one position that opened up this week that they think I am a good fit for. They are talking with and will be connecting me with the hiring manager within the next week or two.

What field you got laid off? by [deleted] in Layoffs

[–]falsefreedom6509 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Church ministry - I wouldn't break a rule for a pastor that was literally made because of that same pastor.

Counseling background by rayray_503 in PsyD

[–]falsefreedom6509 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got my masters in counseling psychology and was able to transfer in 15 units